dream what i want to forget
By yolanda19191
@yolanda19191 (1934)
China
July 27, 2009 7:21am CST
these days, i always dream a dream in the evening.
i decide to forget somebody in the daytime. but in the evening, i dream him evening by evening. 
i do hope i can forget the dream after i'm awake. but it is so clear when i get up. though not so sad, also not happpy ones for me.
if it's true, what we think in the daytime, and then we will dream them in the evening?
i decide to forget somebody in the daytime. but in the evening, i dream him evening by evening.
i do hope i can forget the dream after i'm awake. but it is so clear when i get up. though not so sad, also not happpy ones for me.
if it's true, what we think in the daytime, and then we will dream them in the evening?1 person likes this
5 responses
@quita88 (3715)
• United States
27 Jul 09
Not sure what to tell you,but dreams do have meaning.
The best thing you can do is talk this over with someone you trust and get it out of your system.
He, whoever he is , is probably not worth your worry anyways.
Keep telling yourself this !
But, talk to someone and get yourself settled.
quita88
@yolanda19191 (1934)
• China
28 Jul 09
quita88
i find u'r very funny.
i really do as u telling me now.
'he, whoever he is, is probably not worth my worry anyways.' maybe dont be too serious, life will be easy. 
i find u'r very funny.
i really do as u telling me now.
'he, whoever he is, is probably not worth my worry anyways.' maybe dont be too serious, life will be easy. @quita88 (3715)
• United States
28 Jul 09
I didn't aim to come off as funny------------
Men are not worth the time and effort we put into them.
Just think about it. Has this guy given you so much as the time of day?
Has he called lately?
Do you think YOU are the object of HIS dreams? I doubt it !
It's up to you. Forget him and go out with a different attitude and find a LIFE an do not look back !!!
@daeckardt (6237)
• United States
27 Jul 09
Dreams are interesting at times. It seems that unconsciously you want to keep this person with you but consciously you want to forget. Is it possible that you really do want to remember? I know it is hard to get away from certain situations, but maybe it wasn't meant to happen that way. I don't know what the situation is and I hope you are able to resolve it. Have a great day!!!
@yolanda19191 (1934)
• China
28 Jul 09
daeckardt, ur analysis is very right. consciously, want to forget, that's the reality. while, unconsciously, want to keep, that's the ideal.
that's the contradiction, which brings the pain to life.
the specific details is too long, so i didnt state above.
but now i choose to be calm down, and let the time help to prove sth.
tks, daeckardt
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@daeckardt (6237)
• United States
28 Jul 09
I hope that you are able to work this out. I know that it is possible to calm down. Have a great day!!!
@divkris (1156)
• India
27 Jul 09
dreams a re the minds version of what you think. So i think it is indicating you do do something - probably you need to sort out things with him, or if you still don't know him you may see him in some time - i hope you understood what i mean.
So do not ignore your inner conscience's message and i'm sure you will only get good. :)
@yolanda19191 (1934)
• China
28 Jul 09
hi, divkris. maybe i know what u mean. u let me face the problem, to sort out the things with him face to face, right?
in fact, when facing the feelings, i always choose the escape.
@ChrysanTflower (1607)
• Indonesia
28 Jul 09
sorry to hear that.. What dream is it that make you so confuse and wanna forget it?
Not really.. I've ever wanna dream about someone then I think about him everytime. but I didn't have any dream about him. I think what we don't want to remember in daytime will come into our dream. or if we obsessed with something then we will get a dream about that thing..
@yolanda19191 (1934)
• China
28 Jul 09
ChrysanTflower
seems the inner mind is more impressed by the negative thinking.
well, i dont know if u ever had such a condition or not. want to forget somebody, cause u feel u have no hope to be together happily. but in fact, the more u want to forget, the more u will dream of him in the evening?
@LetranKnight25 (33117)
• Philippines
27 Jul 09
I immediately forget them when ever i am awake but there are few dreams that is hard to forget. but i forget it if i get to dream again. they say that if a person is tired he/she will have nightmares.@yolanda19191 (1934)
• China
28 Jul 09
hmm, most of the time, we forget what we dream in the evening.
but sometimes will remember clearly, even for a long time.
why tired, nightmares?
i think if watching horror movie before sleeping, will have nightwares.
i think if watching horror movie before sleeping, will have nightwares.