will you seek for help from your famlily when you are in trouble

China
July 28, 2009 3:06am CST
from things i heared or saw , many people broke up with their brothers or sisters, even parents, just for their own benefits. it's not easy to understand for me.
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@med889 (5941)
28 Jul 09
Whenever I am in trouble my family are always here for me and to support me either financially or emotionally this is what I appreciate in my family, we may be angry with someone, one of the members but when we need a help they are always here to offer their support.
• United States
28 Jul 09
some people have been hurt by their family, physically and emotionally. And in those cases I understand why they do not have contact with them. They do not want to be hurt again. But there are some people who do not talk to family for petty and unimportant reasons. One day they will regret that time they lost. Usually people realize their mistakes when it's too late.
@lovedude (4447)
• India
28 Jul 09
I don't seek for help from my family but yeah I love my family alot.. whenever they need I stand.. but whenever I need someone for help.. I try my best to solve it by myself only..
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@vivianchen (2646)
• China
28 Jul 09
To me, i think my family is alway my spirit support. They don't have enough money to help me with my trouble, but they can give me strengh to over come the difficulties. When you metioned about trouble, there are some trouble that money can settled, and others money can't. So it really depends.
• India
28 Jul 09
My family will be the first person to be help me when i am in trouble.I am free to discuss the real problem with them and they also see to it that they boost my moral first. They never let me down and finds out some solution or the other for my problems. They are also there during my financial crisis. So I believe it is the family who can help and support you at the time of trouble.
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@dex1007 (556)
• Malaysia
28 Jul 09
of course. family is family. there are times when we fight, don't talk for days, months, but when someone needs something, we're always there for each other. It's expected. My family is closer then most others, even if there are fights that others don't have, its the fights that brings us close. i think.. haha.
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@hsofyan (3446)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
28 Jul 09
Hi Xiaowen, nice to meet you... There is a problem that can be discussed with the family, but there are also problems that are more appropriate if discussed with friends. No communication or the relationship with the family is not a wise action. An anything, they keep your family, can not be changed! You can decide friendship, but you can not decide a family.
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