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mrssator2002 @mrssator2002 (281) • Philippines 29 Oct 09

I've been married for 8 years to a guy who's family never warmed up to me. I did everything to win them over. God knows I've always tried to reach them but they used to ignore me. But then they even treat my kids badly and it...

marriage worth

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stephwrites From reading all the posts here, I would have to agree with everyone and put both your feet down. That means give them a choice, they change their attitudes and disrespect or they have no relationship with any of you. But that also means your husband will not...

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stephwrites @stephwrites (275) • United States 29 Oct 09

My adorable sweet black and white cat Tuxedo has started pooping on the floor in my dining room. He has a cat box ten feet away and he can even go sit by the sliding door three feet away and I would let him out. So why is he...

cat

floor

poop

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ElsaElsa @ElsaElsa (323) • United States 27 Oct 09

Typically, I spend Black Friday chilling out at home, cleaning and tidying things up from the day before. I have never gone shopping at 2 am. It nice to have a nice relaxing weekend when everything is done and I have nothing...

black friday

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stephwrites yes, it's a stress reliever but not enough to get trampled over! that would just negate any highes I got from the shopping experience!

28 Oct 09

ElsaElsa @ElsaElsa (323) • United States 27 Oct 09

Typically, I spend Black Friday chilling out at home, cleaning and tidying things up from the day before. I have never gone shopping at 2 am. It nice to have a nice relaxing weekend when everything is done and I have nothing...

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stephwrites me too elsa, I would rather be at home relaxing and recovering from cooking and stressful family gatherings than out in the madness of shopping the day after thanksgiving. I sometimes go out if I stay overnight at my moms since she lives in a small town. but...

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grandpa_lash @grandpa_lash (5226) • Australia 25 Oct 09

My partner and I have just each read a Carol O'Connell book in which a priest, not only having taken the confession of a serial killer but having an ongoing, if unwilling, correspondence with him, refuses to break the seal of the...

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stephwrites I agree with you on this one Lash, shocking, isn't it? grin. If this person were not a priest, he would be required by law to report any confession to the police and be prosecuted to the full extent of the law. But unfortunately, a priest has been give special...

27 Oct 09

grandpa_lash @grandpa_lash (5226) • Australia 25 Oct 09

My partner and I have just each read a Carol O'Connell book in which a priest, not only having taken the confession of a serial killer but having an ongoing, if unwilling, correspondence with him, refuses to break the seal of the...

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stephwrites amen flowerchilde! I agree wholeheartedly!!

27 Oct 09

Sheri @tuckersheri (1323) • United States 25 Oct 09

I have had thoughts of suicide before and it was not a good thing. I would have a really bad day and just think about how much happier I would be in heaven. I sometime would think about my life and how bad it was. I relize my life...

sucidal thoughts

suicidal

thoughts

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stephwrites darth, you may not believe in God but some of us do and we are not stupid just because we do not agree with you. You can live with your thoughts and I can live with mine and we can still get along! Just like some people are prejudice against someone with...

26 Oct 09

LadyMarissa @LadyMarissa (12149) • United States 24 Oct 09

When one of my cats poops, it stinks to high heaven!!! Recently, I can see him sitting in the next room & I get a whiff of that same smell. I can see he didn't go to the litter room. I've been searching high & low to...

dayum that stinks

stinky cat

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stephwrites yep, mine do it too! we've smelled them across the room and it never fails to stink it up for the next 2 hours or more.

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jcmile @jcmile (16) • Philippines 26 Oct 09

how will you describe life? do u think that money alone can make u happy? Do you think if you have the 6 digit of your bank account you are ready to die..? Or do you think that once you acquire everything you want in life you will...

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stephwrites Life is a period of time. And doing things you don't like or having things you don't want is a waste of time. That is my philosophy. But it's also about having a clean conscience. So the best way to enjoy life is make it about things and people you like and do...

26 Oct 09

sarahlqf @sarahlqf (11) • China 25 Oct 09

Nowadays, more and more couples divorce. The reasons are common: the husband has another woman outside, or the wife has another man. They don't really hate each other. they just happen to meet another person they feel in love....

divorce

true love

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stephwrites I have been married twice. Once to a man who was not willing to commit and put his family first. and now, to a carng, honest, committed family man. In these two experiences, I can see that love is a choice. both people have to make the choice and commitment to...

26 Oct 09

beautifulBrooke @beautifulBrooke (191) • United States 22 Oct 09

I realize "religious" topics tend to get heated. Let's not do that here please. I already have my own views and opinions on this topic and I'm curious as to what others think. should a Christian participate in any way with the...

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stephwrites We don't 'celebrate' Halloween really. We just let the kids go out and have some fun. I don't let them wear anything 'scary' or witchy or bloody. They have to find something pretty fun and neutral. And now that they are older, the 19, 16 and 13 year old don't...

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deberooney @deberooney (418) • United States 23 Oct 09

Do you ever feel totally unappreciated? I feel like no one is listening to me anymore...the kids ignore me and don't listen and my husband thinks I'm a piece of furnature! WTH is a person to do to get some attention short of...

sad

under appreciated

wife

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stephwrites I too have had this problem. They start to take you for granted after awhile and it sucks! But as Dr Phil says, 'you teach people how to treat you.' First analyze. Do you tell them thank you when they do something or give you something? You have to set the...

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Always smiling @allknowing (120806) • India 23 Oct 09

When I spotted my first grey hair my instant reaction was I was depressed and almost went to pluck it but heard someone say that if I did that the next day I will find two and so I left it there! Do share your stories.

greying

lifestyle

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stephwrites I'm 40 now and I found them about two years ago. But I knew it would be early cuz my dad went grey when he was in his thirties. I usually dye it cuz I don't want to look old at 40. But grey hair doesn't hold color well and I usually have to redye it every two...

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Kewlbeans @Kewlbeans (20) • United States 23 Oct 09

I love chocolate! I adore chocolate! I can't imagine my life without it! But it got me to wondering, what type of chocolate could be considered the best? What kind do you like? The American chocolates, milk and dark chocolate? Or...

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stephwrites Hershey's Dark Chocolate!! that's my favorite. I haven't found anything else I like. I've tried other american dark chocolates but this is the only one I like so far. although I haven't tried any european ones. but that's okay, I'm happy with my dark chocolate...

23 Oct 09

BART78 @BART78 (2927) • Canada 22 Oct 09

do you usually buy sanitary napkin for your wife if she us you to? how do you feel holding it while you are in long queue in grocery stores?

female napkins

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stephwrites My husband does this for me and it shows me just how much he loves me! Just think of it as an adventure, a new challenge. The men in line might think you are 'whipped' but the women in line will smile and wish that their man would do it for them! There are...

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CRIVAS @CRIVAS (1815) • Canada 22 Oct 09

Or do you find that you have an easier time, if you just clean it up yourself? Do you think that it is important to teach your children to clean up after themselves? Why or why not?

cleaning

kids

parenting

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stephwrites yes, definitely make them clean it up. if you don't they will expect you to do it and not do any chores or cleaning for the rest of their lives. and you are not going to be there to clean up after them when they leave home. their coworkers, roommates, bosses...

22 Oct 09

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