Thanks, Sorry,Why did you, How to stuffs - Where is mylot's accountability?

@mimpi1911 (25464)
India
July 28, 2009 6:33am CST
My association with mylot has been 3 years now. I absolutely love this place and endorse the brand everywhere I get a chance to. It has been a beautiful affair so far with some undefined happiness and solace. Does that mean I have had no complaints whatsoever? Oh yes, I had been angry, I had been annoyed, sad because of mylot's unaccountability to all things good, bad or worse. You raise your voice and you get a thrash! I have lost innumerable points here and of late, some 4-5 dollars at one go, just like that! And today I lost more than 20 (24 to be precise) points, third time in a row! I am upset, that's not unjustified but I am not going to quit. My point is, how do we get a clear picture of whatever happening here? There is no one who can help us with our queries, there is no one whom we can say Thanks, Sorry, Why did you, How to stuffs? Good or bad mylot should be accountable. Where is mylot's accountability?
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19 responses
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
28 Jul 09
Hi Mimpi!! I can understand your agony and pain and I know you put in lots of hard work in your discussions/responses/comments and if any of your posts get deleted or your total number of posts suddenly comes down without any rhyme or reason, you are bound to feel bad and hurt. Losing 4-5 dollars also looks pretty bad, because it is not an easy task to earn those 4-5 dollars here. I think, you can address your issues to mylot authorities and check if they respond to your queries. I think 'writing' them may be of some help. As far as reduction in posts is concerned, few days ago, when one day I opened my mylot page, my posts suddenly got reduced from 7711 to 7694 in front of my eyes and I could not believe it. I think, when some re-alignment or re-adjustment of posts is done or some older or unwanted posts are deleted, and if we have contributed to those posts, our total number also comes down. Having said all this, there are many 'positive things' on mylot, which we should 'celebrate' and 'enjoy'.
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
28 Jul 09
Thanks Deepak. I celebrate each moment I get to spend here. This place is wonderful! It also hurts when you see unjustified elimination and termination of accounts and other thins that we have no clue about! I have written to them and also wrote today about this. Having said this, I just read Mikee's post where he writes about admin getting back to him telling him that they are working o these flaws. I am hopeful. Let's be patient.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
28 Jul 09
Mimpi! I agree with you. I think dear friend mysdiana has clarified the issue to a great extent and the link which she has provided also clears our doubts.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
30 Jul 09
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
28 Jul 09
Hi mimpi! I love it here too, so much that probably I get too involved emotionally I am here for over two years and I see many great things, I have met many great people from all over the world, many who have become friends outside of the Lot and offline too. It saddens me that some others come and use our home here for their own benefit, using us too, then they disappear and we do not always know why. I have faith that myLot will be around for many years to come and in order to achieve this they must be strict and stick to their Terms, which we all agree to on joining. Some of the users, who while they are here become friends, do not follow exactly what they agreed to and when myLot becomes aware of this they lose their account. At that point those that had befriended them are sad and complain, without being aware of what caused the deletion. I feel we should trust myLot. They need us here to keep their site alive but they cannot accomodate those users who do things their own way obviously. If we need to contact them we can use the link at the bottom of the page. If the matter has not been covered in the FAQs and does not concern another user then they WILL RESPOND as many recently, myself included, can confirm.
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
29 Jul 09
Thanks for your response. I agree with you there. However, you kind of misinterpreted my thoughts. I love this place and no way I am belittling myLot's pretty face. There are certainly many factors that result in various discrepancies. Transparency is lovely and I am sure you too want that here. I am sorry that my message got mixed up there. Have a nice day.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
28 Jul 09
Mys! We are thankful to mylot that we met you here and you are such a wonderful and helping friend that words will fail to describe about you.
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
28 Jul 09
It's TEAMWORK! I read a lot and pass it on then YOU read it too
@alokn99 (5717)
• India
28 Jul 09
Twenty four is a very large number to get deleted Mimpi and i really hope that this would not have affected your earnings. I noticed my count decreasing by two yesterday and i am irritated and have a lot of questions. I can understand what you must be going through , now that it's happened for the 3rd time in the recent past. Yes the site is great and it's one of a kind. I would endorse and recommend it. I would still participate in it. And it for these reasons that i for one would want to have to have a total understanding or the system. Why is there such a drastic decrease in the number of posts in one day as in your cae? Is it because of the deletion of one or more number of members ? Is it because of the deletion of some discussions ? What does make it more puzzling is when there is no message/no communication on this front at all and you are left to guess the reasons of it on your own. It's because we find this place special, that we will always the encourage the good and find ways of improving or noticing things we find deficient. You are justified in seeking answers Mimpi. I know i would want to know or hear of some communication as well.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
29 Jul 09
Thanks for your concern. we all love this place to be a good one where we live together with much respect for each other. As we both know that this discussion is not about my grouches about my earning and points. We all want little bit of transparency. Many here have misinterpreted my thoughts. Accountability is not bad and i am not demanding anything from anyone. The maliciousness must be reported and i try to do that all the time and so do you. We all love mylot.
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@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
23 Jan 13
I was gonna say 'Well, they don't hold YOU accountable.' And they really don't, but they kinda do To explain how they don't hold you accountable, I have to tell you that I get kind of annoyed at game-shows when they refer to 'earned-points lost' as "MONEY lost"---I'm practically jumping up-&-down screaming 'NO, YOU DIDN'T "LOSE" THAT MONEY; YOU NEVER HAD THAT MONEY IN THE FIRST PLACE ' Just the same way, you can't LOSE money on myLot; not unless you gave them money to give back to you. What you 'lose' is credit myLot thought they had given you but discovered that they COULDN'T give you that credit. THAT'S who they are accountable to: themselves, just like you are accountable to YOURself.
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
28 Jul 09
Hi Mou Well , nice discussion. U r right the time u spent is like an affair as u spend time here and time is part of ur life but if you will ask me, then i would say that if its ur affairs and it give you many happy moments, then we shoould complaint about some bad patches. u never know if u loose these points cause of ur discussion or some other discussion you participated in. And should not go for accoutability in Affair, but sacrifice is best Part I am glad that mylot gave me some very nice and good friend, i dont want anything else from here Take care
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
29 Jul 09
Would you not want your loved ones to be open, transparent and stand with conviction and answerable to good or bad in their lives?
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
29 Jul 09
Hi Mou relations are based on trust and sicerity. and sure i would never want them to be standing liable and answerable. may be i am wrong, but its ME
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
29 Jul 09
Lucky your kid who can do a mistake and can get away with !!
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
28 Jul 09
Hi Mimpi, First of all congratulations for completing three years here, in mylot. I am sorry to learn about losing points. Today I am also a victim of loosing 7 points at one go. I tried to check it which discussion got deleted and found two (started by tigeruncle – Subash, the whole discussion he started got deleted) then I stopped the search by thinking why should I waste my time. (I have seen that you reply to him that is why I am revealing this). Losing 24 numbers is really high. I appreciate your mentality for not going to surrender. I think each member have their own disappointed stories to tell.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
28 Jul 09
Thanks Sreekala. Thanks a lot for mentioning about Subash. I received one message in AC from Subash's father telling that he has been banned here and can';t log in! I am really sorry to hear that. But you gave me the clue to my and your lost points! I have responded to almost all of his recent discussions and now he being banned his discussions are cleared! So, that justifies it all. I must ask myLot to reinstate Tigeruncle's account. It's disheartening to miss a regular user.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
28 Jul 09
Yes Mimpi, he was a regular user and starting good discussions. I don't know how he got banned. I think my lost points which I replied to him and I lost 3 BR too.
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
28 Jul 09
I am so sad when I read what is written here We all have users on our friend list and we help each other to have fun here and of course to earn. Sadly some of those users do not know the real meaning of the word 'friend' and they use us for their own benefit. The user 'tigeruncle' (I am sorry but I cannot call him a friend) was on many lists here including my own but he was not using myLot as it should have been used and has lost his account causing loss of posts and earnings to many, imcluding me. If we all read the responses in the discussions we respond to then we would be aware of what many other friends, real friends, try to point out. His discussions were plagiarised and that is not only a violation here but an offence. This friend warned us all but sadly some were still unaware http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/2082658.aspx
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@chaitra001 (3278)
• Bangalore, India
28 Jul 09
Hi mimpi Congrats for completing three years in mylot.. Even I was a victim of loosing points though its not today... I like your thinking that you dont want to give up with mylot... Happy myloting..
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
29 Jul 09
Thanks Chaitra. I have loved my association with this place. Mylot has given me many friends with whom I share offline attachments as well. I absolutely love this place.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
19 Dec 09
• Bangalore, India
30 Jul 09
yes mimpi you are right... here the people are very good and they will give good suggestions when needful..
@balasri (26537)
• India
29 Jul 09
What you seeking is very understndable and we just cannot grope in the dark conceding to whatever action taken on us.It is very unfair and we definitely seek better treatment from mylot.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
29 Jul 09
Nice to see you after a long while. I know you will not misinterpret my thoughts. Loving someone or something doesn't mean that we cannot be blatant with our thoughts on the goods and bads of it! I agree with you totally.
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
28 Jul 09
Well Mimpi I really do not know, I do wish Mylot would let us know how that many points can be lost I not so long ago lost 100 Points and do you know what was strange? I wasn't even active here at the time, so how di I manage to loose that many, if we knew why we lost them it would be ok, but it is always a puzzle, I am sorry you lost tat many points again
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
29 Jul 09
Gaby, yes I know your case. It's disheartening not as much as to lose the numbers or earning but more for the fact that we grope in the dark. Have a nice day!
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
30 Jul 09
Only after I read Deepk's rsponse and what you have written I became aware of things like this. Somehow I just peep in and respond or start a discussion topic and comment and do not look at much mimpi.I can understand how a person would feel if suddenly your points drop in front of your eyes.Thank God I have not looked hard at the bracket.As such i am pretty resigned to the slow earnings here and would not change my level of activity[it is based purely on freetime and my mood].You are a seasoned person ;I feel that you should just enjoy it for the sake of participation and adopt Deepak's strategy of looking at the positive things here.But you should contact admin and enquire about the 4 to 5 dollars reduction because that is far too high a figure and so much of hard work musthave gone into getting the amount.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
19 Dec 09
Do you really think I am bogged down by this? . I am pretty chilled out with stuffs like this. When it comes to real life matters, I try to be patient and peaceful. That's how I am.
@CJay77 (4438)
• Australia
28 Jul 09
Sorry to hear this mimpz, and I totally understand you. I mean, I've been there few times and till now I'm still losing some posts and earnings every now and then and like you, I still love this place. I do understand that we lost posts when we respond to some discussions that were deleted or the member were banned. But sometimes it's hard to say of which discussions will be deleted, so we can at least try to avoid responding to it. And like Alokn says, I also hope that your earnings wont be affected.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
29 Jul 09
Thanks Cjay. Its not about the earning and points. We guys are not here for that, are we? What's disheartening is the way its done. I know it's a difficult task to be open with the system but I am sure there are easier softwares that do it.
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
29 Jul 09
Yes, when you get paid for something you love doing - it's great!
@CJay77 (4438)
• Australia
29 Jul 09
Your are right, we're not here for the earnings or points, but we are also grateful that we earned a bit while we are having fun,. I do know what you mean and I hope you get some answer.
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
28 Jul 09
Hi mou, you are three years but I am merely 6 months but feel I have been hetre for ages but in a maze and mystery. I do not understand so many things here. I asked the old like youu and got the same 'sorry' answer. seconding your point issue I feel that mylot should have accountability. One thing is sure that we are not here for some pences and therefotre whenever some points and pence are deducted should be relayed as to for what reason this or that happened and then only we would feel like belonging to or else one can not stand ever on one foot.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
29 Jul 09
Thanks Rajib forgetting me right. We all love this place and its not for earnings or points or even ratings that we are here. We are here to have fun. But this kind of untoward things which are not justified are nor good for a nice place like this. Coming to accountability. many have criticised me but what is life without it!
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
30 Jul 09
Let him bark out his lungs..
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
29 Jul 09
Yes that is the right thing you have said. I do not care some creatures here who are prone to bark. lol
• Trinidad And Tobago
31 Jul 09
This is an interesting question . I am relatively new to mylot so I have no clue I would like to know myeself. Hope you find out. Thanx 4 d quest.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
31 Jul 09
Hi Sharon! You would be surprised to know that I thought you were one of the moderators! But this post proves that I am wrong! Thanks for your consistent participation.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
31 Jul 09
LOL.. Actually the fact that you are on our lists automatically created the problem!
• Trinidad And Tobago
31 Jul 09
Lol... Wonder what it takes to be one? (scratching head). Love reading your discussions.
@doryvien (2284)
• United States
29 Jul 09
Hi Mimpi, Wow, three years at myLot and still going! Kudos to you. I have seen some discussions here about losing points and stars, and thereby affecting their reputation too. I agree with you that myLot should not turn deaf ears to all these concerns, the members here make up the community and have played a great part in myLot's success. The admin should recognize this and should try to do something to address the issue otherwise, some may get tired of it eventually and just leave (I know it's remote but it's still possible). But amidst all these, it is still a great place to hang out, so let's just hope and pray myLot will act on it so we can be all happy. Cheers!
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
29 Jul 09
You are absolutely right doryvien. I love this place and my presence here is a testimony to that. When I post discussion like this, one must not just look at the grudges but understand the love and concern behind that. Thanks for understanding this Dory.
• Philippines
28 Jul 09
I believe some one already organize a joint complain about that kind of problem, and that user got replied to by the admin. saying that they're doing they can but it is also found difficult. last night i was supposed to have reached 500 post or more, but then when i opened my account today, just got 496 post..something is going on and my reputation went down a bit too.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
29 Jul 09
Hi there! Yes, Mikee had got a reply from mylot admin. I really appreciate that and that they are working on it. Post deletion and account termination keep happening here fpr all right reasons. We must be conversant with FAQs of the place before and as we join. I am sorry that you lost some numbers. May be some posts you had responded to got deleted.
@drannhh (15219)
• United States
28 Jul 09
What is a point? Are you talking about the number in the parens? I have been hanging out on myLot for a few years now too, but have never had time to try to figure out how some of this stuff works. However, my feeling is that myLot is a sort of like a game that we play with the Game Master's permission and the people who own myLot are the Game Masters. So I don't think they are legally or morally required to have any accountability, or fairness, or anything like that. It is their game. We are members, but not stockholders. Furthermore, I think the bottom line is there is no other program even remotely similar to myLot, therefore I cannot at all understand what anyone hopes to achieve by voicing complaints. To me that would be similar to telling a neighbor "I don't like the color of your house" and if you were that neighbor you might say "OK, fine, here is a list of acceptable colors, you choose one, then you go buy the paint and the brushes and the drop cloths, and insurance, and then YOU paint my house if you don't like my color." But I don't think very many people would take you up on that. They would rather sit idly by and complain.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
29 Jul 09
Thanks for your response but sorry I do not quite agree with you there. I have lived in this place and I enjoy being here as much as any other true lover of the place would. I do feel the need and urgency to make my family or loved ones responsible for what they do and what they donot. I stand tall for all my doings - good or bad. Life would have been different without being accountable for the stuffs we do. That's my perspective. It's not about fairness or unfairness, moral or legal stuffs, its about our standpoint, our values. If you missed my broader point, I would like to tell you that I do not just want myLot to be accountable for all bad things going on around. Wouldn't you want your child/ family to be answerable of their doings?
@bjcyrix (6901)
• Philippines
2 Jan 10
Woah, you were deducted that much..?? I havent heard of that until now. That is a huge amount and I think you were a victim of trolls or maybe you have a stalker of sorts that unfortunately makes it their mission to pull you down. I do hope that this kind of thing has stopped now, or at least have reduced in their aggressiveness that they might have found other things to be concerned with. Of course, I know that there is still the plagiarism issue. That has at least been monitored by other members as well as friends. You're right that usually myLot doesnt directly concern itself with the general myLot member concerns. Now, there is Alice who speaks for the myLot admins. We can all get a chance to be heard by responding to her discussions everyday involving different topics about myLot. Hopefully, our responses can help keep our stay here at myLot safe and fun.
@hsofyan (3446)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
28 Jul 09
I'm sad occasions, on this incident. You are not alone here. I also had experienced a reduction in point twice. Whatever happens, this is mylot. An organization, a community, with all its advantages and disadvantages. You never feel wronged, but if you know if you also benefit? There must be a reason, if something happens. But you do not know and not be notified. I always believe mylot improve themselves to become better. Wake up and continuous writing...
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
29 Jul 09
Thanks for your nice thoughts and i agree totally. Even though I sort of know the reason now, I still would ask mylot to enhance their system. Notififying would be just great.
• India
28 Jul 09
I am new to mylot still and thanks for sharing ur experience.Till now no such incidents with me has occured.But can u tell me how to earn more here by ur experience.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
29 Jul 09
Ho raviraj This place is wonderful and the more you be honest and earnest and proactive here the more you can earn. Give substantial replies, comment back, follow the discussion you have responded to or started, add new friends, reply to their posts, upload relevant images, do not plagiarise and copy-paste, be original.. I know this is cliched but trust me that's how it works and you get to earn more. Good luck! Here's the link you must tread and read: http://www.mylot.com/o/faq.aspx
@grace118224 (1038)
• China
28 Jul 09
Sorry to hear this . i wish you can get the dollars back from mylot. It belongs to you owing to your hard work . i understand what you are feeling now . Please tell us when you are negotiating with mylot about your losing dollars. Good luck !!!
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
29 Jul 09
Thanks grace. I am not as much worried about my earnings though. I want this place to be a beautiful one. Have fun here dear.