if you have a problem that seems to have no answer, what do you do?

oh I agree most problems need to be addressed and'solved'but I am talking about all problems such as the bad economy,the jobless situation. the health insurance problem.can we byourselves solve'these when our political people cannot solve them or even agree on anything? rather than worry about these big problems we can do nothing about would it not be better not to worry and just let it be.okay say your boyfriend dumped you.Are you going to go and beg him to take you back even though he dumped you? I would say let it be. those are words of'wisdom.You really do have a lot of big problems you cannot yourself solve.just think of the political situation in your own counry are there things you wish were different? Can you solve this problem yourself? if not then just let it be.

hi stricken yes you are so right weoften forget we have a friend to' turn to who can really help us. my best friend says.let go and Let God. now that does sound pretty amazing.I have trouble remebering'I dont have to do this all by myself. I have help just a prayer away.

hi mstickle yes you have to rise above those who say nasty things about you as you know who you'are' and giving in to fighting the person becomes a he said'she said and nothing is accomplished.so walk away head high and know'you are somebody you are unique and you are much better than the bitc## person.

hi grandmaof2 I think that the kind of thing that you'need to let be is like that of a man walking out on his love.if he thinks that'little of her what can she do, if she begs him to come back and evenif he does, he willin all likelyhood just do it again.I say'etit be and get on with your life.find someone who will love you and wont walk out on you.

hi zed its just that you have to pick your bAttles.some' you can solve and some you cannot do diddley squat.those 'diddleyswuat ones you will have to let it be.I am not'talking about letting someone walk all over you, that wou ld be the 'battle you would face and solve even if with your fists. I am thinking about those problems that you yourself can 'do nothing about, and if you haveno wayto solve them,then dont worry just let it be.our bad economy,the jobless we'cannot fix so we have to let it be.

Then I shall leave everything to fate and destiny, but after a given effort of 90%.. I always believe in happy endings to any given situation..

hi zed when someone threatens to knock my block off'no I dont let it be,I stand my ground and if the person gets physical I will get right into his or her face and because' of my age they will back off. I got between a young bus driver who was a passenger on the bus I was on,and an older passenger who was also a bus driver on a differentbus line, and was also a pasdener on my bus.the younger man lost his temper and actually took a swing at the older mans head but I dodged in between and yelled for heavens s akes cant one of you men stop these two.no nobody moved. I got hit in the shoulder pretty hard.at that time I was 56. the driverhad stopped the 'bus and called the police.a woman officer came in,grabbed the young punk's arm and arrested him. theyall insisted I wait for paramdedics but I had a bus to catch and I didnt want that so I refused.i was just badly bruised on myshoulder.

hi joyceshookery yes we have to pick and choose our battles,some'we have to solve we cannot just hope they will be solved. but in 'some cases like someone backstabbing you ultimately the best thing' to do is hold your head up high, ignore the fool who did thatand yes let it be.otherwise it will go on and on, she says, then you say, then she says and you say and nothing has changed.she is still a horses'rear end and you are still a nice lady who has been backstabbed.

hi GardenGerty yes when its inevitable then you havent' any way to remedy so just let it be.one does not need'thw worry over something you can do nothing about. like all'the economic problems today I might not like that but I can do nothing about them. so let it be. dont worry be happy

little owl you just put into words what I was getting at.'Quarreling'with a backstabbing so called friend will'get you no where because you know the truth but she is not going to'listent and tofuss with her willjust be just be a I say and you say and 'nothing is settled.You are still a nice person and she is still 'a bit##.so let it be and hold your head up high.what goes around' comes around and that is always true.