What are the effects to the children if mother go out and work in other country?

With the advances of technology, the feeling of being lonely and sad with the absence of the mother is now reduce, but their is nothing to equate with the real presence of mother. All the money, packages and good life is not enough to make the children happy as they are being jealous of other children where the family is complete and gather together in every day meals and special occasion. With proper explanation on the side of the mother, their children will understand the reason they leave their own country to find more greener pastures to earn money to secure the future of their children in case the husband do not have work or have work but his income is not enough to help the family.

The problem here the mother is working outside the country where in fact she could work near her city without going too far..The mother really is after a big income and like to saves a lot for her children future and her entire family. The child who grow accustomed to see her mother will going to feel confuse why a mother left them.which is very hard to explain when still a child..but as the child grow into an adult his maturity and understanding of this working mother develop..Father or the so-called Househusband are becoming a common sight which very unlikely in the past where males are the ones who should work and go outside..but..recently this situation reverse and the father are the one who taking place with the responsibilities of rearing their children in the right path.....

Mother work outside the country to find a greener pastures as you mention their are less opportunity for working here as the salary income is lower. The situation happen when the father have no work or have work but the income is not enough to sustain the family needs. many mother takes advantages of the situation where their children are still young for instances babies up to 6 months to toddlers where they are not yet in schools. They could work outside the country to save for the education of the children and send them to good schools. When they already saves enough they could go back to have a business and with a lot of savings they could provide the needs of their children and help the family to have comfortable life.

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You are right. I thought she meant if the mother left the country to work tho.

Being a mother is a monotonous work and you need to serve your husband and children. Everyday task like cooking, cleaning the house, doing the laundry, doing the groceries, even accompany young children to go to schools and go back again to fetch her. nevertheless this housekeeping and being a good mother and wife is unending tasks which makes some mother feel bored. They like to experience the beauty of working and if the mother have degree or finished education she could go back to work to help in the family income.

Children especially babies and young children are hunger for attention , love and care. They are more to develop strong bonding, trust and have fun dealing with the mother to assist their needs and advices them about morals values. When, mother is away it is hard for young children to understand it as they are already condition their mind to have their mother on their side and never like to trust strangers. Mother who work could easily explain the reason behind working to the older children and adults where they are more open to understand the reasons mother works to fulfill their needs and also to make their self valuable too in the society.

Some mother are career women who like to continue working even after marriage or having children. It is now both valuable for both mother and father to combine their income to saves a lot of earning to spend on the household budget and children education. It is good the two parents are working and mother never depend alone for financial resources to husband. it is hard to realize that you done nothing to help the family in cases the husband got sick or have an accident. The mother could replace the father to takes his place or work in her capacity.

Children look to mother as their protector and the motherly figures creates more bonding for children to learn from the mother advices and support. The father is not sufficient to care for their children as they are also busy working outside the house. Even, if you trust your children to be taken care by grandparents or hire a nanny. You could not really sure if they all receive the care and attention which a mother could only provide.

Even it is painful too to mother to go away and see their children being care by their trusted guardian. They have no choice but to leave as they are going to work to save enough money to procure the future of their children. It is very hard to find a good job in my country and it is very necessary for all not only the mother to work in other country where the income is high. After, they finish the contact they could return to their family to be reunited and have a comfortable life and already financially secure.

That is a good plan to talk with your husband regarding who is going to work outside the country. The mother is the light of the home. Children are more closer to mother as it is the mother who carry them in their wombs for 9 months. The motherly figures who is always around to care for their children and husband needs, who are busy everyday to cook, do the cleaning, laundry and even the first teacher who teach children the basic reading and writing skills. In my country if the father have no capabilities to work in other country, their is no choice but the mother have to go. Even if father have work, the income is low and no guarantee for children future. The mother do all the work and sacrifices and explain it to children the reasons behind working is to help the family.

The father is also important in building a complete family...but..most of the children grew closer to mother cook and feed them, wash their clothes, and the first teacher who taught them the beauty of reading and memorizing alphabet, story telling and the one who take care of them when they are sick. The child who miss her mother always seek constant attention and advices which he would not likely get to a father, since the father is busy with his jobs...With proper explanation on the side of the mother..the child would grow into a responsible adult and will understand the reasons where mother work outside the country to help the family and prepare their children future...

Their is really a need for children to know the truth behind the reason mother go out of the house to work and some mom work outside of the country. I know it is hard for children to understand the basic reason at their tender ages but as they grow up they will understand it. I also know that many young children really miss the motherly care and presence of mothers, that they feel sad when their school have activities or meeting where a mother or father should attend Instead a proxy like their current guardian are the one who attend to their every schools meetings and programs. Children feel jealous of their classmates whom they see with their mother. As what you says they even cries or feel sad which is true. the feelings of being alone without a motherly presence with only to content with the care and love provided by the father, or grandparents is not sufficient to the love, care, and understanding that a children could receive from their mother. The father could also provide care, love and understanding but not enough as the father is always out of the house working, too..Some children feel bitter or rebel s they are not satisfy with the care the current guardian provides, even the calls, videos and text messaging are enough to cure their hunger for motherly care. Even, if the mother send money, lot of packages every month and pay for their schools expenses. They wish their mother too go back to make their family complete especially during special occasion where family serves as the important basic unit of the society.

The only differences before the technology is not yet advanced and children really have a hard time accepting mother work in other country. In our current times the technology is more advanced, and in a matter of minutes you could see your mother or relatives working abroad and this really help in reducing the loneliness. But, nothing could really beat the actual presence of the mother who could see their children grow and supervise with their needs and guarantee full attention of care. Having no motherly figure could make a child to learn to live independent and if he really understand the real purposes of the mother. The children will never resent or blame the mother absences for what they becomes, as a good adults or stray adults who misunderstood the mother reasons..