Which is harder: PRETEND that you LOVE the person when you DON'T or PRETEND that you DON'T when in fact you really DO
August 16, 2009 11:31pm CST
A friend of mine falls in love with my guy friend. She's afraid to let the be aware of her feeling for him. So just I'm just wondering which is harder, pretend that you love the person when you don't or pretend that you don't when reality is you really love the person?
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17 Aug 09
I think both of them are pretending and it's difficult. But if I must choose, I think pretend to love when you don't easier. Why? becasue personally, that love feeling can grow if your partner act nicely or showing love to you, as time goes by, you will love him too. My auntie experienced this and now she is happy with her family. The second is hard because that feeling already exist. For me, it's easier to gain new feeling than wipe away the feeling. Hope your friend will choose and find the best for her