Loving someone in a wrong way?
By beaushell
@beaushell (339)
Philippines
August 17, 2009 10:57pm CST
I have always love my friends. I always think what would make them happy and what will be for their best interest. With this in mind, I never think twice when there is a need to tell them the truth. Even sometimes it could hurt them. I will do this with great tact as much as I can muster. But in all these, I still draw some of my friends away. It hurts a lot but I don't know how to love and not tell them the truth if they are doing not right. I realized it would take time for them to understand what I am saying and i would need to endure the pain for awhile. Pain of being misunderstood and losing them. Again and again I would ask myself, is it wrong? Is it wrong to love them that way? Have you ever felt loving someone in a wrong way?
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@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
18 Aug 09
beaushell you have to learn how to be tactful and too,'
not every one even friends like to be critized even if
wrong all the time.some times you can be too darned
truthful, and too maybe you are being over critical
of your friends and thats a good way to lose friends.
I myself dont like to be critized a lot by my best'
friend,we all are human you know.being critical is not'the
way to make them happy evenif you are right and what if
you may be wrong after all,what then?Let them figure out
ocassionally if they are really doing wrong.dont judge so'much be a friend not a critisizer.
