beaushell

@beaushell (339)

Philippines • Age 49

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What matters most in times of calamity?

beaushell @beaushell (339) • Philippines 9 Oct 09

When the typhoon "Ondoy" hit the philippines we are far from exempted. It was late that Saturday morning when we realize the typhoon is not an ordinary one. We are enjoying a lazy Saturday morn and not in a rush to have a...

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beaushell I sure realized that in a more real sense than I anticipated that very day.

9 Oct 09

How to start all over again?

beaushell @beaushell (339) • Philippines 9 Oct 09

Being exposed to the evacuation center for almost a week is seeing the many legitimate needs of the poor firsthand. After a day of storm and flood, they are left homeless and very few things salvaged from the mud. No more bedding...

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beaushell yeah, I'm also sure they will... Hope the recovery will run smoother and faster though and help will be given to them in a way that will answer what they really need.

9 Oct 09

Storms can make you either better or bitter!

beaushell @beaushell (339) • Philippines 9 Oct 09

Seeing our town at the headline news should have make me elated and proud... but it did not. I actually felt embarrassed. With an enlarged picture I saw my townspeople literally squabbling over the bags of relief good being given...

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How to start all over again?

beaushell @beaushell (339) • Philippines 9 Oct 09

Being exposed to the evacuation center for almost a week is seeing the many legitimate needs of the poor firsthand. After a day of storm and flood, they are left homeless and very few things salvaged from the mud. No more bedding...

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Filipino Mylotters

5Ohmz5 @5Ohmz5 (10) 6 Oct 09

are there Filipino Mylotters here?

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beaushell I am very much a Filipino! :) And welcome to my lot... see yah around.

9 Oct 09

Looking beyond "ME" in times of need...

beaushell @beaushell (339) • Philippines 9 Oct 09

Whey typhoon "Ondoy" hit the philippines our town was one of those badly hit. Flood was never been experienced before as far as the old people can remember. Going out in the street and seeing the great effect of the flood to our...

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What matters most in times of calamity?

beaushell @beaushell (339) • Philippines 9 Oct 09

When the typhoon "Ondoy" hit the philippines we are far from exempted. It was late that Saturday morning when we realize the typhoon is not an ordinary one. We are enjoying a lazy Saturday morn and not in a rush to have a...

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Do you think love can be learned?

careguarden @careguarden (5670) • Philippines 18 Sep 09

I think so, because my mom and dad's marriage was arranged both of my grandparents. My mom told us that she had a boyfriend before my dad came and asked for her hands. She's deeply in love with her boyfriend, but since she's very...

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beaushell I remember I have heard of that idea before, the advantage of arranged marriages. In arranged marriage both couple has not been actively involve in choosing their life partner. No pre-concieved idea of the person. No expectation either. So what is expected of...

18 Sep 09

This Weird Weather

anne25penn @anne25penn (3305) • Philippines 18 Sep 09

Am not able to breathe again. This morning up to noon, the sun was out and it was hot. Now its raining torrents and abruptly changed the temperature. I wish that the weather will either stay hot, or stay cold. Its very bad for my...

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beaushell You are so right. Its really frustrating at times, but what can we do? I think we cannot do anything about it. We just need to be prepared to protect ourselves and our loves ones for this weird weather transitions. And I think its not only in the Philippines,...

18 Sep 09

Do you think the kids should be beaten rather than punished?

coolcat123 @coolcat123 (4387) • India 17 Sep 09

many people beat their children in anger but afterwards feel sorry for what they have done.I think punishing a child is better than beating them bcoz after getting punished the child will not repeat the same mistake again. It...

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beaushell Yes, I believe we can be creative in allowing the child to learn from their mistakes. Punishment is very agreeable for me especially if you know how to implement it and is strong enough to be consistent in what you say. Beating? I prefer spanking(it seems like...

18 Sep 09

Dreamplace... where would it be?

beaushell @beaushell (339) • Philippines 15 Sep 09

I always wanted to go to Paris. It is a place that I really wanted to see. A dream place. Based on movies that I watched and pictures I've seen. It look so interesting. The architecture of the buildings are finely crafted. The...

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beaushell So you are into Castles? That is fascinating. My and my husband love old and historical places too. But I find it really hard to study the German language so its like we can't imagine going to that country yet... Unless there will be someone who will be kind...

18 Sep 09

Dreamplace... where would it be?

beaushell @beaushell (339) • Philippines 15 Sep 09

I always wanted to go to Paris. It is a place that I really wanted to see. A dream place. Based on movies that I watched and pictures I've seen. It look so interesting. The architecture of the buildings are finely crafted. The...

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beaushell Thanks! You just continue to inspire me to go to Paris. I hope you will be able to go to Caribbean too! :)

18 Sep 09

Dreamplace... where would it be?

beaushell @beaushell (339) • Philippines 15 Sep 09

I always wanted to go to Paris. It is a place that I really wanted to see. A dream place. Based on movies that I watched and pictures I've seen. It look so interesting. The architecture of the buildings are finely crafted. The...

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beaushell Haven't heard of that place... but I heard China is really an enchanting country. The place and the people, they have something really special about them that people around the world desire to have a glimpse of.

18 Sep 09

Dreamplace... where would it be?

beaushell @beaushell (339) • Philippines 15 Sep 09

I always wanted to go to Paris. It is a place that I really wanted to see. A dream place. Based on movies that I watched and pictures I've seen. It look so interesting. The architecture of the buildings are finely crafted. The...

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beaushell Wow, its really old and historic. Visiting that place is like time traveling back to old times. I hope you can visit Rome and experience the joy of seeing their wonderful and precious work of Arts.

18 Sep 09

Dreamplace... where would it be?

beaushell @beaushell (339) • Philippines 15 Sep 09

I always wanted to go to Paris. It is a place that I really wanted to see. A dream place. Based on movies that I watched and pictures I've seen. It look so interesting. The architecture of the buildings are finely crafted. The...

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beaushell Spain sounds like a real interesting place to go! Yeah, I heard its becoming a very popular tourist destination these days!

18 Sep 09

What's the best way to you relax yourself

Ruby722 @Ruby722 (796) • China 14 Sep 09

Life is hard and complicate.We live in a high tech world and a high speed rhythm city.We always feel tired from work ,study,life details,relationship.Whatever.So what is the best way that you relax yourself .In my opinion tired of...

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beaushell My favorite way of relaxation is watching a good and inspiring movie with my husband. Movies that makes us laugh is my personal favorite. For me laughing out loud is a great way to relax and have fun. Another way is having our favorite coffee in our favorite...

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Dreamplace... where would it be?

beaushell @beaushell (339) • Philippines 15 Sep 09

I always wanted to go to Paris. It is a place that I really wanted to see. A dream place. Based on movies that I watched and pictures I've seen. It look so interesting. The architecture of the buildings are finely crafted. The...

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How do you deal with co-dependent people?

beaushell @beaushell (339) • Philippines 15 Sep 09

Co-dependent people are those that seem not able to do things on their own. They are individuals who always need guidance and counsel. They are students who never knew the right answer to many questions and sometimes even if they...

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Learning in a new job?

beaushell @beaushell (339) • Philippines 15 Sep 09

I am applying for a new job these days. Its weird how even in my age now as an adult, I feel like I'm back to Grade 1 every time I start a new job. Although, manytimes the task was not at all really new to me but the environment...

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Life like a movie in slow motion...

beaushell @beaushell (339) • Philippines 15 Sep 09

These days I feel my life is like a movie in slow motion. Everything is very slow. How I act, do the task I have to do, think, plan and even write or eat! My energy is so depleted and my zest to do things is so low. I feel...

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