Ladies~ Help for a young man with a broken heart.

Australia
August 21, 2009 7:10pm CST
Hello, thanks you all for looking/clicking on this discussion. Recently, a girl i liked moved away to sydney (far away from me) and i know that long distance relationships never work out. Now, I've taken interest in this other girl but she hardly notices me T^T. We knew eachother for years and still im having trouble talking to her. i dont know if shes shy or she doesnt like me... so.. do you wonderful ladies (or even males) have any advice to get the love of my life ?? Thanks for your time.
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@LittleMel (14033)
• Canada
22 Aug 09
first of all long distance relationship CAN work it depends on the people I said this because I am married to the same man I had long distance relationship with and it's a bliss for almost 9 years now it really is up to you which girl you want to be with but if you said you know long distance won't work, well you don't my husband and I were half the world away, different countries before we got married that's really long distance
• Australia
22 Aug 09
awwww thats so sweet~ well thanks for your input it really wants to make me think twice. but anyone got any actual advice on the girl i currently like..? i dont wanna sound like a jerk but yea.. and the girl in sydney, we're still really good friends, just seeing eachother less... well much less, thats all. thanks again.
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@LittleMel (14033)
• Canada
22 Aug 09
well if you know this new girl for years then you should know her friends maybe they can help you
• Australia
22 Aug 09
yeah i do know her friends.. but its very ironic because the girl who moveed away was good friends with the girl i like.. grr . well... maybe its one of those things where time has to pass to know? thanks for your input.
• United States
22 Aug 09
Darlin the best advice I as a woman can give you is to be completely honest with her... lay it all out on the table and hope for the best... if you don't take chances in life then you'll never get anything you want or deserve...
• Australia
22 Aug 09
thats true.. wow all of you are great help. but anymore advice on that issue? or is it just be honest? thanks you by the way for responding.
• United States
22 Aug 09
Long distance relationships works sometimes but its just that it is very hard. But since you already started liking someone else that means you moved on already. I still think that you should give your girlfriend in Sydney another chance
• Australia
22 Aug 09
very true that.. but how do i know she hasnt found someone else already.. even if i did give her a second chance and we did "go out" how would i tell shes seeing someone else.... its quite hard no ?
@celticeagle (124400)
• Boise, Idaho
16 Sep 09
If it is meant to be it will be. If you both love one another go move there when you are able to. If she doesn't notice you and you had the chance to tell her and didn't then learn by it and don't let the next one pass you by. You only go through this life once and if you want happiness you have to meet them part way.