loVE Marriage, Arrange Marriage or No Marriage ???

Sweden
August 23, 2009 2:17am CST
last weekend i have gathered some old friends of mine. every one is setteled with their families. one of the just raised a question that what is best one among the three systems. some of them told that no marriage is good. this answer is given by those frineds who are facing problems in their married life? which one will you prefer in your life?
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8 responses
@andresimp (818)
• India
23 Aug 09
im not married yet.. but i prefer to live single till 27 or 28. if i get the right man in life, i would think of getting married. but otherwise i would like to depend on myself. i m scared of getting hurt in relationships. right now i m not ready and cant think of marriage. i dont think arranged marriage is a good idea unless they both know each other very well before getting married. i feel it depends on every individual's life experience and convenience to decide whether they want to get married or be single.
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• Sweden
23 Aug 09
there are a lot of demirites of love marriage too. in such cases the couple feel that they dont get charm after getting married. these scare me very much.
@fheroan (615)
• Philippines
23 Aug 09
hello there... well, im not yet married...but for me, you just wait for what will happen, if u are really destined to be married then thats it, if ur destined to be single then live with it..but for me arranged marriage is not good, only few arranged married couples live happily..so loving someone takes time...
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
23 Aug 09
I would have to say that I prefer a love marriage. I have been married for 14 years now. I am not sure if I would ever do it again if something should happen to my husband though. I may choose no marriage.
@iskayz (5420)
• Philippines
24 Aug 09
Hi there! In my opinion I think marriage is not by choice. It will happen when it comes. We don't really plan them. There are a lot who have been in relationships but still aren't getting married. So there is really choice whether love or no marriage. Getting married is more of fate. Even arranged marriage, it is tradition and so it is fate to some who still practices that tradition. But of course, if I can really choose, I want a love marriage more than any kind of marriage. Getting married is about being in love. Ciao!
@dlr297 (5409)
• United States
23 Aug 09
For me No marriage would be a lonely life. You would have no one to share things with on a daily basis. No body to grow old with. I did not grow up in a society that has arranged marriages so they do not seam right to me i do not think that i could spend my life with some one that i did not love. Marriage is hard enough when you love someone, My choice would have to be Love marriage.
@surfermac (465)
• India
23 Aug 09
both of them a mixture first you love next you convince your parents it becomes love come arranged
• Sweden
23 Aug 09
do you think all people are lucky to do like that ?
@prinzcy (32322)
• Malaysia
23 Aug 09
I think most people would love to find the love of their life themselves. But not all of us are that lucky. We might face circumstances that make us agreed whether we accept our family choice (eventhough we don't know the person) or stay single forever. For me, I would love to choose my own partner. But if things happen and my parents want me to marry somebody and I don't have a partner, I might accept it.
@tintukm (1102)
• India
23 Aug 09
Marriages, of any kind will always deal with 3 things 1.creating problem 2.trying to solve problem 3.search for problems again huh.But marriages aren't really done one commits a marriage.Love marriage is refreshing,arranged marriage is curiosity and no marriage is similar to burning oil,everyday goes as the same one would think being without the tag of a marriage.