Will you get your kids a cellphone,why or why not?

@beeduzhe (138)
China
August 28, 2009 2:52am CST
I see more and more kids in school using their cell phones,and surely it's their parents give cell phones to them?And I also see cell phones help kids to kill time instead of connectting their parents most of the time. Some said that cell phones are a great way to give parents peace of mind and help children to learn about taking responsibility.Some others said cell phones do harm to the health of kids because of radiation and it's easy for kids to get indulge in cell phones... Do school kids really need cell phones?Will you get your kids a cell phones,why or why not?
5 responses
• India
30 Aug 09
I would certainly give my kids a cellphone. Even though both of my children are grown up, I would certainly advice my children to give a cell phone to their children,because then you have a piece of mind, and can easily find out,if they are late in coming back as well as they can communicate with their group of friends for the studies.
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@beeduzhe (138)
• China
30 Aug 09
I see cells phones are so important to your kids and no wonder of your certainty.But I have to remind you that you'd better check your kids' phones to know what they are thinking about and who they are communicating with.Also thanks for your response.
@Rose2798 (359)
• United States
30 Aug 09
I do not have kids yet, but I would get them a pre-paid cellphone with 200 minutes and any minutes that I don't pay for he/she cannot use talking to anyone but family or the police. They can save up for a new phone/ minutes, because when I have kids (if I do), I'm planning to give them some sort of allowance. Plus, they can earn money themselves. It would teach them how to manage money.
@beeduzhe (138)
• China
30 Aug 09
Oh.I have never heard of a pre-paid cellphone before and it's pretty good.And I'm also interesting in the software in the phone.Your idea is worth to have a try.Thank you!
@Rose2798 (359)
• United States
31 Aug 09
What do you mean; software?
@irene66 (1669)
• Philippines
28 Aug 09
I got one for one of my daughters. I found out it is just for a show. and it is not good for that matter. so when the other daughter ask me to also buy one for her, I explained it's not that important. It undermines the social interaction because they are busy playing games or sending unnecessary messages. they don't want to be disturbed if you talk to them. To me, it's not needed to give them such gadget.
@beeduzhe (138)
• China
28 Aug 09
Maybe you have to teach your daughters how to use cell phones before you give them...I think it's also important to help your kids generate a correct understanding of cell phones and it will help encourage your affection at the same time...you can sit down with them and tell them that you are going to check their phones weekendly...I hope your daughters will understand you and the cell phones you give them in the future.
• United States
28 Aug 09
While my kids were in high school the cell phone thing for kids was just growing and growing. The deal I made with my kids was I would pay the start up fees and set them up with a cell phone account as soon as they got a job and could keep the regular costs up. It worked pretty well for the most part. That way they had an appreciation for it and didn't just take it for granted.
@beeduzhe (138)
• China
30 Aug 09
Yes,but mostly giving cell phones to kids is not only the problem about money,it also has respcet to time and kids' health and so on.So I woule like to say your means will not help for me but thank you all the same.
@doryvien (2284)
• United States
28 Aug 09
Hi beeduzhe, Welcome to myLot! I provided my son(who is 10 yrs old) with a cell phone so that he can easily get in touch with me when he needs something specially when he's in school, or in time of emergency. But his school doesn't allow any gadgets so it didn't serve the purpose(I mean my purpose). My son himself says he doesn't need it since he cannot bring it to school and they(the students) are allowed to use the school phone when they need to call their parents anyway. So maybe at his age he doesn't really need it yet. Now his cell phone has become everybody's cell phone at home, and he only uses it as an alarm clock to wake him up every morning. Knowing that he is such disciplined young man, when he gets older and more independent and asks for a new cell phone I know I will be willing to give him one, for my peace of mind.
@beeduzhe (138)
• China
28 Aug 09
You are really a good parent and I see you love your son,your lovely son...The boy in your picture must be your son... When he grow up,he will be a great man I think.
@doryvien (2284)
• United States
28 Aug 09
Hi beeduzhe, Thanks for the BR. Appreciate it so much. I look forward to more of your discussions.