Cheating or getting cheated?

@krupesh (2608)
India
September 1, 2009 12:37pm CST
Which one do you feel worse? Cheating others or yourself getting cheated? For me cheating others would be more worse rather than being getting cheated yourself.Cheating others would show that you yourself have no morals or principles. On the other hand getting cheated from others involves a lot of emotion & its also worse.What do you feel?
3 responses
@vandana7 (102698)
• India
3 Sep 09
I think feeling cheated by others is a feeling that creates more anger, hatred, animosity, and unhappiness. Therefore, that is what I dont want. As to cheating others, it is in my hands, and therefore, I can choose to be moral, or immoral. That freedom itself is a big responsibility and deterrant. I might cheat merely for the fun of it (If tommorow comes), or to teach another person a lesson, make them realize how it feels, and so on. But the real culprit for multiplying unhappiness would be the feeling of being cheated. It would make me want to get even, and therefore, waste quite a bit of my life!
@vandana7 (102698)
• India
8 Jun 10
Thanks for the Best Response. :) I am surprised! :)
• United States
1 Sep 09
I have cheated on boyfriends, and I have gotten cheated on. When I cheated on my boyfriend at the time, I was not happy, and I wanted out of the relationship. When I did it to me the relationship was over, I just did not know how to get out because he couldn't handle me leaving. Well I do believe in karma and I think that's what I realized when I got cheated on. It was karma coming back around, and I got to feel to be cheated on. It really did hurt a lot and I learned that if I wasn't happy in a relationship the answer was not to still be in it and cheat, that is just not fair to the other person.
@dianmelydia (2269)
• Indonesia
1 Sep 09
I think we can't know if there's someone want to cheating us. Also, other people won't know if we can to cheating them. Getting cheated by others of course is a bad thing. I believe that no one want such thing happened to them. But the problem is no one can actually reading others' mind. So how can we know if we were being cheated? No one can know it. But we can make any preventing by carefully on every step in our life. Usually a madcap person can easily being cheated by other person. From that statement we can make a conclusion that is we shouldn't be a madcap person if we don't be being cheated by others. I think the main problem usually is on our own side. Talking about cheating, usually such things are strongly related with the matter of money. There are alot of cheaters out there everyday. They will come to you and give you a too good to be true offers. Usually it is all about business investment with profit sharing scheme. There's no free lunch in this world, so when someone come to you with an offer, you should be careful. No one want to be cheated, but everyone if have a chance mostly they will do cheating. Good luck and have a nice day. Happy mylotting.