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Anindita Sengupta @aninditasen (18412) • Raurkela, India 8 Nov

Recently a film actress from the South was asked some very lewd questions by some journalists instead of the film for whose review they had come. This enraged her and she shouted back at the journalists. However her male peers...

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vanny @aninditasen LOL... I guess the next generation thinks the same of us. But I guess, living in boarding schools helped to be less confused about the situation. I could always be more frank on such issues. Though people of older generation found it to be...

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Anindita Sengupta @aninditasen (18412) • Raurkela, India 8 Nov

Recently a film actress from the South was asked some very lewd questions by some journalists instead of the film for whose review they had come. This enraged her and she shouted back at the journalists. However her male peers...

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vanny @aninditasen My grandmother plus aunt...this was kinda incestuous marriage, highly prevalent out here. Back then, mother's brother married the niece, my mother was my father's dead sister's daughter. Their logic was known devil is better than unknown devil....

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Anindita Sengupta @aninditasen (18412) • Raurkela, India 8 Nov

Recently a film actress from the South was asked some very lewd questions by some journalists instead of the film for whose review they had come. This enraged her and she shouted back at the journalists. However her male peers...

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vanny @arunima25 Rape and molestation are words that are not in their vocabulary till they are nine or ten. Or even later. Even so, they are not fully aware of what it means. They may have watched some TV serial or movie in which the words are used. Moreover, the...

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vanny @vandana7 (102837) • India 2 Feb 25

A few days ago, I was sitting in the hall and watching one of the most boring television serials. Simply because my father watches it, and I just happened to be sitting by his side. The actor did not know how to act, and does not...

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vanny @Bhurishrava Anyone who trusts is. LOL We don't expect rich, old, and philanthropic or powerful folks to do bad things. The mind establishes conflict there, and so we go to a child mode there, child mode is the trust mode. I don't recall the writer's name,...

4 Oct

vanny @vandana7 (102837) • India 2 Feb 25

A few days ago, I was sitting in the hall and watching one of the most boring television serials. Simply because my father watches it, and I just happened to be sitting by his side. The actor did not know how to act, and does not...

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vanny @Bhurishrava I said it is opportunity. Opportunity refers to a victim being slower than the perpetrator. A child is often slower in understanding the motives of the pedophile because he or she does not know. Women do grow faster than men. But correspondingly...

4 Oct

Anindita Sengupta @aninditasen (18412) • Raurkela, India 21 Jul 23

The act to demean someone or shatter psychologically through sexual assault should be curbed with capital punishment. A person assaulting someone sexually should get death sentence. Recently amonth ago a in Manipur a woman as...

sexual assault

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protection of modesty

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vanny @aninditasen I think you should read about Captain Saurabh Kalia.

4 Oct

Anindita Sengupta @aninditasen (18412) • Raurkela, India 8 Nov

Recently a film actress from the South was asked some very lewd questions by some journalists instead of the film for whose review they had come. This enraged her and she shouted back at the journalists. However her male peers...

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vanny @aninditasen Anandita ...that is not true. I mean you said today's world. It has always been around. Just that we are now exposed so much to it...and children are frank about it too. Earlier parents were not that close with their kids. My cousin was left with...

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Jenaisle @Jenaisle (16463) • Philippines 14 May 23

I do have a dark secret that I would never tell anyone until my dying day. It is so incredible anyway, and no one would believe me. Furthermore, it does not bring good to anyone around me or to other people. It might even bring...

secrets

life

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vanny @TheHorse As if I know the difference. You sure can handle loonies like me quite well. Evil Grin.

4 Oct

Anindita Sengupta @aninditasen (18412) • Raurkela, India 21 Jul 23

The act to demean someone or shatter psychologically through sexual assault should be curbed with capital punishment. A person assaulting someone sexually should get death sentence. Recently amonth ago a in Manipur a woman as...

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vanny Action replay in reverse would fetch better returns...man rapes woman, let the rapist be raped in public by some life term rapist from prison. I feel that because punishments given in private are not witnessed so forgotten. Each day brings fresh news, old one...

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Jenaisle @Jenaisle (16463) • Philippines 14 May 23

I do have a dark secret that I would never tell anyone until my dying day. It is so incredible anyway, and no one would believe me. Furthermore, it does not bring good to anyone around me or to other people. It might even bring...

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vanny Everyone has those. Issue is, do they matter? Do we feel powerful or powerless with them in our pocket or out of it?

4 Oct

Jenaisle @Jenaisle (16463) • Philippines 14 May 23

I do have a dark secret that I would never tell anyone until my dying day. It is so incredible anyway, and no one would believe me. Furthermore, it does not bring good to anyone around me or to other people. It might even bring...

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vanny Thank you. That is why you are my friend.

4 Oct

Jenaisle @Jenaisle (16463) • Philippines 14 May 23

I do have a dark secret that I would never tell anyone until my dying day. It is so incredible anyway, and no one would believe me. Furthermore, it does not bring good to anyone around me or to other people. It might even bring...

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vanny @Jenaisle He is a shrink.

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Anindita Sengupta @aninditasen (18412) • Raurkela, India 8 Nov

Recently a film actress from the South was asked some very lewd questions by some journalists instead of the film for whose review they had come. This enraged her and she shouted back at the journalists. However her male peers...

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vanny Solution needed. You are a teacher. Personally, even boys need to be told that rapes can happen to them also and that while women can talk, they would not even be able to utter it. That those who rape them will make them miserable, demanding things of them,...

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Anindita Sengupta @aninditasen (18412) • Raurkela, India 8 Nov

Recently a film actress from the South was asked some very lewd questions by some journalists instead of the film for whose review they had come. This enraged her and she shouted back at the journalists. However her male peers...

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vanny @aninditasen I would rather say his mother takes pleasure in disrespect from both father and son, and many others, so he feels obliged to behave like that.

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Anindita Sengupta @aninditasen (18412) • Raurkela, India 8 Nov

Recently a film actress from the South was asked some very lewd questions by some journalists instead of the film for whose review they had come. This enraged her and she shouted back at the journalists. However her male peers...

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vanny Women are not respected. I agree. How did we allow worship of single Ram Lalla, as if his mother did not hold him in her belly for 9 months, and his wife did not make him a father? We don't think that is a matter to protest. Why? Part of disrespect is our...

4 Oct

vanny @vandana7 (102837) • India 2 Feb 25

A few days ago, I was sitting in the hall and watching one of the most boring television serials. Simply because my father watches it, and I just happened to be sitting by his side. The actor did not know how to act, and does not...

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vanny Appreciate your honesty on the subject. From your response, I feel you have not changed, it is your hormones that have changed or dilution is there in them. Real change is through emotional sensitivity on the issue. It would have come at the first time. Given...

4 Oct

The Horse @TheHorse (240642) • Walnut Creek, California 16 Sep

I just absorb the rising cost of gas and groceries. Are you able to do the same? I am a middle class American who was smart enough to match any money I made with money from my employers. Retirement looms ahead for all of us. I...

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vanny @TheHorse Now, I see you. Miniaturized. Evil Grin.

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vanny @vandana7 (102837) • India 20 Sep

Recently there has been a lot of noise about one of the actresses out here, having put on lot of weight post childbirth. I suppose it is the pregnancy weight, she has yet to lose. My fairy tale romantic mind wanted her husband to...

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vanny Yes Katrina Kaif. So unfair...not giving her chance to go through her parenthood peacefully. As it is, she has enough on her plate, with the child crying at odd hours, worrying about the child, and then post partum depression. There should be a law against...

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vanny @vandana7 (102837) • India 10 Jul

I have a confession. I prefer gent's kerchiefs. They make more sense to me than the dainty kerchiefs that are designed for us womenfolk. I couldn't wipe my sweat, nor blow nose in these beautiful pieces. Then the Chunnis. the...

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vanny @ptrikha_2 I can then afford to go in my birth suit, no danger what so ever. LOL

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Judy Evans @JudyEv (389300) • Rockingham, Australia 22 Sep

Quite some time ago, maybe even a year or two, I bought the plant pot arrangement that you can see in the photo. I think I wrote about it at the time. I’ve only just got around to putting plants in them. I’ve alternated white and...

western australia

plant pots

petunias

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vanny Wow, its looking awesome.

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