I've Discovered A Great Way To "Pat It Forward"

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When I think about things in general, I often realized how blessed I am in life. Yes, I have my financial struggles like a lot of people do, but at least I have a roof over my head, have adequate funds, even though via food stamps to get enough food. In the past, some people have done me wonderful acts of generosity out of the blue...like the time my SSI benefits were completely cut off. A fellow mylotter helped me out and with no expectations for me to pay him back. Then there was my Christmas miracle tree where a band of MyLotters, sensing my depression that for the first time in my life ever, banded together to raise money and sent me a real live, beautiful Christmas tree two years ago. In small ways, I've done my own pay it forwards without strings attached...sometimes it would be my "time" involved, like helping a friend of mine down the block who is a bit computer illiterate and have "taught" her some aspects of the computer world. Other times it was sending a copy of a book to someone...I had two copies of it, and saw no need to keep it so sent it to a fellow MyLotter who asked for it. Now I have found another way to continue to pay it forward...and via the "Wish Upon A Hero" website. You read some people's "wishes" and they can be truly heart-breaking...many people were recently laid off from work, or recently had major surgery and bills are staggering..there are mothers who are desperately asking for a little extra money to buy food for their babies, or need clothes for them and they just can't make ends meet. The premise of the website is to join the site...you can post your own "wish" and hope that out there somewhere is a "hero" who might be able to help in some small way. Recently, I came across a fellow cat lover who is also on SSI benefits like I am, and she needed money to buy cat litter..the amount she was asking wasn't staggering and wasn't going to make or break me, and I sent her the money, via PayPal...we now email each other on a regular basis--I'm also sending her coupons for cat food that might help her. Then I came across another woman who had lost her job, but thankfully found a new one and is to start work soon, but since she hadn't gotten a paycheck in awhile, needed clothing to look "suitable". I noticed among her request, she needed shoes and size 6M---bingo. Last year, I had bought on sale on their website a pair of Easy Spirit sandals. When I got them, they just didn't fit quite right and out of laziness just didn't send them back for an exchange or refund (might not have been able to since they were on sale). So here I had a perfectly great looking pair of shoes still in the box, and never worn...I'm sending them to her tomorrow. Do you have gently worn clothing of any kind that maybe someone else could use? Maybe you have books you no longer want and just plain don't want to trash..then maybe you too could be a "hero"---it's a great feeling when one can do a pay it forward this way. Yes, I know, one could donate items to a GoodWill, Salvation Army, Thrift Shop, etc...but this way, via Wish Upon A Hero, one can do things on a one to one level. Here's the website address http://www.wishuponahero.com/ (NOT a referral link but to the Wish Upon A Hero website)