Some people too aggressive

@ajithlal (14614)
India
September 4, 2009 9:09pm CST
I never want to be a bad person, but sometimes I feel some people are taking granted like some guys are to aggressive or use us or our things. Sometimes we don't want to give them the things. How will you deal with such a person?
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7 responses
@Graceekwenx (3162)
• Philippines
5 Sep 09
you are not a bad person. you just wanted respect. I do agree with you that there are some who would use your stuff without asking your permission as if you are really that close. Keep your stuff to yourself. Let them know that they dont have the liberty to get your stuff without your permission because not only are they aggressive but they also are abusive.
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@ajithlal (14614)
• India
5 Sep 09
Sometimes I feel very guily after saying a no like right now.
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• Philippines
5 Sep 09
I know exactly how you feel my friend. And now that you had been putting them down, they would put some distance on you and at least you have put them in a place where you belong. With your action, it is the same as saying, "hey i dislike what you are doing. and i honestly dont like it." I feel it better that way because respect is very important, dont let them feel too complacent. They are users anyway and they wont give a damn.
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@ajithlal (14614)
• India
17 Mar 12
I think it is better to avoid people who does not respect or love or care us and to stay with people who like us and make us happy.
@jayrene (2712)
• Philippines
5 Sep 09
yes i agree with you on that one, there are just too many people that are like that, both men and women. if there is something that i really dont want to give, then i tell them no, and if they persist i just walk away or pretend i did not know what they were saying. but there are times that if that something is not really that important to me, and after some bugging from these kind of people, i just give in and let them have it.
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• Canada
5 Sep 09
I am "up front" with those people, and tell them what I see, and what I perceive. If they act extremely defensive when I tell them why I am not interested in their company, it only proves my theiry all the more. I am not going to keep company or help people who make me feel uncomfortable, or who will take advantage of me.
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• Canada
21 Mar 12
You are only looking out for number one, and that is you! Some people just have no regard for others whatsoever; I been there, done that. I just handle it with a quick flip of the tongue letting them know I will not stand for such behavior. I personally do not like users, or selfish people.
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@ajithlal (14614)
• India
24 Mar 12
I also think that some people are selfish and it is better to avoid them and not to react to them. I think when we react to the thorn of a plant it can hurt us, but when we ignore it will not hurt us.
@EliteUser (3966)
• Australia
20 Sep 09
Hey, Yea I know how you feel like, it has happened quite a few times in my life time and I still don't know how to react to these kind of people. I would probably start going to the gym lol. Just don't give them the stuff, it's yours anyway. Make sure you have a good day, God bless and Happy Lotting!!
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@stephcjh (32327)
• United States
6 Sep 09
I do not want to be a bad person to people either but I will not be used by them or walked all over either. I hate being taken for granted by people and I will distance myself from them if they even try to start it.
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@prinzcy (5036)
• Malaysia
5 Sep 09
I do and I know how you feel about it. Some of my relatives love to use me for their own advantage. They love to ask me for help regarding work and their own personal affair. Sometimes I am tired of giving excuses to save myself so I follow the flow. It's annoying how people never realized that we too have feeling and don't like to be force to do as they please.
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