they choose divorce at last
By allsheikhly
@allsheikhly (83)
China
September 9, 2009 8:02am CST
i am tired of lifestyle like "cold war",i know there is no love between them,and now i even wish they divorce,this evening,mother called me,them wanna divorce.
i know it must be this end ,but i don't feel sad at all.i know they really can't be together any more,father is irresponsible and bring mother much agony,maybe divorce is the best choose for both of them.
i hate my father ,but i have obligation as a son,now i will leave with my mother,but whenever i think of how pitiful my father will be when he is old,i feel sad and contradiction,i wish to leave the place after graduate,but then my father will be alone totally...
i don't know what will happen next,i know what i will confront is more obligation,for my mother and for me ..
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5 responses
@royal52gens (5488)
• United States
9 Sep 09
Divorce is a difficult time for families. Your family will get through this time. Be supportive and comforting to your parents. Divorce is something your parents have to deal with, not you. It is hard to be on the sidelines of this battle.
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@jinyan69 (124)
• China
10 Sep 09
oh,itis very pity for you ,that is the reason which i will not divorce when i have a "cold war" with my husband.my child is very younger,i don't hope it will bring some bad effect,i want give a happy time,because i have no argue with my husband,only silence;maybe when my child grow up ,i will,but now i never do that,my happy time come from my child.
@allsheikhly (83)
• China
10 Sep 09
yes...divorce maybe a huge strike for a little kid,and from this thing,i think i will understand "responsibility" better,and be a good father when i have kid..
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
9 Sep 09
allsheikhly hi yes when theres nothing but war its time to'call
a marriage quits.It may be hard on you and your mom at first but
the fighting must have been even worse.so now you can help your
mother to make a new life for herself and you if you live with her.
be kind to her as she will need you for awhile any way.
@ladyhope (377)
• Canada
10 Sep 09
Hi, I know how you feel. When my parents divorced, I was very relieved. It was also easier to like both of my parents when they were separated, so maybe now you can learn to get along with your father also. Just be strong and when you get through it, you will look back and realize you are a stronger person because of this hard time!
@EliteUser (3964)
• Australia
20 Sep 09
Hey,
Yea many families out their choose divorce as the best solution. Some people just can't stay together, it is like they repel each other. I honestly think that it would be better for everyone, it will save the stress and all that goes with it. Make sure you have a good day, Happy Lotting!!
