Until what age would you consider a child a kid? Will it depends on how big the

@hotsummer (13835)
Philippines
September 25, 2009 1:00am CST
child is already. Cause i can see some kids grow so fast. Like when they are already 14 that they become like a woman or a man already in looks. Some just look like a kid even when they are 17 or older already. and so it is not yet the same. some look older or younger their age. And i feel if i talk a 15 or 16 year old kid that is like a woman or big man already, how should i talk to that , As an adult to adult or adult to kid talk. i just get confused. cause sometimes they act mature people already also in a very young age. some still act childish when they are pass already their young age. Should we consider their actual age to determine if we should treat them as kid or adult already. and until what age should a child be considered. and what age should we consider them as not a kid any more. Or should we consider on their physical development. and how mature are their views in life already.
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@picjim (3002)
• India
25 Sep 09
A child below 12 is considered to be a kid.In their teens we call them adolescents.And after 18 or 21 as per the law of the land they are considered to be adults.It is not mere physical appearance but how they are in mind whether their views and outlook of life is mature which should be considered.Some look young but they are mature.Some are big of size yet not fully grown up in their ways.
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@hotsummer (13835)
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
but we don't just those teens in their adolescents as adolescent. then what or how should we call them. since i think there is no better term than kid also sometimes. specially if the one going to say is older folks.
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• India
26 Sep 09
Hey picjim... As far as I know people say teens as well as adolescents, both as kids because they don't have any other word to say.But when they say them as a kid, they actually don't consider them as one. Have a nice day!:)
@rhythm20 (67)
• India
25 Sep 09
According to me I consider a child as a kid till 10 yrs age. I do not see how mature or childish they are, I just see their growth that is their physical development. Even if they have some mental problem and act childish, only their parents will know that they are having some mental problem and behave childish but the others won't be knowing this problem and will think that they are normal by seeing their physical features and consider them not as a kid.
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@hotsummer (13835)
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
but people call teens as kid too. like one man will say to a young gentleman "hey kid! listen to me ". and i have seen on one tv show. and so that was why i asked this question. do we really see them as kids.
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@sid556 (30960)
• United States
26 Sep 09
I think it depends on how much younger they are than me. There are kids that I've known since they were teens and I was in my 30's. Now some of them are up there in their 30's and I still refer to them as kids and I look at them as kids. I tend to refer to anyone in their 20's and under as kids. I think that has more to do with my own age than theirs. They really are young adults. It has nothing to do with their actions or looks but because I'm so much older...to me, they are kids. I have kids in their age groups.
@hotsummer (13835)
• Philippines
28 Sep 09
yeah i see many people here when referring to people on their 20's as still kid. but upon reaching 30's, sometimes they still consider them as kids on early 30's . but on the mid 30's and above they are considered generally as old or adult.
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
I consider a child a kids from ages 12 years old and below and more than that is called teenagers. You are right looks is very deceiving and in my cases it is true, sometimes people mistakes me as a 14 years old girl like i am still in schools because i have a petite body. Then, to admit I honestly think young and not like the adult types with the same age as mine this kind of disposition keep me feeling and looking young. Thinking of problems and worrying is the factors which makes a person ages fast. But, if we know to handle ourselves and learn to adjust to it would like to live a healthy and longer life than focusing on those factors. Their are mature adults who are childish and children who acts and think more like an adults is true and i myself is a living statement to that..lol..
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@hotsummer (13835)
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
yes the look can be deceiving. we can compare two girls both 15 years old. one looks more like in her 20'sh while the other may look like 12 or even younger. and sometimes i don't know if that two can become friends. cause sometimes it may look awkward to be friend with someone who's look are far mature or younger than your age though your actual age may not be that far apart or just exact your same age.
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@flzmlady (418)
• China
26 Sep 09
i know that some kids grow faster or slower than what they should be like, and as for me i think a person who reaches the age of 20 should be considered as an adult whether he or she likes it or not.
@hotsummer (13835)
• Philippines
28 Sep 09
yeah i think it is because of genes. and many people upon reaching 20 still want to act like kid though generally people like to be like adult in a way capable enough to decide for themselves. but in my 20's though i want to act like an adult i acted more like kid. my view on things on life are quite still childish. and it was hard for me to reach the maturity i had now.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
25 Sep 09
My children are still very young, so to actually be positive of how long I am going to consider them to be kids is still to be determined. However, I know that my mother considered my siblings and myself to be kids until we were self sufficient. What I mean is I was considered a kid until I was old enough to make responsible decisions for myself and until I was able to support myself. I think that is a good way of thinking about it because that way you don't think about yourself supporting a young man or woman.
@hotsummer (13835)
• Philippines
28 Sep 09
that is very much true. if a person no matter what age, we judge them on how they are able to care for themselves not only financially. i mean if they know how to take care of their health, stay away from destructive vices without needing much advice then we can consider them mature enough. but if they still need guidance cause they are not unsure of what is right and wrong then we can still seem them as kids.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
26 Sep 09
I actually am a stay-at-home mother and still consider myself able to support myself. By saying able to support myself I didn't intend for it to come out as being completely financially independent. When a woman takes on a family of her own, there are different ways of thinking about things. A family doesn't work as just one individual, it works as a unit. My husband makes the money and I spend the money is one way that I think about it. What I mean by this is that he goes to work every day while I stay home with our youngest. However, I make sure that our family is supported in that I make sure the bills are paid. I make sure that we have groceries in the pantry and I make sure that all of the children's needs are met. I'm not saying that a family should only have one parent working because different families find their functionality in different ways. For us me staying at home with the kids is what works while for other families both parents working is what works for them. In saying being able to support yourself there is also different ways of looking at that as well. All that said, if I made it out to seem like a stay-at-home mother is still a child, I didn't mean to do that at all because I am there as well.
@harshadod (858)
• India
25 Sep 09
Child is the father of the man. We need to treat kids with respect and love. NO matter the age, they deserve to be treated as any intelligent, authoritative adult would be. We take for granted that since some one is young we can boss around them or treat them like kid. What amount of awareness and maturity they show will determine further interaction but everybody deserves love and respect. Obedience is a trait which we like in others but not is self. To guide, direct and influence others, irrespective of age, requires humbleness, love and patience.
@hotsummer (13835)
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
yes we have to respect any person whether kid or not. cause kid will become adult one day and they will remember how bad they were treated when they were still a child. and it will affect him every time he remembers when someone has not respected him when he was yet a child.
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
25 Sep 09
Hi hotsummer, You're right about kids growing up so fast physically, and of course some mature much faster than others. I consider a person to be an adult at 18, although some still act like children for years after that and some are adults at 16. I think we have to pick an age and 18 seems good to me although many still would say 19 or even 21. If we are thinking maturity, it definitely depends on the individual. Blessings.
@hotsummer (13835)
• Philippines
28 Sep 09
yeah i remember so many kids of my neighbor actually who were just kids , i was about 24 back then, and now i see them having their own family. i was really feeling the pressure of seeing kids getting all grown up. and sometimes it makes me feel sad and just wish that they would stay kid a longer time so i can enjoy them being a kid and so i will not feel the pressure of getting older. sometimes even though it has not been that many years yet but still their physical changes makes me feel older so much.
• Pakistan
25 Sep 09
Well i usually consider below 15 as kids even if they are bigger in size .Size does not matters its all about mental level which can only be gain through experiences in life In my country where child labour is very common when you go and talk to a child working in some shop or garrage you can easily feel the difference in maturity level in these kids as compared to kids at your home thats all about exposure to the world As these kids have to make their own decisions which makes them equal in level like a grown up man
@hotsummer (13835)
• Philippines
28 Sep 09
some kids gain important lesson and experience early in life and that is why they mature a lot on early age compared to other kids who have parents to do all the planning and provide for their every day needs.
@calai618 (1773)
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
I dont think there is really a specific age that a person is no longer a kid. Though the law has a rule that people of 18 years of age are no longer minors, it does not necessarily mean that they aren't child anymore. I really think being a chil or a kid varies person to person. There's even a saying that everyone is a child at heart. I think if a person is able enough to stand on him/herself, then I guess that is the time he or she is an adult regardless of the age. If he or she is over the age of 20 but is still acting like a child, that would be pointless. So I guess it really depends on a persons personality, characteristics and ability.
@hotsummer (13835)
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
i agree with you. that we should not see the technicalities until when to consider a child a kid. as long as we think that he is still child even if technically he is not then he is still a child.