flzmlady

@flzmlady (417)

China • Age 40

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Are they my friends or are just using me?

kwylima @kwylima (451) • United States 2 Aug 11

Hi My friends! I am really happy to be here sharing everything I feel like to share! Today it is : I love when there are people around me.I try really hard to please everybody. I know That can sound like crazy but sometimes I...

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flzmlady I don't know, but I have similar experience with you. I remember whenI was young and my family was poor, no one ever cares about me; But when I am older and my family become better in finance, I found that many people who used to turn their backs to me...

2 Aug 11

Fight in a department store

pinklilly @pinklilly (3443) • Australia 22 Jul 11

I was shopping today and I herd these women arguing I ignored it for awhile and continued on. Then it got louder and louder and the words really fowl then bang I herd a hit. One lady punched the other in the face... Then th...

fight

people fighting

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flzmlady I've seen something like that before. In my locality, one day three women started fighting violently. It was said that the two of them were friends and they found a place to park their car when the third woman came up, said this parking lot belonged to her....

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Is it possible daily hair wash?

smilywomen @surekharathi (14146) • India 20 Jul 11

Generally hair wash is in one or two times with in a week. But today I meet my one student she is also a married women and I asked her which shampoo you used for your hair your hair is nice. Then she tell me I wash my hair daily....

add tags to this discussion is it possible daily h

hair wash is necessary for every person

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flzmlady I know a girl who wash her hair daily, and I think it's possible if you got short hair. She washes her hair every morning and she says it's a habbit. I like this habbit and a few days ago I read an article that describes the life of Flight Attendants. In that...

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Is my motther being selfish? Or is she's just being stubborn? Or both?

thetis74 @thetis74 (1524) 20 Jul 11

I am a mother and am watchful of my health because I'd hate to get sick one day or at an old age causing worries and trouble to my children just because they have to take care of me and spend a lot of money for the hospital for...

life

people

smoking

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flzmlady Your mother and My father, they are the same type of person. My father has heart disease and diabetes as well as high-blood pressure, thank god he doesn't smoke, but he wouldn't do anything good for his health! His own health! He knows that with diabetes...

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Because of - S L E E P - did you cross your destination....??

busybee10 @busybee10 (3186) • India 20 Jul 11

Well, every one travels daily or on some occassions either in a train or a bus. And, becuse of tiredness,weakness or for some other reason you fall asleeep in the journey and sometimes it so happens that you go away a stop or...

sleep

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flzmlady I have to say that this has never happened to me anytime. If I am alone on the bus or the train or whatever, I never fall asleep and am always alert. If I am travelling with my family, of course I sleep beside them with their being on guard. I remember...

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Are We Heading Towards a World , Without Women .Why Girl Child Are Being Killed In Mothers Womb ?????

Ganesh44 @Ganesh44 (5547) • India 20 Jul 11

In my part of country male to female ratio has gone down to 10:7 by constant killing of girl child in mothers womb ......... But why girl child is killed in mothers womb although its illegal when today women r no less than...

without

women

world

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flzmlady In my country, up until recently, male heir is considered the root of the family and the handdown person of the blood, while females are bound to marry others and be taken away. And there are many examples that pregnant women are sent to hospitals to check out...

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Swallowing Watermelon Seeds

lilbabycatapillar @lilbabycatapillar (497) • United States 20 Jul 11

When I was younger, I used to take the effort to spit out each black watermelon seeds, when they are there. But now I just swallow them. It's really inconvenient to have to spit them out. It's also harmless. I think many of us may...

swallowing watermelon seeds

urban legend

urban myth

wives tales

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flzmlady You are right about the watermelon seeds, they are annoying esp. when I am trying to get rid of my thirst by eating a piece of sweet nice watermelon. But even though I think they are troublesome to spit out, I still spit most of them out when I am eating a...

20 Jul 11

What's your Ultimate FEEL -GOOD movie?

catcai @catcai (1056) • Philippines 20 Jul 11

I've just answered a post on the movie called "crazy little thing called love" and i suddenly remembered how good that movie made me feel - it made me feel young.. hehehe I guess the reason why that movie was the Ultimate feel...

chick flick

crazy little thing called love

feel good movie

movie

ultimate

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flzmlady My favorite movie is the Lord of the Rings. I don't know why I favor it most exactly, maybe it's becoz it is the first movie that emphasize family relation and friendship as important as love. That's pretty striking to me, as I remember it. And the actors...

20 Jul 11

Treat dogs as our kids

tryurbest @tryurbest (115) • China 19 Jul 11

Many years ago, I met an old gentleman on the internet. He asked me if I would like to see the pictures of his daughters. I said "yes". To my surprise,they are pictures of two dogs. 6 years ago, I got my own dog too. With time...

dog

friend

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flzmlady I agree. A dpg is a kid to a family. Dogs are not as smart as human, but they do have attachment to us. I got my dog 4 years ago, and now everyone in my family sees her as a family member. Once in a while the dog had to leave us for a few days, and in those...

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What do you fear most or like best about storms?

Awinds @Awinds (2468) • United States 18 Jul 11

Storms - when earth and sky engage in passions fueled by violent energy. Thunder, lightning, and in some cases, drastic wind and water action are all present during a storm. Personally, I enjoy thunderstorms. Outside becomes...

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flzmlady well, that depends on where I am during that time. If I happen to be outside...wow, that must be a frightening experience. But if I am inside, I usually like to watch the storm going on everywhere and shining the sky as if in daytime, it's interesting and...

19 Jul 11

Can you be inlove with an abusive person

catof1 @catof1 (683) • United States 19 Jul 11

Can you be in love with an abusive person? I met my ex husband when I was 17. He was my confirmation sponsor and I had had a crush on him forever. Well we ended up married when I was 20 and right on the honey moon I knew something...

abuse

relationship

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flzmlady I do not want to interfere with your family affairs, but I am willing to say something about this. I think this man is mental. Think about it, who will do such terrible things to his wife and his kid (esp. his kid is in need of rest!)? Do you think he...

19 Jul 11

Could you help me ? mylot friends.

haiershen @haiershen (1080) • China 18 Jul 11

those days, i don't know how to say,after several years work, and changed three jobs, in china, my age is too high for married, some old person always said that there is rarely boy whom can be match me.however, i didn't find a...

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flzmlady Hey, I feel sorry for you, but in China if your parents cannot find you a good job and you cannot find one by your own, then it is really hard to change this situation. I myself am in graduate school and now I am facing this problem too. I think what you...

19 Jul 11

Do you explode?

neilchua @neilchua (888) • Philippines 18 Jul 11

When something a person irritates you for some reason, are you the type of person that confronts people right away or you tend to build up those irritating moments then explodes at the end? well I admit, I'm the latter type. My...

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flzmlady Usually, I am not a person to explode immediately, but sometimes I think I do have to change a little bit. Some of my classmates (including roomates) are so rude and selfish and self-significant that theyoften say words that offend me. At the beginning I tried...

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When people talk or comment as if they are an authority on you...

kiran8 @kiran8 (15348) • Mangalore, India 17 Jul 11

Isn't that highly annoying ? I see people do that all the time, talk about you to others and sometimes to your face almost as if they are an authority on you...I used to get annoyed,lose my temper etc earlier.Now I just laugh it...

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flzmlady I have had this kind of experience before, and I say: I hate this! It is not only some one older or better than me who say thses things, but also other people who has little or no good also do this. Once I had a teacher in college, one day he called the...

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My cat is a pig.

lindaharding627 @lindaharding627 (1442) • United States 12 Jul 11

He always eats too fast and then gets sick. I have recently started feeding him three times a day instead of just twice to cut down on the problem then he looks at me pitifully as if to say all I get is half a bowl of food. I...

cats

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flzmlady My dog is a pig too. My dad usually calls her a little, cute pig, but he is right. She eats too much, sleeps too much and goes out to paly too much. I do not understand how she is going to keep her almost incredible weight when she is walked so often? She...

17 Jul 11

If you're down, how do you rev up?

visminda_824 @visminda_824 (153) • Philippines 16 Jul 11

Some have said that running can help one get rid of the symptoms of depression faster than any other psychotherapy. In a research conducted, patients complaining about depression had to go out and run three times a week for half...

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flzmlady I think most labor work can help, including running. I tried running once when I was down, and it is quite beneficial. But I would like to do the cleaning work in the house to get rid of the kind of feeling, or walk my dog until it cannot move a step. I...

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