Just Sayin'

@p1kef1sh (45681)
September 25, 2009 8:07am CST
I have just come from a friend's discussion about women's clothes sizes. I can well understand that women want to look good - whatever that is. But so far as THIS man is concerned I don't care if you are size 0 (or less) or 100. You are all beautiful to me. I love your comments, your worries, your care and compassion and the support that you give each other and to we men too on here. You are all magnificent! Now please will you all put your hands in the air and then give yourselves a round of applause.
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@bhanusb (5709)
• India
25 Sep 09
What's the use praising ourselves if men do not appreciate our goodness of heart,dutifulness & etc,etc.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
25 Sep 09
Precisely Bhanusb.
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• United States
25 Sep 09
I love you, pikey! I got so angry reading the other discussion that I decided to cool down a bit before answering. Otherwise, I would have spewed pages and pages of venom.
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• United States
25 Sep 09
No, not A man, the fashion industry. Idiots.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
25 Sep 09
Love you too Bo. I'm pleased that you are cooler!
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• United States
25 Sep 09
I haven't cooled down enough, apparently.*L* I just responded to the other one, and Woah Mama! That wasn't very nice!*L*
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
25 Sep 09
Sweetie that is so wonderful of you to say and I wish more People would think that way that the Beauty comes from the Inside but People never do they look at a person and if they are absolutely Gorgeous with a brilliant Figure oh yes all eyes go that way (my Ex Husband used to compare me to other Women and I always lost ) but when there is a Person not at that Standard they won't even get to know the Person to see the Beauty of them and that is not just Men acting that way also Women, they do the same xxx
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
25 Sep 09
Awww thank you that is so sweet of you, you are such a special and lovely Friend P1ke and I am lucky you are my Friend xxxxxxxxxx
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
25 Sep 09
I can only think that you ex had vision problems Gabs. All I see is gorgeousness! XXXX
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@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
25 Sep 09
gabs pikey is right you are absolutely gorgeous you and my pal gissi too.
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@littleowl (7157)
25 Sep 09
Hi p1ke, You are so lovely, thank you for your compliments not just to me but to all the women on the site...you are so sweet and it is one of the reasons we all love you too, because you accept us for the people/women we are and for our characters which are all unique...love and hugs LoLo xx
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@littleowl (7157)
26 Sep 09
I knew what you meant! you are truly lovely to think of women the way you do, most men nowadays don'y at least you show to all of us ladies here that there are or must be some genuine men out there...problem is there is only one of you! We can't all share you what would the 'Boss' say! lol hugs LoLo
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
25 Sep 09
I only say what I feel LoLo. You are all so good to me and I have really made a difference to the man that I am. XXXX
@p1kef1sh (45681)
25 Sep 09
I mean "you" not "I"!!
@dragon54u (31633)
• United States
25 Sep 09
You are so sweet! If more men were like you, we would all be happier! I feel fat today and this helped. Well, I am fat. But that 35 pounds I have to lose feel more like 100 today!
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@dragon54u (31633)
• United States
25 Sep 09
Oh P1key, you're so full of crap your eyes are brown but we love you for it! Thanks for the morning smile and ego boost!
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
25 Sep 09
That's not fat. That is just more to cuddle and who doesn't like being cuddled.
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@catdla1 (6005)
• United States
25 Sep 09
Thanks so much for your kind words. Beauty isn't a dress size, a gender, an age, or a skin color. It's what's in a persons heart, and how it radiates outwards from them to touch other people. I hope all you men out there put your hands in the air too for that round of applause! If we all jump at the same time, will we shake the earth? Let's find out...
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
25 Sep 09
The earth moves for me every time I see you appear. LOL. Gosh, that's smooth even for me!
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@catdla1 (6005)
• United States
25 Sep 09
[i]I'm so excited and I just can't hide it I'm about to lose control and I think I like it[/i], (Pointer Sisters) I love it . JUMP!
@mzz663 (2772)
• United States
28 Sep 09
That was really sweet of you to say p1kef1sh.....when we put our hand in the air and give ourselves a round of applause, I think we should be doing the same for you!
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
28 Sep 09
Thank you Mzz663. I think that individually women don't remind themselves enough just what marvels they are. I'm just saying things as they find them!
@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
25 Sep 09
oh pikey thank you thank you thank you, this large lady' Hatley loves you to pieces for what you just said. So shall we all bake some brownies and applaud ourselves for being who we are . hear us all clapping, and now can someone pass the brownies please. I skipped my dessert at lunchtime'for I wanted to make the nurse hear me about starting my new medication. now I am hungry.hugs to you Pikey.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
25 Sep 09
HUgs to you too Hatley. Yes. Let's eat brownies. Get the nurse to bring us some!
@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
25 Sep 09
lol clap clap clap clap
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
25 Sep 09
Indeed. Thank you Dawn.
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@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
25 Sep 09
Any time!
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@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
25 Sep 09
which is much better than getting the.... never mind...
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@Jenaisle (16568)
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
Clap, clap,clap...he he he..thanks P1ke. You're very generous. You have stated women so I presume I'm included here.. What if I say, I don't even have a size for my shoes in stores, I usually have to buy made to order shoes.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
25 Sep 09
Absolutely you are included Jen. You're all woman to me. XXX
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@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
28 Sep 09
Want to participate to just say, a good appreciation for giving an applause to the guy you are encountered in here...have a great day!
@p1kef1sh (45681)
28 Sep 09
Thank you very much. Please have a good day yourself.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
30 Sep 09
Good day and take care
• Netherlands
25 Sep 09
Awwww! What a lovely thing to say P1key, I wonder why More men can't be like you. Now I happen to know for Sure that there are some men out there that are real dolls like you are, but sometimes they are far and few between! Having said that, I think that You should put Your hands in the air and give Yourself a round of applause...just for being a wonderful man!
@p1kef1sh (45681)
25 Sep 09
Awww shucks GEL. Thank you. The truth is that I just love being about you all.
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• Netherlands
26 Sep 09
I happen to represent that remark most of the time also JodiLynn, that's probably the reason you and I Know so much about it!!
@JodiLynn (1417)
• United States
26 Sep 09
I represent that remark GEL! Thank you p1key, yer the bestest! Can I stop clapping now? My hands kinda sting....
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• Philippines
26 Sep 09
thanks!your post really made my day.if all guys in the world are like you,all women will be happy.the world will be much brighter.I am a size 6 and in my country it is deemed large.thanks for making me feel lovely.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
26 Sep 09
I have no doubt that you are lovely Coco. Don't let others make you feel that you are not! Take care.
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@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
26 Sep 09
Hello my friend Now if this is not the best discussion I have read since I been here how beautiful is that, thank you so much, my hand is in the air and I am applauding myself and all the other wonderful woman out here, you are really sweet, says alot about you to say these words my friend, thank you for being so special, always nice to know someone is watching and appreciates our words Thanks for being my friend.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
26 Sep 09
I certainly do appreciate women Kitty. I have really had my eyes opened since I have been on myLot and I just like to give thanks for that from time to time. Thank YOU for being MY friend.
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
26 Sep 09
Hello my friend This is really great, your Boss is really blessed to have you you seem like an amazing person, keep it up. Thank you my friend.
@riyasam (16556)
• India
25 Sep 09
grinning,big grin,YOU HAVE MADE MY DAY.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
25 Sep 09
You often make mine Riyasam just by being here. Thank you.
@Kowgirl (3489)
• United States
25 Sep 09
I hope that includes us skinny women. We work hard to gain a few ounces. It really is good to know all men don't judge a woman by her weight. Or how she looks in a pair of tight fitting jeans. Or wearing a close fitting sweater. Or whether the "girls" are big or small. Some men miss the best by passing judgment before they even get to know the person. Thanks, you have made us women feel better about ourselves..
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
26 Sep 09
As I say in my discussion, "size 0 or less", so you most certainly are included. I have been judgmental in my younger days - but I'm no oil painting so who am I to say what's good or not? I just think that women should be celebrated and it's not what you wear, but who you are that matters to me.
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
30 Sep 09
You are such a darling Pikie. Do you have an unmarried older brother by any chance?
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
30 Sep 09
Answers to Fred? I think I know him.But he's nothing like you Pikie...he's quite wishy-washy.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
30 Sep 09
I do. Well I might have. When I was a small boy for some inexplicable reason I would refuse to bathe. But once I had been plonked in the bath I would refuse to get out. So my Dad told me about my older brother Fred who disappeared down the plug hole one day - he was so thin. If you see a chap in his late 50s, VERY thin, that'll be him!
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@crys7881 (249)
• United States
26 Sep 09
Aaawww well aren't you sweet!! I'm having a "fat day" today so that is just what I needed to hear!! Thank you!
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
26 Sep 09
As I said to someone else: "fat" means extra cuddly in my book!
26 Sep 09
I could not agree more. I am a transvestite so I understand about womens clothes but also I have been professionally trained to work for a lady as a general maid and I have does so on many occasions.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
26 Sep 09
I am sure that we are as one in our appreciation of women. I am afraid that many men just don't remind them often enough how important they are to us, and they themselves don't acknowledge their strengths sufficiently often. I am sure that your experiences have more than reinforced those points to you; and that through your service you have pleased the women in your life more than perhaps might have been the case otherwise. I think that is the case with me.
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26 Sep 09
Hi Steve, Oh, you are so kind and yes we women have to support each other as we understand and always try to look good in ourselves but for me it is hard with my height, lol! hugs. Tamara xxxx
@p1kef1sh (45681)
26 Sep 09
Now then Tamara. You forget that I KNOW you and have met you. Small is beautiful and frankly I don't see any reason not to look at you and say "phwoar"!!!!! XXXX
@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
26 Sep 09
yes tamara, what you said. my hieght makes me look fat im only 5'2" so see
26 Sep 09
Hi p1key, Lol!, I just love your jokes, you make me laugh so much, that is why I love you!, you are so kind to me. Hugs. Tamara xxxx