Have you had an affair? I do..He's here...in Mylot.
@Mikaela_taz25 (1842)
Philippines
October 9, 2009 1:11am CST
I just wanna let you know that am having an affair with one of the Mylotters off line. he's a nice guy and you all know him pretty well. but he's also a bit popular so i can't tell you who he is but i bet you already know him.
he made some contributions here that people were amazed at. we don't talk that much on line but we do get fired up when ever he visits me here. of course, hubby doesn't know since i know he's still have that affair with my lesbian co-worker.
I know, we've become an open relationship but at least with people that we know. my hubby knows it, no he's not in question, we talked about it. were still together.
as for me am enjoying my time with him..he's yummy
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32 responses
@jerimiyah (232)
• Philippines
9 Oct 09
wow, an affair. that is practically new for me. im curious, how did the two of you start out?
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@Mikaela_taz25 (1842)
• Philippines
10 Oct 09
yes, an affair. we got to know each other as friends long before he got to know mylot. everything was just friendship until this past few months. he was...getting out of hand
i can't help it, for now were just enjoying the moment.
i can't help it, for now were just enjoying the moment.5 people like this
@jerimiyah (232)
• Philippines
10 Oct 09
oh, alright. im not encourage or anything and i hope you will decide who want to be with. God bless!
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@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
9 Oct 09
hello mikaela,
Oh, my who is that? am so jealous now. i can't believe you have some one on mylot wow? or you're just intriguing us, it must be just your hubby. you did promise him never to do that again you know. well, it's your life, were just here to support you. have a great life and happy my-lotting
@Mikaela_taz25 (1842)
• Philippines
18 Sep 10
who do you think it is. i miss that person, but i am busy in most times. don't worry we will hang out. this time, i might recommend something for yah2 people like this
@snowy22315 (170128)
• United States
10 Oct 09
well be careful with your heart Mikaela. I am not going to pass judgment on you because I have done the same thing myself as a matter of fact I am living with him now. I enjoy this relationship even it isnt all that I hoped for. I am doing my best to make it work, because I think it would be the best thing for both of us.
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@Red0426 (23)
• Canada
10 Oct 09
You and your husband are both cheaters no matter how you try to justify it. Think its fun, wait until its over. Lots of people will get hurt no matter what you say. This is just wrong, this is not what marriage or relationships are about. Where are your morals? Where are your values? Where is your self-esteem to accept this kind of life? Good luck with your life cuz your sure going to need it.
@Mikaela_taz25 (1842)
• Philippines
10 Oct 09
thank you snwy. good luck with your relationship there.2 people like this
@Mikaela_taz25 (1842)
• Philippines
11 Oct 09
Red0426, then why bother commenting when you seem disappointed. honest people tend to hate us for what we did but you didn't know what i've been through trying to be honest when my exes where cheating on me...you don't understand because the one loved was probably loyal as a sheep..
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@Mikaela_taz25 (1842)
• Philippines
9 Oct 09
yes it's settled. now, it's not the avatar but the experiences that my hubby,friend i had gone through. i could were pretty much liberated and opeminded to each other. i don't want to simple loose something from that person. well, so far were getting along well. he's very active here and the oldies know him
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@patofgold23 (5069)
• Philippines
10 Oct 09
hi kiakela..i saw thia discussion earlier and i had to finish everything and come back to give it my full attention...
wow..i am amazed... i mean.. i am not into any realtionship and that makes not being able to have an affair at all...
must be very exciting... and makes me curious to know...i just have to keep on guessing...
but hey be careful girl... always know your limitations... if you play, play it well and always know your limitations....
@Mikaela_taz25 (1842)
• Philippines
10 Oct 09
well, i make sure it doesn't spread into my friends an drelatives or it's going to be a HUGE scandal for me. i am careful, becuase we only do it here at home. outside were friends but inside the house, were more than that.2 people like this
@patofgold23 (5069)
• Philippines
10 Oct 09
woops i didnt realieze i inserted the wrong photo..sorry for that...
I just want you to be careful abotu your emotions coz no matter how we remind ourselves that we have limitations..we women could easily fall....
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@Mikaela_taz25 (1842)
• Philippines
10 Oct 09
well, i started it, with a female co-worker, then my hubby fell in love with my co-worker. i would agree with him having her too if i can have my own. when he agreed i immediately told him the person that i want,lolz he was shocked but he agreed. well, he trusted the guy because he is also his friend.2 people like this
@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
10 Oct 09
whoah wow what is that referrals of bf hehehee.well,i havent experience that but if he recommend his friend to you might something trusted this guy and he knows him probaly well too.affair is always exciting to discuss really.i am guessing who is your fling here lol.anyway take good care.have a nice day.
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@dorisday1971 (5657)
• Philippines
10 Oct 09
I never had an affair here in Mylot nor in any other sites. It's out of my mind to get involved in any extra marital affairs. I am a devoted wife to my husband and I would never do thing to hurt him.
@Mikaela_taz25 (1842)
• Philippines
10 Oct 09
that's good for you. not every one is an open-minded to these things but most men and women do it in secret. and it's over when either get's busted. as for me, i got permission4 people like this
@tamarafireheart (15384)
•
9 Oct 09
Hi Mikaela_taz,
I could guess who he is as I have known him since I joined mylot and I know he is from the same country as you and yes he is a very person, I think I am on the right track. Whatever you do its your life and as long as both parties are happy thats fine too, I wish you both all the luck and fun, be happy.
Tamara
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@tamarafireheart (15384)
•
9 Oct 09
Hi Mikaela_taz,
yape I was right, can't hide nothing from Aunty Tamara you know, i suss things out, lol, hugs.
Tamara
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@Mikaela_taz25 (1842)
• Philippines
9 Oct 09
you know him? really am surprised, i swear he never wanted it exposed. but he's a really K n Shining armor.5 people like this
@tamarafireheart (15384)
•
10 Oct 09
Hi Mikaela_taz,
Thank you for giving me Best Response, so it has confirm to me that I know who this person is, he is very nice and has a big heart, give him my regards. Hugs.
Tamara
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@hotsummer (13835)
• Philippines
10 Oct 09
how i wish to have a relationship with someone here too. LOL. but i am not successful. so i gave up already on finding the right person online. whatever relationship i have, i should just try to improve my relationship with people. hopefully i get to find some serious relationship too.
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@Mikaela_taz25 (1842)
• Philippines
10 Oct 09
well, don't pursue it if it's not going to work, most specially if it's hiding from your partner.don't worry you'll find yours some day don't give up on it yet., improving the relationship is better i guess.1 person likes this
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
10 Oct 09
You’ re an adult and I believe we can do whatever we like in this life providing it doesn’t hurt anyone and if your husband knows and he’s okay with it, then I wish you all the luck and all the fun in the world!
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@Mikaela_taz25 (1842)
• Philippines
10 Oct 09
i agree paula, we are all adults here and i know exactly what am doing and so is my hubby. so far were happy with it but we don't spend time with our flings every day just when it is available1 person likes this
@Ruby722 (796)
• China
10 Oct 09
People have chance to choose what's life she /he want. If you want have fun in your life..we don't have the power judge you or your hubby.Anyway this kind of life i never want it.....Whatever good luck..And enjoy your life with your charming friend..
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@Mikaela_taz25 (1842)
• Philippines
10 Oct 09
thank you so much for that ruby. were happy but if either is not happy then we will sop and go back to normal relationship. old habits don't die i guess.that's why were giving both an open rel.3 people like this
@gracefuldove (1668)
• Malaysia
10 Oct 09
Naughty,naughty! A fling,yeah! Anyway, if its is harmless fun you are after, play on.Husband knows about it? Things is getting to be confusing!
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@Mikaela_taz25 (1842)
• Philippines
10 Oct 09
that's right. a very serious fling. husband approves it because i gave her my lesbian co-worker, so that means i get to have my other man
@vikkiz (518)
•
10 Oct 09
How do you do it??? im not a religious person or anything like that in fact i class myself as athiest, BUT i firmly believe that when you are with some one you should only sleep with that one person??? You may not think it now but you will most certaintly have trust issues in relationships to come after this fiasco
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@Mikaela_taz25 (1842)
• Philippines
10 Oct 09
personally you don't know me. and knowing that you're an athiest, waht gives you the right to tell me that am some sort of a fiasco. we do trust each other. probably it is you who is the closed minded one4 people like this
@andy77e (5156)
• United States
12 Oct 09
Yeah, it's women like this that keep me single really. I would like to trust a woman with my whole life, but most women are like this gal. Which, that's their choice, but I don't want to be a husband to a girl who is getting laid by everyone else on the Earth. Why bother getting married then?
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@cutepink_13 (691)
•
10 Oct 09
it is okay to have an affair as long as the two of you both are singles.
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@Mikaela_taz25 (1842)
• Philippines
10 Oct 09
unfortuantely, were not. how can it be an affair if were both singles, it should called a relationship3 people like this
@Mikaela_taz25 (1842)
• Philippines
10 Oct 09
actually, this has happened before. it's just i made it an official to my hubby and so far, it's looking good.3 people like this
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
9 Oct 09
Hi there!
I have not had any such opportunity so far. Keep enjoying as long as you don't feel guilty or self-consious about it.
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@Mikaela_taz25 (1842)
• Philippines
9 Oct 09
i don't feel guilty because my hubby is doing the same thing. were so happy with each other having our own flings. we loved each other in a way we would share it with the third party, which we also loved.5 people like this
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
9 Oct 09
If your hubby is also doing the same thing and you both have given consent to each other for having a fling with the third party, then it is OK!
Keep exploring and keep enjoying with your friends.
Keep exploring and keep enjoying with your friends.3 people like this
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
10 Oct 09
hi mikawla_taz okay whatever floats your boat. If you all'
are in agreement then fine, no skin off my nose as the
saying goes. but for me no no way. I loved one man and'
lived with him and no one else for 43 years. but to each
his own as long as you do not get hurt nor anyone else
in this new age arrangement. but if anyone of those involved
becomes unhappy with this set up then someone will get hurt.
good luck.
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@Mikaela_taz25 (1842)
• Philippines
10 Oct 09
good for the both of you. sometimes i envy your generation for having such love and loyalty to each other.no, were not hurt, were that open minded how ever we asked each other and third parties how are they doing? if one is not happy then all will have to stop.
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@Maggiepie (7816)
• United States
11 Oct 09
[b]
You're joking. SURELY you're making this twaddle up?
If not, I don't even want to talk to you. You're just too danged weird.
Maggiepie
"WHERE'S THE BIRTH CERTIFICATE?"[/b]
You're joking. SURELY you're making this twaddle up?
If not, I don't even want to talk to you. You're just too danged weird.
Maggiepie
"WHERE'S THE BIRTH CERTIFICATE?"[/b]2 people like this
@Mikaela_taz25 (1842)
• Philippines
11 Oct 09
thanks for telling me that. well, i simply want to explore so far so good. i can always end it when ever i wanted too.
@abhi_bangal (3686)
• India
9 Oct 09
Like others I too will take this opportunity to wish you all the very best. In fact, if you both are comfortable you can proceed. And if both are receprocating each other, then at least, I don't think that there is any problem with what you two are going through. As you raised this discussion and I read it, it got my memory refreshed about my own affair that was online. But it was not through any such site as MyLot. Because, I was quite new to the Net those days and was not using MyLot. I got quite emotional and nostalgic after recalling all that. And as you might have recognized by now, our relationship was a failure. But the love still remains from my side.
