are you willing to keep away from your wife in exchange of 2Million?

@jndlponti (2402)
Philippines
October 14, 2009 3:08am CST
In our Country' reality show, the Big Brother house, their were couple there from Spain(Kath and Jimsun) and a married guy from Baguio City (Patrick). Their task was that the couple would pretend not to know each other and as if the married one were (kath and Patrick). They have to be sweet to each other to convence the housemates,they would kiss, hug and even hold hand together everytime. The real husband (Jimsun) was already very jelous and they were already fighting. Do you think you would do the same risk to win 2Million?
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10 responses
@jerimiyah (232)
• Philippines
14 Oct 09
Never will i jeopardize my relationship for money. The two million is still attainable somewhere else that is noble. They should not play with fire because eventually somebody will get burn. It doesn't matter if they are just acting. If Actors and actresses get develop when they make a movie that involves intimacy how much more amateurs like us, right?
@rainmark (4302)
14 Oct 09
Hi there, I do really agree with you, even it's only a pretend or acting they might get developed and forget that they are married. I think Bigbrother should know not to play on his housemates by giving this kind of task to the couple.
@jndlponti (2402)
• Philippines
15 Oct 09
I do agree with that. When you spend much time with someone else, specially for us girls we tend to develop a feeling. As what anyone says constant dealing creates feeling... I think that the marriage of the two should be respected. and try not to be an instrument of temptation or can cause trouble to their marriage.
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
4 May 10
I have watch that episode on PBB house and it somehow very odd that it was allowed to happen because it's something that should not happen at all. Like you have to split the couple and forced the wife to play and acting role just to give more spice and add new flavor to the show. I for that matter would not allowed it. I would rather exit the house and leaves the show it's not worth it. 2 Million is a big money but if it can break a family and destroy the relationship in the process then its not worth it at all. But I think there's a purpose why big brother did it and it just want the husband to appreciate the wife more and it's the morale of the story.
@jndlponti (2402)
• Philippines
23 Aug 10
that is true... there were really two sides of the situation for that. The thing that we notice first was the disadvantage of it that maybe it could cause much more trouble with the marriage but on the other hand it was also a trial for the husband to appreciate his wife and for the wife to understand and forgive her husband.
@rainmark (4302)
14 Oct 09
For me, I don't think i can put my relationship into risk just for 2 Million, specially he is my husband and so sensitive. If ever I'm going to do it, i will going to explain it to him about this task if I'm allowed to. You can earn 2million in different way, not hurting someone's heart just for it,even it's only a pretend. Happy posting.
@jndlponti (2402)
• Philippines
15 Oct 09
Pretend or not pretend it is not a good thing to deny your husband or your wife... Any marriage can never be exchange with any amount. It is the heart, the trust and the love of the children who are at risk with that situation.
@shell2784 (752)
• United States
14 Nov 09
No not at all. if i had 2 million dollars I'd want to share it WITH my husband and our home... I wouldn't want to replace him with it! I wouldn't want to hug and kiss all over some other man for 2 million dollars either... whether my husband watched or not! My loyalty to him is more important to me than money. I agreed to love him and only him - and to touch him and only him. My vows didn't say " be faithful... unless a couple mil are thrown your way".
@jndlponti (2402)
• Philippines
14 Nov 09
That is right. I think we could never risk our marriage for any amount. We promised to be just for our husband alone and we keep the promise til we die. Thank you for responding on this discussion and I noticed that you really is a good wife to your husband.
• Philippines
17 Oct 09
hello jndponti,I think this is really stupid, what kind of task is that, they allow this and for what? if only if those people are single then that would be fine but there's a couple there,real ones, can they be liable if something could really go wrong with the relationship.i believe LOVE is even more important than money at this point, this is crazy, they don't deserve to suffer that agony. i think the new instructions can be a bit annoying, i know it can be hard for the both of them. yeah, PBB originated in other country and this is just a copy cat show.
@jndlponti (2402)
• Philippines
19 Oct 09
Yah I think so too. Actually it is their relationship is put at risk now. Though we know at first that before they joined the reality show their marriage is already a bit shaky after the mistake her husband did before, and this task was like it adds more to the test and hurt that they are already feeling inside.i suggest if any or either one of them will be evicted the other one should also do a voluntary exit just to save their marriage.
@bernjane (143)
• Philippines
13 Nov 09
Actually, the task depends on them if they will take it or just leave it. Big Brother will not forced them to do the task if it is against their will. You have all the choices and if you can't do it, you wouldn't have to leave the house and get evicted but you are prompt for another hard task. For i can't do it because for a fact that i hurt not only my husband but also the loveone of Patrick (the guy Kath pretending with) and who knows it might be the reason of their misunderstanding when Patrick gets out the house. Big Brother teaches them their priority in life whether what is more important with them. Big Brother is insensitive and it is like he didn't care at all about the people whom Kath and Patrick are connected with. I understand how Jimsun (the real husband of Patrick) would react because it's not easy pretending your happy seeing your wife happy pretending with another guy. It breaks his heart much. The Advantage of the task was Jimsun awake that he was obsessed with his wife more than his wife felt with him.
@jndlponti (2402)
• Philippines
14 Nov 09
Hi bernjane, thank you for that comment..Well at least three learn a lot from those task.. Jimsun realised how his wife really got hurt of him when he get to an affair with somebody else. Kath also learn that even how much Jimsun hurt her she could not hurt her husband that much for she would also be hurt seeing him hurt. And for Patrik, he also realized that he should be more faithful to his wife for he was himself also was unfaithful.
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
21 Feb 12
I wouldn't participate in something like that. Of course it would be nice to get 2 millions, but I don't want to destroy my relationship, I don't think that it is worth it. I can imagine what would happen if I participated in something like that and I had to pretend to be in a relationship with another man, because my husband is very jealous and it would be extremely hard for him to look at me with another man. I definately don't want to put him through something like that in order to receive a big amount of money. If I got an offer like that I would turn it down.
• Malawi
14 Oct 09
I don't think so. 2 million isn't enough to risk putting my love on the rocks. There are other better things out there.
@jndlponti (2402)
• Philippines
14 Oct 09
we felt the same thing...my husband even said that it was a stupid thing to do. If he was in that situation he said that he would voluntary exit and bring the wife with him. Coz this might cause the problem in their marriage
@R_amy26 (11)
• Philippines
14 Oct 09
2 million???that's a big money...but to exchange your wife from money..?that's a big big problem .. marriage is not about money it's about the promise you made to God that for better or for worst you'll be together...marriage is very sacred thing..a Tv show must not allow this kind of idea...it's not good to the viewers...think about the children who are theire kids ..what will they think about thiere mom and dad...tsk tsk...
@jndlponti (2402)
• Philippines
15 Oct 09
Yes... marriage is a sacred thing... Anyone should play with it, not be an instrument to cause trouble for it... I was really sad when I saw this with that reality show, Because what would their child felt when he saw that her mom was being kissed by somebody else or he saw his parents fighting in the TV... That was so sad.
@champoy186 (1638)
• Philippines
15 Nov 11
I don't think so. For me, it only means that you love the money more than your wife. I won't do that for 2 Million. I won't risk it for money. Sorry. There are other ways to have 2 Million out there.