my girlfriend asked me why do u love me ????

India
October 23, 2009 11:27pm CST
hello my friends.... my girl friend asked me this question that why do u love me ???? i dont have any reason for this question....n i think there can never be any reason for that....i tried very much in finding the reason but cant find....mind stops thinking .... what do u think ....is there should be any reason for that or not ???? plz reply if u love someone....
9 responses
@athomice (396)
• Philippines
24 Oct 09
Well it was ask to me before with my gf now my wife. All I can answer is "I don't know" And everytime she asked me these my answer is always the same. I think my reason is I never question my feelings if I love someone. For me, if I love someone it means I accept her for who she is and for what she is. There a follow up question to that...How much you love me? I think the only reason why women ask these kind of questions is for security reason. Women whats to know how secured they are to the man they're with. Just be sure if you're going to answer these questions your answer should came deep in your heart. I hope I can answer your question. God Bless!
@athomice (396)
• Philippines
24 Oct 09
That's why my answer is "I don't know" I can't define my feelings. And love works that way and somtimes it's use in a wrong way. All I know is I'm happy and I'm content being with her.
• India
24 Oct 09
the reason is deep inside my heart....i cant read it there....what to tell her ?
• Pakistan
24 Oct 09
Most gfs ask their bfs questions like this! The answer in my opinion is: every man has his priorities of likes and dislikes. He has cncealed desires in heart and whenwever he puts an eye on girl or get himself involed in conversation with her; he finds his priority of likes and the concealed desire gets movement and he immediately feels some kind of affiliation and attraction to the girl.
• India
24 Oct 09
love naturally comes in every human life. but surely love comes from the attraction physically, there is no doubt. i think you have choose something like that. you love a girl as a girl friend, that you feel physical attraction to her or you like any part of your girl friend, which really make you loving.find yourself asking, why you do love your girl friend. i hope reason is this, what i told.
• India
24 Oct 09
no...this is not physical attraction....i think this is something beyond mind....
• India
29 Oct 09
i did not say that love means physically . but you will agree or not agree, its up to you. but definitely love comes behind physical attraction. most of would famous intelligent,physician, physiologist,expert are agreed on it. suppose if you love some one, you feel keen interest some time to have kiss. why and whats is this ? if not love behind..
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
24 Oct 09
oh man.. thats a good way to get into trouble with her. like for me i love everything about my wife. looks, smile how she treats me. you should have said everything
@bird123 (10632)
• United States
25 Oct 09
Come now. You can't answer this one?? If it's true love, you should have this answer and she knows it. OK. OK. let me tell you what to do. Hug her and hold her close. Gaze deeply into her eyes and say: I love you because when I look into your eyes, I get the feeling of HOME!!!!There is a catch that goes with this. If you do not truly love her, she might just see that in your eyes. When you say it, you got to mean it.
@shibham (16977)
• India
24 Oct 09
simple reason. i love you bcoz i need you. hahaha.....
• India
24 Oct 09
this is simply good answer....
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
24 Oct 09
uhmn,you know girls just want to hear sweet nothings...sweet words makes them giggles and would give them assurance they are being loved that much. Ok,you can say " you made me complete "
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
24 Oct 09
We just can't define the real meaning of love. It comes to two people who find each others comfort and there is right chemistry between the two love birds. When the heart keep stirring and makes the blood running wildly through the veins when you are with her, that person excite you beyond description, which triggers a unique feelings that doesn't applies to anybody else, then cupid arrow has pierced through the heart. No words can explain this anymore. The feeling of love is beautiful which comes at the right time to the right person.
@LdeL0318 (6402)
• Philippines
24 Oct 09
Same as here. Whenever i was asked that question I always end up saying, ""I can't find any reason why I love you, I just did".
• Indonesia
24 Oct 09
Not easily express our feelings to someone, a loved one. Not everyone is able to express feelings, not even able to say about the reasons, why we love someone. In my opinion, what happens to you, is something natural. If you really love her, say that, all that came out of the deepest heart, and I'm sure she can understand.