indecisivenes............need help!!

@riyasam (16556)
India
October 26, 2009 1:19am CST
it has been a long times i have done this!i saw my daughter of 8 yrs playimg FLAMES YESTERDAY,it brought to my mind on how i used to pick the petals of rose to confirm whether he loves me or not.do you still do that now?
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
26 Oct 09
I haven't done that in years & years, i found out the hard way he didn't love me, lol.
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
27 Oct 09
anyway this isnt true,all would come as they didnt love me!!!
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
26 Oct 09
I haven not done this in a long time! I actually forgot about it until you brought it up! LOL...
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
27 Oct 09
it was my daughter who brought this to my memory!!
@James72 (26790)
• Australia
26 Oct 09
Nope. I don't do this at all anymore..... What I do these days is grab the whole flower, throw it to the ground and then jump up and down on it repeatedly for a few minutes while singing "I am a champion" as loud as I possibly can. I find this approach to be very motivating and it's therapeutic too! The best thing of all is that after all that excitement, you don't really give a crap whether anyone loves you or not.
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
27 Oct 09
i would think of this exercise as also a sort of insecurity where in you enforce upon yourselves that you are the champion by singing it a hundred times....
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
26 Oct 09
Hi riya, ha ha very nice dear! I have never done that. I remember when I was in primary class we used to collect the broken pieces of ‘glass bangles’ then keep somebody's hand and broke again that piece and if a large piece is dropping to her hand it means the person she thought in mind definitely love her. But that time we thought about our friends (girls) only because too young to start think about on other sense. You made me to remember those days!
@riyasam (16556)
• India
27 Oct 09
i have not tried with bangles but now i am doing it again with my kids,as they dont know it properly and are forcing me to help them!(FLAMES)
@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
26 Oct 09
Oh yikes, hope she didn't get burned. I haven't done that in a long time, but if I had a new man in my life, I'd be doing it! :-)
@James72 (26790)
• Australia
27 Oct 09
Nah you wouldn't..... If you had a new man in your life, you'd be constantly doing HIM!
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
27 Oct 09
hes right,dawn,when you find him,what is the need for these silly acts!
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@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
27 Oct 09
lmao
• India
5 Dec 09
Hello my friend riyasam Ji, Well, in fact I need some ore clear picture to grasp hidden meaning. Why at all one should test children in this [articular fashon. Let's have belief in our own children. May God bless You and have a great time.
@riyasam (16556)
• India
5 Dec 09
hi,children are usully mirror image of ourselves,they usually mimic us.
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• India
6 Dec 09
Hello my friend riyasam Ji, Such acts by children immotating parents are vey much welcomed by elders in teh familyand it always provides platform for well begining. May God bless You and have great time.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
26 Oct 09
Oh riyasam my dear, those were the days! I used to do that when I was still very young and innocent about most of the things in this world. Those instances were part of growing up that actually happened now. I am now grown up and old enough to know those petals will not really answer that intriguing question of whether he loves me or not! So I don't do that more! Actually, I don't really have to ask anymore because I've married the man and he is now giving me roses to prove his love!I am now very secured and assured that he loves me and will not ever, ever pick the petals of roses anymore. I would rather preserve the rose and leave its petals intact till it withers and dry up.
@riyasam (16556)
• India
27 Oct 09
i was also transported to those days where i was wooed with flowers but the irony is that my hubby does beleive in being romantic,so if i want flowers,i have to buy it myself.