Do You Ever Chat With another MyLot Member?

Indonesia
November 6, 2009 11:43pm CST
Well i like chat, but i just realize that i actually never chat with another mylot member. Unlike facebook, i only active in mylot in the discussion section. I almost never send other pm and never interact with other member outside the discussion. Although when mylot error a few weeks ago, i use private message to another member to ask what is going on. But that's it. I also never exchange email, yahoo id, or another chat id with member here. How about you?
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16 responses
@snam23 (3157)
• United States
8 Nov 09
Yes, I do chat with myLot members, on and off myLot. I have a few people's email addresses so that we can IM although sometimes it can be hard with the time difference. I also PM many members, although many members abuse the PM system and add me as a friend just to spam me. But I've learned many ways to avoid that. I only give out my email address to the few I trust. If you don't trust anyone, (and its kind of hard to trust anyone online these days) then create a new email account at all the popular services so that you can instant message with anyone. It also helps if you use your myLot username as your email address. So always check and see if lordcaocao2025@gmail.com or lordcaocao2025@hotmail.com or lordcaocao2025@aim.com is available. It makes sharing a lot more safer, easier, and you keep your friends organized.
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@snam23 (3157)
• United States
8 Nov 09
I guess I try to do it but snam23 is short and very popular so it is already taken many of the times. I have one at live.com I think and snam32 from gmail as well. Also, sign up for meebo. It's a free online chat service that allows you to use all the popular IM accounts in one convenient online place. There's also a widget you can put on your blog or anywhere that accepts HTML code, like my blog. I forgot where, so if you're really interested, I'll look it up for you. Here's the link for meebo: http://www.meebo.com
• Indonesia
9 Nov 09
Yes, i actually know meebo but i don't really like it. I prefer use trillian Astra, the free version actually already have much function and it can make us login with many different id and many different chat software. And since it use software, not browser, it is more easy to use. Thank anyway for the info.
• Indonesia
8 Nov 09
O i see, that is actually a very good idea. It can make life easier that way. Anyway thanks for sharing the idea with us. Do you do this also? It really are a very easy and safe way to have friend from the internet. Anyway,thanks for sharing it with us my friend.
• India
8 Nov 09
I have used mylot prmarily for posting discussions and replying to some.I haven't really chatted with fellow mylotters though.I would like to do so, but due to time constraints I am not able to devote time to chatting and other things.Afterall there are other things which we have to allocate time for apart from the virtual world.
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• Indonesia
9 Nov 09
Yes, i agree with you. Since usually work in real life is our priority, and after finish work we feel so tired, and we still must do mylotting and some other also have to write blog. We also have family to play with and off course our girl friend also need our care ( although i don't have one for now :( ). It is hard to maintain internet friend. Thanks.
@Hucheng (163)
• China
8 Nov 09
Most of my freinds on my MSN come from Mylot,when they responded my discussions and I agree what he or she just said I would send them private messages and ask their MSN accounts.such as xixi-abby,pocchete,Ivy and so on,I like to chat with them in English,we can tell each other our problem that we encounter and ask them for some advice.Anybody wanna chat with me send messages to Hucheng please.You be always welcome!
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• Indonesia
8 Nov 09
O i see, so you actually asking other msn id. Well good for you to have a very nice friend here in my lot and in your chat friend list also. Well too bad i don;t actually use msn, since i mostly chat with yahoo messenger. Anyway, thanks fro sharing it with us.
• India
7 Nov 09
ya i do. regularly i am in touch with the mylot members. we discuss about the usage of this site. we normally chat the general topics which we share through discussion. I have four mylot member, each one does some interesting topics.we share the blogs and other documentary thingxs.
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• Indonesia
8 Nov 09
oo i see so you have four mylot member as your chat friend. And you also share your blog and many thing. Well it seem you and them are a great friend. Anyway how long since you already be friend with them, also did you ever have any problem with them. THnaks.
@Lucky09 (1763)
• Philippines
7 Nov 09
hi lord^^;; i have met several nice friends here and yes, we did some PM's about matters that cannot be discussed in mylot's discussions..or even just to say "hi". one i had met before when i was new here and had exchanged YM id's, taught me more about mylot and other stuffs in the internet and have been chatting once in a while. i think if one really established good friendship over the internet and have already the trust then it's not that bad to exchange other way of communication but ofcourse in a vigilant way as we all know that many are trying to befriend a victim.
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• Indonesia
8 Nov 09
Well yes, there are many nice people actually spread out in the internet, but like real world, there are also many bad guy here. So it is up to us to decide which one is good and which one is bad. So having an online friend it is not always a bad thing. Anyway, thanks for responding.
@rg0205 (2636)
• Hong Kong
7 Nov 09
Actually, I'm like you. I have never exchanged email, chat ID or other information with members here. I just come to answer and discuss. I wouldn't mind having chat friends from mylot though :-)
• Indonesia
8 Nov 09
Well yes, most of the member actually still prefer to talk in this discussion because it is more fun. And yes, although i have many friend in mylot (friend here i mean is friend in the mylot friendlist ), i rarely ever chat with them. But i do know them in discussion because most of them always come whenever i make a discussion. Thanks.
@The1one1 (105)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
7 Nov 09
I completly agree with you. I have added some people as friends here, but still haven't chatted with them
@djoyce71 (2511)
• Philippines
7 Nov 09
I have a lot of friends here in mylot that are my friends also in facebook and I get to chat with them and even send them messages thru Facebook.
• Indonesia
8 Nov 09
O i see, so you actually have a mylot friend in your facebook. Well it is good, and how many friend in your facebook actually come from my lot. And how you invite them to join your facebook, did you give them your facebook id, or you do it with any other way. Thaks.
@ladym33 (10979)
• United States
7 Nov 09
I have not chatted but I have messaged back and forth with a handful of people mostly regarding other sites where I was interested in a site or they were interested in a site and we exchanged referral information so that we could get credit for each other joining those sites, and then I have become friendly with them too, and we have each other's email address now. I also messaged back and forth with another lady who I had been concerened about because we read a lot of each other's stuff she had been having some problems and then she was not around for about a week so I messaged to see if she was OK, and we started messaging back and forth after that. She also writes for 3 other sites that I write for too, so it is nice to have her as an online friend.
• Indonesia
8 Nov 09
O i see, well it is very nice if you actually befriend with some one and that some one actually really are a nice friend. But do you ever experience be friend with some one, and then you realize that the friend is actually not very nice and actually very annoying since it give you some affliate site every time you talk with them. Thanks.
@sagnik42 (3592)
• India
7 Nov 09
Like you, I also have not chatted with other mylot members. I have chatted a couple of times but that was mainly just answering some questions of a member or asking some member for some answers. I just hang around the discussions and post responses and comments. Although I have fun in this site but my main objective is to earn. So I do not waste my time in private messaging. I post responses instead.
• Indonesia
8 Nov 09
Well yes, it is also my point. If i can talk and befriend in discussion, and get paid for it, why i should talk in private with no money given to me. Although if i think the question is private enough, i will still give some people a private message which is i think will be very rare. Anyway, thanks for responding to this discussion.
• Philippines
7 Nov 09
I am only exchanging private messages here in mylot to some few online friends. But never it comes to exchanging of emails, contact numbers...
• Indonesia
8 Nov 09
O i see, so you take the safest way at befriend with online people in the mylot. Well it is the same with me since i more prefer talking in the discussion when i am using my lot instead of talking in the net. I also avoid a spam from most member that only do mylot for making money. Thanks.
@SQD444 (677)
• India
7 Nov 09
hi there.. yes i do chat wil some of the fellow mylot members... after all we are here to discuss about various things so i think we can chat wil memeber also rather than just the discussions... cheers..
• Indonesia
8 Nov 09
Yes, chat is more fun way to do some discussion since we will not wait very long just to know the other response. Also with chat we will focus and feel like talking since it is really fast. Anyway, thanks for responding to this discussion my friend and happy mylotting.
• India
7 Nov 09
Hi lordcaocao2025. Actually i never a a chat conversation with another mylot member. As you said when there was a error in mylot that time i used a PM to know wats happing or else i never used to exchanged email or yahoo id or another chat id. I have not shared with anyone till now.
• Indonesia
8 Nov 09
O i see, well the same with me. I never share any other people about my email, although i have a few of my friend here in my lot to join my facebook. Although it seem that friend is not active anymore in my lot. Anyway, thanks for sharing it with us about your experience.
• India
7 Nov 09
Ofcourse..mylot is all about interacting with everyone...But i havnt shared my email id with anyone of em...None of my friends are in mylot...so i get to meet new friends everyday!!!
• Indonesia
8 Nov 09
Yes, you right, interacting in my lot should be in the discussion and private message only. But if you want to make a very close friend then discussion and private message will not do since it need more then just discussing thing to get closer with other. Thanks.
@The1one1 (105)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
7 Nov 09
Well i am still new here, but mylot doesn't seem like a good site for chatting
• Indonesia
8 Nov 09
Well yes, because that is actually not what i mean. It will be hard to chat with my lot, what i mean is do you ever share your chat id ( it may yahoo messenger id, aol id, or any chat messenger id software ). Anyway, thanks for responding and i hope you also respond my question. Thanks
@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
7 Nov 09
hello lordcaocao, yes i do! hehe because i know some members here personally and they are actually my friends even in real life. and i also have some friends that i just met here and our friendship goes beyond the discussions here... i also don't usually share my email add or ym id just to anyone, but to some that has been my friend here... i share...coz communication there is faster than in PM... i think there's nothing wrong with chatting with another mylot member...its just a matter of trust & of course everything depends on you & the friendship that's built between you... good day!
• Indonesia
8 Nov 09
Well yes, it is a good thing to have a friend from mylot. But well, i think i don't really have the time since my time online only limited. And most of my online time i actually spend in my lot and my blog. Anyway, maybe after i met many nice people here, i will try contact them often. Thanks.
• United States
27 Feb 10
i have been chatting with other mylot users for quite awhile now. alot more now than i used to infact. it is also a good way of communication.