cheating

United States
November 7, 2009 3:28pm CST
So amny people say "i love you" without really thinking abou twhat it means, without really meaning what they are saying. How can you love someone when you cheat on them? I mean comeon we have all heard the story and then here is the line " i still love you" i mean lets be honest thats not love. You dont hurt someone you love so why do we still try to pair the two as if it is possible.
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@rg0205 (2638)
• Hong Kong
8 Nov 09
I agree. If you love someone, you wouldn't do that to hurt them. I think that people who say the words very loosely don't really know how to love. Many people these days say it so easily without thinking. They think it's love but it's just infatuation or even worse, it's just lust. If you cheat on someone, you're not in love. You're just selfish and want someone to be with without the responsibilities.
@Craicha (801)
8 Nov 09
i always say i love you to my BF...coz i know what i'm saying and i know what's the reason i say this i love you to him...and bcoz i really do love him. I'll nah say the words if i don't mean it..... and people you mean easily say this i love you and the truth is not...these person is cheating or just hurts some one but the truth is these person just hurt himself too in the way of not being honest to himself..
@aisa86 (36)
• Philippines
8 Nov 09
yes thats through so many people either boy or a girl cheating,for me if the someone cheat means she or he love are not true.because a person love someone is nothing to do this kind of strategies....
@benny128 (3621)
8 Nov 09
there is different kinds of love, you can also love more than one person we are only human and we do make mistakes altho I have never cheated as dont think you should, but I have had it done to me. And she said she loved me and also the other lad, we are no longer together now but we are still best mates. So in answer to your question no one sets out to hurt someone on purpose but it does happen love is blind as the saying goes.
• India
8 Nov 09
it is really bad to say someone which u don't mean. now a day people use such words just for fun not even bothered that false words hurts other persons who believe it to be true.better to be honest as u said than to give false words to ur own benifits. true love never hurts loved ones
@kush20006 (515)
• India
8 Nov 09
this is because we think that loe is just a word which will act as a glue in tagging us togrther with our cherished one
• India
8 Nov 09
Today all the people do cheat with others. Man is say to women that he is love her so much but not actually
@eLsMarie (4348)
• Philippines
8 Nov 09
in my opinion, though i'm very much loyal to my partner, i can't just judge those people who engage themselves from falling in love two or more at a time. it's because there are some people who were born to have that kind of personality from where they search for so many characteristics that they may find lacking to their partner. on the other hand, we usually doubt those people because if they really love their partner, why should they offer their love to somebody else also, right? so i guess it only depends upon the situation...
@babyania (161)
• Philippines
8 Nov 09
i think people who cheat are the ones who are in love yet still immature that they are not ready for commitment. it is also possible that they don't love their partners as much as their partners love them, maybe their are not contented or happy, but if that is the case, it would be better if they stop saying "iloveyou" and just be honest to themselves as well as to their partner. . as of the i love you, yea, i totally agree. i hate it everytime i heard couples break up because of the SIMPLEST reasons after months of being together, like c'mmon?! after how many times they've said i love you, they'll just give up their relationship for a simple reason?! it just shows that they don't really mean it everytime they say i love you. if they really truly love each other, they will not have the strength to let go.
@ladym33 (10990)
• United States
7 Nov 09
I think people don't think beyond the moment when they cheat on their partner. It is so stupid because all you are going to do is ruin your relationship, and then all of the sudden you realize how much you loved that person when they leave you, and then they think that maybe they should not have cheated and it was not worth it. Anybody who is thinking of cheating on your spouse, stop and think it is not worth it. NOT WORTH IT! It is only going to cause a lot of pain and a lot of problems, and I am sure that one night of passion is not going to be worth all of the problems it will cause.
@danitykane (3191)
• Philippines
7 Nov 09
That's the sad part about love. Someone will tell you "I love you", but didn't mean it. I don't know how others lie and use this word just to hurt someone. It is sometimes cruel to be in a position that you thought who had someone who really loves you but, only hurt you in the end. If only that word could speak for itself, for sure it cast/curse all the people who use it wrongfully. I just hope they don't abuse the word(I love you) we can't just say it without even knowing what its true essence. Happy Lotting!
@loneraver (331)
7 Nov 09
I agree totally, the words "i love you" seem to roll off peoples tongues like it means nothing nowadays, i still find it difficult to say to someone even if i know that i do love them as im scared it will backfire! There is alot of cheating going on aswell and no-one seems to care! What happened to getting married and growing old with your partner? Too many single parents and divorced people as absolutely no thought goes into it before hand and "i love you's" are just another basic everyday phrase. Its saddening.