what would you do?

China
November 8, 2009 7:41pm CST
What would you do if one day you found that your BF/GF or husband / wife have anther lover?Or if your saw they lay on one bed without cloth,what would you do ?
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6 responses
@Hi5oka (63)
• Indonesia
9 Nov 09
My reaction must be get out of there as fast as I can and as far as I can because Its very dangerous If I stayed there.Human can do everything you know,who knows if I let my emotion out of my control I would killed them or maybe after I killed them I would kill my self.Always stay in control no matter what happened to you.If you let your self trapped in the flow of emotion you will always regret it
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@earth2jacq (1502)
• Philippines
9 Nov 09
My first reaction I think would be to walk out of that room if I saw them lying together. Staying with him after that incident would not be an option for me as I could never trust him the way I used to. Probaby I would not ask for his explanation as what I saw will be an explanation enough of what is going on. You don't lie in bed with someone accidentally anyway. I don't know if I will take him back either as I believe that a cheater will always be a cheater.
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@Margajoe (4709)
• Germany
9 Nov 09
I would probably say: Excuse me, could you both leave my house. I think I would then just turn around, take a big breath and leave for a couple of hours. The relationship will be finished of course. For me there will be no way he can come back as my lover. We maybe could be friends. But a relationship is out of the question. I think "Once a cheater, always a cheater". But, that is my o pion.
• China
9 Nov 09
haha....if there was my house I would shoot them both..but if not...i would say continnue.and live that place
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@Margajoe (4709)
• Germany
9 Nov 09
Thinking of it positively, it is not worth it to shoot them. Because reacting like you don't care would hurt them more. They would have to live with the fact that they lost the best thing they had. hahaha! You have the chance to go on with your life and be happy knowing you are not being cheated on. Take care.
@GaryJoule (211)
• China
9 Nov 09
I'm really not sure if I'm able to control myself at that special circumstance. And I hope I would never encounter this. If it's me that drive her to another man's bed, seeing her doing that will be exact punishment for me, I deserve it. But I'm not that type so it'll never happen to me.
9 Nov 09
It would really depend on the circumstances, I don't think I could stay with them if I found out that she had been going behind my back when everything seemed fine but I would probably try and work things out if we had been having problems recently. I would certainly want to have a very frank discussion with them either way.
@tomford (135)
• Richmond, Virginia
29 Mar 16
it depends, nowadays some women have female lovers or girlfriends in addition to being married or being in a relationship with a guy. if all parties are cool with it I don't see a problem, there is only a problem if deception is involved