GaryJoule

@GaryJoule (211)

China • Age 42

Joined myLot 14 years ago

Where there is a will, there is a way

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Don't tell personal things to your colleage!

dengzhifei213 @dengzhifei213 (37) • China 3 Dec 09

Because my work makes me unhappy and very depressed,so I decided to quit my job.I have submitted my letter of resignation and told my boss that I have to go back my hometown and my relatives introduced a new job to me.It is just...

boss

colleague

personal things

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GaryJoule Since you are about to leave, why didn't you tell you boss the truth. If I were you, I would speak frankly to your boss that I don't suit her temper. Ironic words? no, no, you should fight agaist her. you are a employee, not her daughter, you should not...

4 Dec 09

What should you do if your boss say No when you are going to resign?

dengzhifei213 @dengzhifei213 (37) • China 2 Dec 09

Now I have a trouble with my job.Because my boss have a bad temper and the work is boring,I want to chang a job,so I submit my letter of resignation.But She disagreed.What should do?If you met case like this,what will you do?

work fire boss

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GaryJoule yeah. She can't really stop you from leaving. Just do it after labor contract. It's not your company, you don't have to care a lot about whether there is some one taking over your job or not.

4 Dec 09

How do you meet people to date when you move to a new city?

pviles2 @pviles2 (1) • United States 2 Dec 09

I've just moved to Austin Texas (for work) and I don't know anyone here. I haven't had a date in almost 2 months. In the past, I'd always met my girlfriends through my friends, but I don't really have any friends yet here... just...

austin dating

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GaryJoule "...but you have to put effort into it. It won't happen if you stay inside your house all the time and never interact with people..." Good point. Agree with you totally. These months I've wasted a lot of time inside house and got bored day by day. I'll...

4 Dec 09

How to keep a good relationship with your best friend?

dengzhifei213 @dengzhifei213 (37) • China 3 Dec 09

Ling is my best friend during university.We graduated together this year.We are working in different city now.We haven't seen each other for 4 months.The worse is that I found we don't have common topic anymore.We were silence...

best friend friendship change maintain

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GaryJoule As long as no money involved between you and your friend, you could keep the good relationship with him. what's the best friend? Best friend is the one who you face without talking, both of you don't feel embarrassed or wrong.

3 Dec 09

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If you saw soemone drop money would you give it back?

Jennifer_lee_88 @Jennifer_lee_88 (589) • United States 2 Dec 09

If you someone walking ahead of you and you saw them drop and bunch (lets say $300) would you give it back? Would you call out to them and let them know? Would you pick it up and take if for your self? Would you feel guilty if you...

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GaryJoule of course we should give it back, it's undoubtful.

3 Dec 09

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How can we catch up with beauty?

xieshibao @xieshibao (4) • China 2 Dec 09

Who can tell me how to catch up with beauty?thanks.

love

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GaryJoule Love her, from the deep botton of your heart. only by so can you catch up with your princess.

3 Dec 09

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Silly mistakes, do you make them ?

elitess @elitess (5070) • Ipswich, England 2 Dec 09

I am talking about forgetting things that are obvious. The other day i went to the supermarket to buy some groceries and just when i was getting ready to enter it I realized i forgot my wallet at home. Another similar hilarious...

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GaryJoule Take it easy. Everybody has ever forgot something before. It's really no big deal, it's just carelessness, every one experienced it.

3 Dec 09

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I Fell in Love Today in a Thrift Shop

lmcueva @lmcueva (169) • Philippines 2 Dec 09

Have you ever gone into a store, not having a plan or something particular in mind? You just saw the "SALE" sign in bright red, and written in big, bold, white letters. So you went in, just to browse. You promised yourself never...

fashion

shopping

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GaryJoule It seems only women do it like that. we men going to store is only when we really need something to buy. And I think it's just that make men differing from women.

3 Dec 09

My daughter loves to hug me whenever she is sad or angry

riani2009 @riani2009 (581) • Indonesia 2 Dec 09

My daughter (age 3) loves to hug me whenever she is sad, angry or tired. She asked me to hug her and to kiss her chins. Hehehe...she is my sweet angel...so funny and cute.

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GaryJoule yeah, it's really a angel. I'm going to have a angel as well... Apr 2010 is the time he/she comes to our world.

3 Dec 09

Anyone want to learn Chinese? Charge Free !!!

GaryJoule @GaryJoule (211) • China 30 Oct 09

I'm Chinese and I'd like to take a student here to teach him Chinese. I enjoy the process of helping others. I'll be very happy for any progress made by us. My target is after effort of one or two years, you could speak...

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GaryJoule Do you? I added you as friend but never get response. It seems you already forgot the Chinese learning stuff.

3 Dec 09

The fastest way to learn something.

Pose123 @Pose123 (21635) • Canada 2 Dec 09

The fastest way to learn something is to teach it. Although this may sound strange at first, it is absolutely true. You do not have to wait until you know everything about a subject, until you have "mastered" whatever it is that...

sharing talents

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GaryJoule Good idea. But before teaching others, we should do some preview and get some basic conceptions so we can communicate well with the "students". you know, teaching should be interactive process, if the "teacher" knows few about the topic, he can not make...

3 Dec 09

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My friend honestly stinks...

milfea @milfea (519) • Philippines 24 Nov 09

I don't have the slightest idea how I'm gonna tell my friend that she smells without offending her. I need help my friends. I seriously need this one...

bad odor

friend

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GaryJoule Just invite your friend out for dinner or some drinks, pop to the topic occasionally and let him know what you think. Good luck, hope it works for your friend.

24 Nov 09

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A tight hug of our loved ones keep us feel......

rorisricha @rorisricha (732) • India 24 Nov 09

Especially when we are sorrow not in good mood when we get a tight hug from our loved ones we feel something like relief....mean it's a feeling...what do u say? even if we cry with a tight hug and cry off.....what all we feel...

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GaryJoule Hah~~ It sounds so helpful. But in China we are always shy to give hug to others, especially in public. Maybe it's just part of Chinese culture. We incline to keeping everything in mind and being not used to express ourselves freely.

24 Nov 09

If u love someone which is the best way to express ur feelings

umer5222 @umer5222 (724) • Cyprus 23 Nov 09

As we know that there are many shy or diffident persons like me, who falls in true love , but can'nt be able to express feelings. What is the best way to express our inner feelings about that particular person??

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GaryJoule If you are short of courage to tell her face to face, you could mail her or leave her message, whatever, you should let her know you love her. The girls care for what type you are, not the way you express love.

23 Nov 09

Are you proud of being you?

rjvb26 @rjvb26 (2518) • Philippines 21 Nov 09

I am proud of being who i am. I am who i am. I am proud of myself because i know what is right and what is wrong. I am proud of myself because i know how to do the right things right. I am proud of myself because i am not...

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GaryJoule What a environmentalism! U a right, All of us should do something to protect our planet. Ever vice-president Gore made a good video to explain the "Green House Effect", it sounds the current environmental situation is so horrible. I'm worried very much.

23 Nov 09