To whom do you share your problems with ?

India
November 8, 2009 10:15pm CST
Hi friends , To whome do you share your problems with. Consider a situation you have some problem which is bothering you a lot. It can be an official problem or financial problem or emotional problem. To whom do you share your problems with friends ? To your friends or life partner or brothers/sisters or parents or children ? To whom do you like to discuss your problems with ?
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26 responses
• Australia
9 Nov 09
I discuss all my problems with my husband - he's my best friend! Even if I have a problem with him, I'll talk to him about it. We don't ever fight or verbally abuse each other, we have disagreements but talk through them.
• India
9 Nov 09
Thank you friend , for your response. I also discuss all my problems with my husband only.
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@vingyan06 (2486)
• Malaysia
9 Nov 09
Yeah, I discuss with my husband too, he is the only one that could share my problems. But before I have my hub, I used to talk with my mother, now I already get use to talk to my hub. And on the other hand, I also want him to talk with me when ever he got problems too.
@neelimaravi (1793)
• India
9 Nov 09
hi priya, I discuss all my problem with my husband, if the problem comes from my husband means then i share that with my co-sisters. ours is a joint family. so, i use share with my co-sisters. thanks for your topic, have a nice day.
• India
10 Nov 09
yeah, thanks for your comment priya. have a nice day.
• India
9 Nov 09
Hi neelima , thank you for your response. I think you are lucky enough to be in a joint family. And more over sharing the problems with co sisters is really great. I think you have got family to adjust. Most of the women doesn't have that luck. Try to maintain the same bond with your co-sisters.
@simonelee (2715)
• China
9 Nov 09
Hi,priyavivek. I am not comfortable sharing my problem with my family because they don't know how to listen. So ,I often share it with my partner even though shes away from me. For many years i found comfort with her when it comes to rials that I, my self having problem in solving it.
• India
9 Nov 09
Hi simonlee, thank you for your response.
@danitykane (3183)
• Philippines
9 Nov 09
I'm comfortable in sharing my problem with my family. They know me so well and I trust their judgments. If my problem is not that severe I usually consult my friends or close buddies. But in all cases it is always my family especially my elder sister.
• India
9 Nov 09
Thank you friend for your response
@yaashmin (42)
• India
9 Nov 09
I will share my problems happiness sorrows everything to my mom and sister. Thank you have a nice day...... Regards yaashmin
• India
9 Nov 09
Thank you yaashmin for your response. Wish you that your mother and sister always should be near you for helping you in your life. Bye
• Netherlands
9 Nov 09
Am lucky enough to have winderful people around me that are willing to hear me out in any time and troube. Firstly I go to my husband and than, to get another perspective, I ask for advise my girlfriends - I have a solid friends base - they are like family to me.
• India
9 Nov 09
tHANK You sylwia for your response. You are lucky to have a good friends circle around you who are willing to share your problems.
@spalladino (17891)
• United States
9 Nov 09
It depends on what the problem is. There are things I discuss with my husband but there are other things that I only discuss with my best friend. My husband is not very good with some subjects...like problems or concerns that I might be having with one of the children or grandchildren. He'd rather not be stressed out unless there's a reason for him to be stressed out. When one of our grandsons ran away this past summer and ended up here with us I really appreciated her being there for me to vent to.
• India
9 Nov 09
Thank you friend for your response. You are right it depends on what sort of problems we are about to face. I too share with my husband , and with my friends and some especially with my mother.
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
9 Nov 09
When I was younger I always tried to solve my problems on my own and I didn't like to ask other people for help or advice. Now I have become more open and I like to discuss my problems with my husband or my friends. My husband and I have a close relationship and we can talk about everything. If I have a problem I know that I can always talk to my husband about it, and if he has a problem I always try to help. I also discuss my problems with my friends sometimes, and I have friends in real life as well as online friends. Some of my online friends and I often exchange emails, and we write about ourselves, our lives and our problems and we try to help and support eachother that way. Some of my online friends and I have been in touch for years, and they mean a lot to me.
• India
9 Nov 09
Thank you friend for your response.
• India
9 Nov 09
Hi, this is suneetha after long time i shared my views with my lot friends. This topic is very interesting and happy to share this one. based on our surroundings and from our family. so according to those problems we have to over come the situations then we go for selecting friends based on our problems and based on our friends. hence our friends means whether he or she aged or below aged or equal any one we have to take and share our problems to best once only other wise we won't share others. who ever feel our true friends then he or she can give support for mentally then we will feel some happy from those problems. so friends what may feeling is we have to maintains friends not only share our problems and we can over come the situations.
• India
9 Nov 09
Hi suneetha , thank your for your response. Ofcourse , most of the people share their problems with their friends. Particularly during college days and school days we prefer to share the problems with the friends only. Some are lucky to have mother in a friendly way. I also shared my problems only with my friends during college days and school days. Now i share only with my husband , he is more friendly
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
9 Nov 09
For now because I'm married I share my problems with my husband and if we get trouble with my husband I share it to my friend co that I will know how to solve my problem, And most of all to JEHOVAH GOD trough his holy spirit he can handle my heart in that situation.
• India
9 Nov 09
Thank you for your response. I too share all my problems with my husband only.
@BART78 (2927)
• Canada
9 Nov 09
there is only person i share all my problems with, and that's my loving wife, she's the only person could understand me well and comforts me if i'm really down..we always share our problems and how to deal with it..
• India
9 Nov 09
thank you for your response Bart
@borhan (1338)
• United States
9 Nov 09
Almost everything i share with my wife. But even after all these, there are some more issues, like my financial crisis or any mental agony etc i try not to share with her. Why to put everybody in anxiety. I have some net friends. with one of them i share all these. He also shares his problems. May be i dont get any solution from him, but ventillation is required for everybody.
• India
9 Nov 09
Yes .. you are correct... we have to share our problems that is very important. keeping with ourselves without sharing definitely will lead to some big problem
@bluray (408)
• Singapore
9 Nov 09
before marriage I used to share my feelings with my sister.we have a very close bond and we understand each other thoroughly. but after marriage and with hectic work schedule the distance grown between us. now i like to share my feelings with my husband.we share nice level of understanding and has lots of trust.
• India
9 Nov 09
Thank you friend for your response
• India
10 Nov 09
i share my problems only with my fiance. he is my too good friend.
• China
10 Nov 09
I will talk my problem with my best friends or my sister, my sister live with me, so I will talk her about all the problem, the official problems, and the life problems, and I will also talk to my friends, so then we can share each other's problems and make us more close, but I don't like to talk to my parents, I don't want them worry about me.
@junmae (1586)
• Philippines
10 Nov 09
I usually share my problem with my boyfriend because he is the one that I always talk with. He is also my best-friend and companion at all times. I cant imagine living my life without him because he is always there to protect and guide me. That's why no matter how tough my life seems to be, if he is there by my side everything will be OK.
10 Nov 09
I discuss my problems with my husband, he is a very good listener and always has a way to make me feel better and a way to resolve the problem I might be facing.
• Canada
10 Nov 09
Most problems I share with my best friends, some minor problems i also share them with my better-than-classmate friends. I don't usually share problems with my parents, because I don't think they understand them and there are some issues they are not supposed to know =P. They are not bad, just you know, sometimes there are gaps between generation. =) And also, there are problems I don't share with anybody, so I won't share them here, either
• United States
10 Nov 09
I discuss all my problems with my friends. Only friends have the capability to solve all the problems and see all those from out of box...
• United States
10 Nov 09
My grandmom. She's the most supportive person in my life. :)