How are your relations with your husband?

India
November 11, 2009 12:26am CST
Husband and wife. This relation is very bonded one. But at one point when one doesn,t like another , the relation goes worst. Thois relation goes fully fully on trusr. I want to know how is your relation with your husband. Are u friendly, frank or fearful with him.? I myself believe that if u treat your husband as your friend then the things go smoothly. Then u can share each and everything with your husband and u come closer but in some cases husbands are very suspicious so wives can,t share everything and start hiding somethings. This creates problems. so please share your relations. Thanks.
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10 responses
@ckyera (17342)
• Philippines
11 Nov 09
hello bhargavoza! i am proud to say that i have a good relation to my husband... he's my friend,a best friend just like my mom. i can freely tell him how i feel...he's also my councilor, my spiritual guidance, my everything! what more can i say? huh! he's just so nice and even if we do have some misunderstandings at times (which i think is kinda normal in every relationship) we are still good to each other and respecting each other's feelings! what i like about him is that he is also a good listener!
• India
11 Nov 09
Dear ckyera , U are very lucky to get nice man. Best of luck for rest of your life. thanks for your prompt response.
@ckyera (17342)
• Philippines
11 Nov 09
yeah, i think so, and i am very thankful for that... how about you? are you married already?
• India
13 Nov 09
Dear ckyera, Yeh i am also married since 16 years but we both feel as if we are just married . Our relationship is like that. we are more like good friends. he loves me a lot but more than his love he respects me more. He is very coperative . as we both are working we don,t get much time with each other but then whatever we get, that is quality time. We go for small trips together every now and then. This way we enjoylife. He gives me full space .
@Porcospino (30162)
• Denmark
12 Nov 09
My husband and I have a close relationship. We spend a lot of time together and we can talk about everything. If I have a problem I can always talk to my husband about it, and he can discuss his problems with me, too. Just like other couple we have problems and disagreements soemtimes, but we are usually able to sort things out. We share many of the same hobbies. We both like travelling, and that is very important to me, because travelling is my top hobby. We have visited many places in Denmark and some places in Europe. We are trying to save up some money at the moment, and I hope that we get the chance to travel even more in the future.
• India
13 Nov 09
Dear Friend, we have many things in common. Me and my husband both love travelling and this brings us more closer because we both are working so on daily life we can,t spend much time together so after some period we go on travelling so that time we spend time only with family . We travel a lot and in future also we have planned some nice trips. Have a nice day.
@Slewis77 (47)
• United States
12 Nov 09
Wow, what a great topic! I met my husband 13 years ago and we have been married for seven. We have three wonderful children. The best part, my husband is my "Best Friend." We have awesome communication. That is the key to a successful marriage.My husband and I are from two different cultures. We were brought up in two different worlds. Our views and opinions tend to vary largely on many subjects. In the past this created many problems for our relationship. We now stand by the three C's of a relationship: Commitment, Communication, and Compromise. When we married our husbands we took a vow as two people becoming one. Having secrets or being fearful of your spouse is not a marriage. Being open and honest is hard and takes a lot of work. More then some people can handle. It can be done, take it from me, I know!
• India
13 Nov 09
Dear friend , that,s great. yes, communication is the easiest road for good relationship.. Thanks for the response. Have a nice day.
• United States
11 Nov 09
Hopefully, one day I will have a husband like yours. Your husband sounds like a nice man.
• India
13 Nov 09
Dear ellywood, Ofcourse u will get good husband. have nice day.
@weasel81 (2501)
• Australia
11 Nov 09
you want the point blank, mine is up the creek. it goes back to when i had my son, i think that's when things started changing. i've been through a lot with my partner, and things are getting worse. it's been a standing joke between us that i was having an affair with my work mate whose still very much single. then early this yr his tone about it changed, and it became more of an acusing tone about it. my work mate and boss know what's going on, my partner dropped the subject me and an affair for about a month now it's all back on. this is only part of it. to me he's showing his star sign nature, and i'm trying to wait out things.
• India
13 Nov 09
Dear friend, Very sorry to hear your life story but i heartly wish that things goes right on your side and i will defenately pray for u everyday. Have a nice day.
@Hazelrose (2182)
• Philippines
11 Nov 09
Hi bhargavoza ,Well...for 32 years living with my husband i can say that our relation is going strong we're both very happy.We love each other so much,we shared moments with our children and i can say that he made me complete...He is my friend my adviser a good provider and he always like a clown to me.He always have a joke for me,he makes me laugh and feel very happy despite some circumstances happened.I can tell him every thing i want, even though non sense,but still he's always there to listen.I am very lucky to have him as my husband.Thanks for the nice topic.Good day!
• India
13 Nov 09
Dear friend , Many thanks for good response. Have a nice day.
• Indonesia
12 Nov 09
My relationship with my husband is really great because we love each other. I do not fear him, I just respect him a husband. We are each other's best friend. We have been married for one year, and nothing changes. Our bonds are still as tight as before. Now we are expecting our first baby who will be born on January next year. We really can't wait for our bundle of joy to arrive :)
@happy2512 (1266)
• Philippines
12 Nov 09
Problems sometimes cross our way because we try to meet both ends for our son. To much work can be stressful, right? De-stress my husband end up relaxing with his friends that's the only problem I have with him his personal satisfaction. So far we have an open communication & trust with each other. So frankly speaking I can tell him anything that I feel or whatever problems that I encountered with my work. I am happy that their is no gap between us.
@wahmivy (778)
• Philippines
11 Nov 09
They are well, thank you very much. We're great friends, best friends, in fact. There are things about him that irritate me sometimes, but I've accepted his quirks and weaknesses. I'm the jealous sort, but I have confidence in his love for me and in the fact that my husband is a good Christian man, so it's all good.:)
@doormouse (4619)
11 Nov 09
we're not married but have been together 5 years,i'm hones and very frank with him,i don't think he likes it that much,but that's who i am,him on the other hand,if he has a problem he'll just get in a mood and start snapping at people for no reason,,i don't tell him everything,nor does he with me,i like to keep a bit of my life seperate from him,i am my own person i don't ever want to end up merging into one with him