my dream is to married with someone i love..

Indonesia
November 11, 2009 9:53pm CST
can't imaging if i have to married with someone that i never feels love with him.. sometimes..we must to do this just to make our parrents happy,hhmmm...is it right?? when your age is close to 30..they wish you so soon to marry with someone although you didn't love,but its hard..i think,how could we do that?
10 responses
• Indonesia
12 Nov 09
Hello, niexs! Welcome to mylot! Well, I am married and let me tell you one thing, please do not marry the person you do not love. Marriage life isn't easy and living with a person you do not love won't make it easier. Take your time, and just be patient. There's somebody for everybody. All you have to do is open and listen to your heart to find your life partner. Good luck to you!
• Indonesia
18 Nov 09
thanks..for your comment..this is give me more spirit,thanks for support me..
• China
1 Apr 10
i got the problem as same as you, and i feel the pressure from my parent, and they fix me up over and over again, i'm 30, sometimes i worry about myself, i'm afraid i never find love when i got older and older, and was in a dilemma.
• Indonesia
18 Nov 09
I agree with it. I hope you have the best way to realize that okay.
@laylil (24)
• Morocco
17 Nov 09
[u][/u]Hello sister , we know the love is not evrything,there is sothing so-colled destiny and predestination but what should be in the person is the compatibility in age, culture, customs and traditions, if the person have not any defect in his creation and ethics agree the display for your parents , you will love him after marriage, the marriage is aprotection and immunity in essense
@SACHIN2708 (1638)
• India
17 Nov 09
Ok dear first I think that marriage is not end of life ,but ofcourse at one time of age you need someone who always support you. I am from India and it is very traditional country where arrange marriage is much popular ,boys and girl are happy what their family decided ,but yes now time is becoming change so here love marriage is also very popular but usally we do arrange marriage and you know it is not hard .
@adhyz82 (36255)
• Indonesia
17 Nov 09
ya, it`s very nice to married with someone that we love it. it can make our life is so perfect and complete our live. but if we arried with the someone that we never love, it`s so hard to make our marriage is like a heaven.
@jasmeena (850)
• Indonesia
12 Nov 09
well,that`s one of the most common problems..that problem is so meee....i am 33 years old,female,and single.after my break-up,i got so frustrated then that thought sometimes comes up in my mind...try to have relationship with someone that you don`t have heart,only to please family and to stop friends and relative`s question"When?when?when?"..i know love is not everything but at least you must have chemistry first
@ardyani (10)
• Indonesia
12 Nov 09
everyone had a dream to getting married with someone they love. Unfortunately not everyone can not do that. One thing that i wanna tell you, if you have somebody you love just let your parents know. I think your parents would understand you if you talk to them.
• Philippines
12 Nov 09
its still depends on you...im sure ur parents will understand u if u will tell them that u didnt like..
• India
12 Nov 09
Then why you are in love if you will go upto your parents why you accepted the partner's proposal if you really love fight hard like a warrior and get united ... you cant prove you love to every one in any other way than marrying the same person you loved live a life one step ahead of what your parents have imagined for then see what they say . parents avoid love is because of this you are not really strong in what you want... please don't spoil your 3 people life is involved in this be strong in your point and what you want ...This life is yours be selfish parents want you to be happy so make sure you get what you need to be happy ...only a crying child will get milk..