Do you miss someone very much in your life?

China
November 12, 2009 8:42am CST
We often miss someone in our life, because we once met some people who were very kind of us, and when we left them, we often miss them. me too. I often miss those people who were very kind of me, and supplied their help to me when I fallen into the difficulties.Mylotters, do you miss someone very much in your life? Whose people do you miss very much?
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@yan_blue8 (1437)
• Philippines
12 Nov 09
Hi bettydeng! I don't missed people a lot until you have made this post. lol My sister moved to Norway a month ago and i missed her so much now. Though we didn't talk that much and we also seldom see each other when she was here, i really missed her now. She is a dear and a very good sister to me. I love her and missing her.
• China
12 Nov 09
Your sister leaving let you missed her very much now. Yes, it's true, I believe you have the feeling to miss your sister, because when she is around you, you can't feel nothing special, when she moved another city, you cant' see here often, so you will miss her. You can call her when you miss her. Happy mylotting.
• China
13 Nov 09
I think she will be happy to heat that. Happy mylotting.
@yan_blue8 (1437)
• Philippines
12 Nov 09
Yeah, you're right! I missed her "loudness"! lol. I just did call her and say how much i love and missed her. She was just laughing about it. haha
• China
13 Nov 09
I ofter miss someone in my life, especially in my hard I wish them could be there support me and help me, I miss my mom very much, I work in another city, far form home, so I haven't been home about a year, and I miss my family, and miss the time I spend with them, and I also miss my friends, after graduated we haven't seen each other about a year, we can only talk through phone.
• China
13 Nov 09
Hi, thank you. I'm a Chinese, so I have to wait until Chinese New Year, it still have some months, and at the Chinese New Year I will have a holiday, and then I can go home, I'm so looking forward to that, and hope the Chinese new year will come soon.
• China
13 Nov 09
The Christmas Day will come, I think you can go back to home to see your familiers. It's good to talk through phone when you miss your familers. Best wishes.
@Annmarks (39)
12 Nov 09
I miss my friends, those, who have moved a way, those, who are close by, I do not get to see often, for, all kinds of reasons, I always do everything I can to keep in teach, we have so many ways to do this now, life is fast, busy, sometimes, we can become, caught up in it all, we forget, our friends. Whilst, I love being online, sending email's, a quick way to say, "Hi", it will never replace writing letters for me, this is the most personal way, to let someone, you care about know, you are thinking of them, that, they are important to you, if, they are anything, like me, the joy of receiving a hand written (or typed) letter will mean a lot. My family are my friends, for, some people, friendships do not come easy, they find it hard making friends, perhaps, through, shyness, the more you get in touch, the easier, in time, it will become, like second nature. I value, friendship's highly, second to the family, I have created, not the one, I was born into, there is a big difference here, when, there never has been a family unit, you cannot build on what you have never experienced in your own life, you have to start at the begining. I used to believe, no matter the distance, we will never lose touch with our friends, to an certain extent, I still hold this belief, strong in my heart, it can only work, when, you both have a strong desire, to nuture your friendship, two way, even then, as I have discovered, distance, can count, the miles between you can really fill 100 times further a way, than they really are, if, the other person does not keep in touch. We cannot, make people be our friends, it is true, real friendships, are the ones you can count on one hand, they, should be your family, one or two friends, who will never intentionally, let you down, I would rather this, than, loads of friends who, on the surface, may seem to care, when you really need them to support you, they are no where to be seen, I hope, I am a good friend, not, just to those who I am already friends with, to a stranger in the street, he/she, will test the strength of my friendship, without, a doubt, we all need challenges to get us to where we want to be in our lives.
12 Nov 09
Yes I agree you can miss people who were friends and I have thought about this with a number of people who I have lost touch with and with people you have lost touch with you may find yourself wondering what they are doing now and what they are like now. Sometimes you may get to meet these people again and I think that's where social networking sites can helpful in getting you to reconnect with some you have lost touch with. I also agree it can be nice to email and write letters to people to keep in touch with them but if its the case that you don't have their details then it can be hard to get back in touch with them-their may be a chance you can find them some other way, maybe you may happen to bump into them or maybe you may find them working with you or something! Some people I have managed to get in contact with others not yet.
• China
13 Nov 09
You are right, we need our friends, and we can keep in touch with our friends though we aren't in the same place, but it's convenient to contact by message or email. Second, our families are our friends too, we can have the talk that we won't feel lonely. Happy mylotting.
• China
13 Nov 09
yes, my friend, I miss a girl very mush, I think I feel in love with her, every day I will think of her,I think I'll never see her,I do not know where she is,I miss her sweet smile.hope I can see her again, then I will say "I love you"
• China
13 Nov 09
I really hope you can have a change to see her again, and tell her you love her.Good luck.
• Malaysia
13 Nov 09
yes, i too hope that u'll find her and get the chance to tell her the three magic words. and when u do get the chance, don't be shy or afraid to tell her what u feel. coz u might never got another chance to tell her what u feel... if i had time, i'll post a story of two hearts that got all the chances to be together, but they missed it coz none of them have the courage enough to say, i love you.
@ayebelle (367)
• Philippines
12 Nov 09
I miss my dad, and my sister. They are working abroad and they just back here just only for a month. It's like i want to be with them always. I miss having fun with them. And yeah i also miss my ex it's been a long time since we saw each other. I tried to call him but he's out of reach. We are good friends actually. But I always talk to my sister online and dad also call me sometimes. But i still miss them. Soooooooooooooo much.
• China
12 Nov 09
Miss someone sometimes is a beautiful thing, because when we miss them, we will concern them more, so I think you concern your sister and your dad too.
@ayebelle (367)
• Philippines
12 Nov 09
Yes of course i'm concern about them. Your so welcome, this topic makes me to miss more my dad and my sister. But thank you anyway.
• United States
12 Nov 09
I miss my mother in law and grandfather A LOT! I think about both of them every day. My grandfather passed away October 1998 and my mother in law passed away at the age of 44, 7 months ago. I know after loosing my grandfather that only time would heal my heart from loosing my mother in law but its very hard. Its most difficult because its around the holidays. This will be the first year her son and I are spending the holidays without her. Our life has been very sad lately without her. I hope that she is looking down on us and can heal our hearts someday soon.
• China
13 Nov 09
I can understand your feeling, I think she hope you won't so sad, and hope you live a happy life, because she left the beautiful memory in your heart, and she hope you can live a happy life.
@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
13 Nov 09
Yes, I miss this one person very2x much and I can't say how much I miss this person, but she is not going to come back in my life anymore.. . I always think about those times with her, and my heart cries, but too bad..
@doryvien (2284)
• United States
13 Nov 09
I miss my husband so much. He works in another country, he's been there for 2 years already and though we talk and see each other everyday via Skype, it's still different when he's actually here with me and the kids. I'm really hoping we'll be together soon.
@mdaazam (826)
• Indore, India
12 Nov 09
Yeah i do miss my first love , its sad she never cared. I was too young to think of trying any seduction techniques or something, but i loved her a lot. We were the best couple i think in the school. We had a lot things in common including the habit of a bookworm which is rarely seen in a school kid. I miss her a lot and you know its so weird that i have a beautiful girlfriend now and im all happy but sometimes i wish if i could ever meet her and show her that i got a better girl now so that i can break her ego , but shes gone somewhere i dont know ... well thanks a lot for asking such question and i hope you know how it feels !
• China
13 Nov 09
I knew you must have the beautiful friend relatinship with her, and you love her very much at your young age. Hope one day you can meet her. Best wishes.
• Philippines
12 Nov 09
I miss my late husband. My children miss their late father. Life has not been the same the moment he left us. I didn't have to worry about anything when he was still with us. We were so confident and assured about the future and how well we are going to cope. It is really very different now without him.
• China
13 Nov 09
I'm sorry to hear that, I think you lived a happy life with him before, and he must ba a good dad, so your children always miss him. I think he hope you live a happy life though he isn't around you. Best wishes.
@borhan (1338)
• United States
12 Nov 09
Everybody misses someone. Generally a good number of people keep it secret. Some discloses. I also miss someone, whom i met at malaysia, For no good reason i liked her so much, i cannot forget here. Most interestingly she understood this and i am so lucky that we two have communication through email and facebook. (Thank you digital world). I miss my those days at KL. Thank you for reminding me those sweet days.
• China
12 Nov 09
Thank you for sharing your good memory to me too. I think she is a kind of girl and you have the good communication with her. When you miss her, you can call her or email to her and told her that you missed her, it's very impostant let our friends know we missed her. Do you think so?
@damn54 (92)
• India
12 Nov 09
hi again betty! i lost a good friend in a motorcycle accident this year in january. i couldn't belive it when my friends told me that he was no more. now i miss him and everywhere i go, it reminds me of good and bad times we had. sometime, it hurts to think 'if he is alive'. but we are all gonna die one day and when it happens i hope i will see him again.
• China
12 Nov 09
I'm very sorry to hear that, it's unfortunately for him to happen the motorcycle matter.You can't feel sad, you can remember the happiness days with him, and forgot the bad things happened him.
• Malaysia
13 Nov 09
goodness,such a heart-clutching topic for me... i miss someone very dearly, and terribly deeply, coz that someone has gone to heaven... it bring tears to my eyes, just to read this topic and be reminded of that someone. those one sweet days... will always be cherished in my memories, for always.
@funkykid (441)
• India
6 Nov 10
I miss a good friend of mine that used to go to school here but moved back to her hometown, which is over 400 miles away and I have a terrible habit of treating people really badly without meaning to, and then missing them like crazy when they inevitably leave.I miss many, many people whom I wish I could have talked to properly in spite of myself.
@hotsummer (13835)
• Philippines
13 Nov 09
yes definitely. that is the cause of my depression right now. i have left a person who was the kindest person in my life. actually i didn't left the person it was just i was too shy to accept the act of kindness and help that this person extends to me. and so the opportunity just disappear all of sudden when i didn't accept it at first time. and so now i am left sad and depress.
@msedge (4011)
• United States
12 Nov 09
life - I am surely miss my parents the rest of my life.
Oh yes!I miss my parents.They always with me in my times of trouble.I wish they are still alive.They could of have been with me with my family and enjoy life day by day.I know they are in heaven now but their memories still remains forever!
• United States
12 Nov 09
I miss someone very dearly who I have been apart from for several months now. Not a day goes by when I do not think of him and smile, and I wish I were able to be with him. I've been going through a particularly rough time lately, and he's the only person I feel like could help me, and it's very difficult not having him here.
@LisaGuo (241)
• China
13 Nov 09
Sure,everybody does this.So many people help us during the whole life at different stage,we'll keep them in heart and be moved when thinking of them.
@happy2512 (1266)
• Philippines
13 Nov 09
Ofcourse! Especially if the person you miss is gone then it really very hard to handle your self missing that person. Just like me it took me more than two years to recover after my father pass away every time I miss him I only cry. =(
• Philippines
12 Nov 09
i miss someone very much right now. And it's killing me right now...