What really happens after your marriage?
By Fulltank
@Fulltank (2882)
Philippines
November 12, 2009 4:28pm CST
Are all your expectations to you wife/husband met? Do you love him even more or less, now that you know his/her darkest secrets? or do you fell contented with to live with this guy/girl for the rest of your life? Does he/she live and keep his/her promises at the altar?
Too many questions to ask, and I live it you to answer this ultimate question about marriage. "What really happens after your marriage?"
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4 responses
@itzmee1009 (362)
• Australia
12 Nov 09
Hi Fulltank,
We might have certain type of expectation,all cant be met .Certainly there will be some drawbacks too.All person in this world will have some positive and negative character.So once if we understand those positive and negative ,we can live our live happily.
@ladym33 (10978)
• United States
14 Nov 09
I think in the begining of marriage we expect one thing from each other and then as we get older and things begin to change successful married couples change with it. I think at one point in a long time marriage what was once all about passion, and fun becomes something less romantic but ultimately better. You spouse eventually becomes your family, not to say that there is never passion or romance but there is a bond so much deeper and stronger. It takes a while to get there though, that is what that 7 year itch thing is all about if you make it past that point then you have found that person in life who completes you and is everything to you. You don't have that gitty lovey dovey feeling any more but you have something much deeper and much stronger.
@alwayzzcitra (1861)
• Indonesia
14 Nov 09
What happens after my marriage? Well, nothing changed, actually. We are still like what we used to be, but now we're so close to each other. It's funny because I feel that I love my husband more than before when we were still dating. I have been married for more than a year, and everyday is getting better. We quarrel a lot when we were still dating, but now, we never quarrel at all, I don't know why lol.
I love being married. It's nice to have a partner who will accompany you in this life. I used to feel lonely as hell, now not anymore.
@allknowing (153544)
• India
13 Nov 09
Dont get frightened but do you know once the 'I do' is said the guard is dropped and the real self is exposed which could be anything!!!! The bride who claimed she was a good cook proclaims she has not even made tea in her life (lol)!! The groom tells the bride I am a late riser which fact was never revealed when they were dating!! Be prepared for anything. And if you want your marriage to be a success expect nothing and be ready to give, give, give.
