Which one is more important,money or love?

China
November 13, 2009 6:37am CST
I know this is really an old question but I assume there will be some new ideas here. I have a friend who gives high priority to money for she thinks a man of no means will not provide her a wonderful life,so she will dump the one who has no good future.Well,I am thinking how long a marriage could last with only money.Does happiness truely exist in no-love relationship?Will you give up your present middle-class boyfriend for another rich guy?
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• Spain
13 Nov 09
unless not true love i will go with the money.
• China
15 Nov 09
How do you define true love?Will you marry him once you find out that he is not your Mr.Right but a wealthy bachelor?
@jbrooks0127 (2324)
• United States
14 Nov 09
A woman that bases who she will go with and then marry on money could be in for a very rough time. Having a lot of money does not mean that that person is a good guy. Not by a long shot. So she gives up a guy that she could truly be happy with for someone who has money. Because she is only looking at the money aspect she will not see the kind of person he is. If she is very lucky they will be compatible and learn to love each other. But if she is not both will be very unhappy. She because she will find he is not at all what she needs and he because he married for love and found she did not. Money is no substitute for love. If you try to make it so you could end up very sorry indeed.
@sweetie1026 (1718)
• Philippines
13 Nov 09
Here in my country there is a saying that an empty stomach throws love out of the window, which means money is the priority in a relationship. But i believe otherwise, yes with money you can buy anything and everything possible to make life easier. But material things doesn't lasts, i believe that with love anyone can overcome every odds that life has to offer.
• United States
14 Nov 09
I think I know that the answer is love - it keeps you warm when the wind is cold, Never had the chance to learn about money - but I will stick with my first instinct... love.
@meng23 (145)
• Philippines
13 Nov 09
Relationship without love will never experience real happiness. Giving up my present middle class boyfriend for another rich guy? My answer is no. Im not a materialistic person. Money is not my basis in choosing a boyfriend. I think I will base on his attitude. On how responsible is he.