Young Women OR Elder Women??????? What does men prefer and Y???

Maldives
November 15, 2009 5:50pm CST
Dear All, Recently I have been facing a discussion from diff ages of men reference which age of women are preferred by men... My friends who are around 20 to 28 prefer to have relation ship which elder women about 5 years or more their senior. My friends who are above 35 prefer young women around 20 to 25... I am really confused!!!! Can anybody enlighten me on this and whats the philosophy behind the preference???
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
16 Nov 09
hi fairyprinces as a woman I think I know why men over 35 want young women is so they can be paraded around as trophy wives and be arm candy so to speak. And the young women of 18 or even17 are looking for a sugar daddy who has made quite a bit of money and will lavish it on his arm candy. And young men prefer women a bit older as they are more experienced and know the score so to speak. These are just my own interpretations of course.
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• Maldives
16 Nov 09
That's exactly what I told a man... But he said to my face that after age of thirty what really is a woman which made me irritated. This guys opinion was that a woman of thirty should settle with anyone who came there way as they are over the hill.. I have seen lot of woman who are married to guys twice their age and taking advantage. Pretending they love the man and the moment their back is turned seek pleasure else where.. Both the above manner seem really disgusting to me...
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• India
16 Nov 09
Well said Hatley. This is the honest fact.
@tdemex (3540)
• United States
16 Nov 09
@blion23 (403)
• United States
16 Nov 09
Honestly, it really depends on the person. My wife is 2 years younger than I am, I don't think that age really has to do with it, it is more of how fast people mature. We get along extremely well and rarely disagree even after 11 years. I think that it depends on who it is that you ask but I think that most guys prefer a girl that is younger because it seems more natural to care after them. I am not really sure if this is right, but that is just how I interpret it. I have asked a lot of my friends about the same thing, it really depends on the person.
• Maldives
16 Nov 09
I think you have a point there... Recently on TV i saw a man commenting that an older woman knows how to care for a man.. Than again I guess id does depend on the person... Thank you
@weasel81 (2496)
• Australia
16 Nov 09
there's nearly a 6 yr gap between my partner and i, he's older. but i've got a thing for older men, guys younger than me just do nothing for me. can't explain why, like you can see the imaturity in young men at times.
• Maldives
16 Nov 09
Yeah I do see the immaturity in younger men as well but among them there are a handful who are quite mature and understand the true value of life... I do respect a year or two here and there but the vast difference is what boggles my mind... Thanks for your opinion...
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
16 Nov 09
I think I choose older than me. Because those older women have more mature thinking and very understanding while those young women is still in the age of maturity that never control when they found that they need more...
• India
4 Dec 09
during a friendly discussions on love and affection, i asked the same question to my friends. and surprisingly 4 out of 7 had the same opinion as yours. Younger suggested that a matured and experienced housewife can take care of all areas, she can understand the things as they are...not as they appear. she will be more respectful and caring. elders suggest that young girls are full of youth, energy and love. they care their mature partners and respect between the couple is very good.
• India
16 Nov 09
dear, today,s changing mind , changing faces of world. we cannot describe men's psychology. dat shud changes according to ages. if i say men should prefer elder women. because of their maturity. nd todayz young ones are nothin but crazy. there is no philosophy behind it. but in short men are like dogs??
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
16 Nov 09
Dear friend, I hope it entirely depend upon the taste of various men. Moreover I hope it also depends upon one's attitude towards married life. I personaly prefer young women with mature mind but I hardly had seen any one like that.
• Malaysia
16 Nov 09
Hi, Fairyprinces! Do you mean that they will do it purposely? Asking for age before going out for a date?? If yes, I think some of them just want to boost up their self-confidence or self-esteem or because of they feel the compatibility, but I don't think if this is the reason, age matters because sometimes when a man is attracted to a woman or vice versa, they don't go and ask how old he or she is. They will only learn that after they get to know each other and from there they will decide whether she or he is matured or good enough for the relationship. Even if the age is revealed, but once a person is attracted to one another, age is really only a number. However, if it's only for fun then, there is no further explanation.
@GaryJoule (211)
• China
16 Nov 09
Young men are eager to grow up, so they take mature women as their examples and prefer elder women. Elder men are reluctant to admit youthful won't belong to them any more. So they seek young ladies to meet their fantasy.
@junmae (1586)
• Philippines
16 Nov 09
I also noticed that my friend, some young guys preferred older women while the older guys preferred younger woman. I don't know why they think that way because i don't have any idea why they didn't prefer women with there same age.
• Pakistan
16 Nov 09
my dear i prefer Elder Women
@umer5222 (724)
• Cyprus
16 Nov 09
Its case of psychology, Elder man want young blood , while young man want some experience blood, because young does not contains experience.
@jinbotol (102)
• Indonesia
16 Nov 09
i tink women must be younger than man,if you will make a ralitionship becauseeeeee.... woman tofast be older than man .
• Philippines
16 Nov 09
Age doesn't matter as long as you both jive from each other. I had a female friend who is 11 years older than her husband. They both get along with each other for seven years now with two boys and a girl. My friend told me that its not her preference to choose for a younger man but it seems that young men fall for him. Younger men feel like they are being taken care of older women. My friend believes that you have to feel and look young everyday whatever it takes..
@raisur (423)
• Bangladesh
16 Nov 09
fairyprinces, I think, it has nothing to do with age... though, i'm sure, you'll get different thoughts about it from different persons... i feel, it's mostly the right match that we should be concerned about... it can be in any of the probable combination of ages of man and woman... but, yeah, before you find a match, everyone might have different preferences... probably, that's what you are concerned about... you being from Maldives, you know, at least in our part of the world, it's a social trend that males be older than females in a marital partnership... as it is generally believed that females attain maturity at an early stage, both psychologically and physically, it should be like men preferring younger women and vice-versa... but again, it mostly depends on if this perception is really true between any particular two...
• Thailand
16 Nov 09
I don't know, I'd probably prefer younger girls but when the time comes, I'm sure I won't be able to pick. Older women are good too, but I reckon it'd be pretty hard to get to know an older women as they probably would go for someone older than them so they can feel more assured. Not that I've never tried dating an older women but in the end, when the time is right, I won't beable to pick who I marry.
• United States
16 Nov 09
im 23 yrs and for me i like older women from 30-45 yrs because most of the young woman dont really know what they want and can be really jelous well most of them but older women can be really sweat and most of the are not jelous.
• China
16 Nov 09
dear , i'm also cannot understand what you said ,alought,there are also some example which the women are elder than the men in my country ,but it's fewer,and the women just more 1 or 2 years old ,most of the men like to find a relationship than young themselves ,for me ,i also like to find a boyfrind elder tham me ,