Are You still Waiting for Your Sweetheart Showing Up?

Hello sweetheart - If you have found your Mr or Miss Right, don't do anything stupid to hurt him or her; If not, please wait patiently until he or she appears.
China
November 21, 2009 1:51am CST
With growing old day by day, your love hasn't show up, are you discouraged? Will you take the risk of getting old alone and persist in waiting for him/her? What is your feeling while you are waiting? Sometimes, you just can not tell how feeling works, but it really works. If you have found your Mr or Miss Right, don't do anything stupid to hurt him or her. If not, please wait patiently until he or she appears. Are you still waiting for your sweetheart showing up? Or have you been ready to find one actively?
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@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
21 Nov 09
I am married and i have My Missis not so right, i just want you guys to know that there will be no Mrs. Right, only part right or half right. You dont expect your wife ,( or wife to be) so perfect. There will always be discussions and fights but it will depend on how you took the matter to prove to yourself that you are the Mr. Right for your Ms. not so Right
@AmbiePam (85681)
• United States
21 Nov 09
That's how I look at it. I'm not looking for someone to complete my life, but to compliment my life. I cannot pin my hopes for happiness on another person, that isn't realistic. But I can meet someone whom I can build a strong foundation of a relationship with. We can compliment each other's life quite nicely, and encourage each other in every day life.
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@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
21 Nov 09
You are gonna have a lucky Husband
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
23 Nov 09
I was very lucky to have found mine when I did. I wasn't looking for my sweetheart at the time, in fact when he came into my life I was so heartbroken that I thought I would never find someone that would be honest with me and love me for who I am. Then along came Tom. I knew as soon as I met him that he was my soulmate. We were engaged after only knowing each other for seven months and we got married two years after we got engaged. I don't intend to do anything that would ever cause me to run the risk of losing him. I know that he is a very special man and there is not another man in the world that is quite like my sweetheart.
• Malaysia
22 Nov 09
I am waiting for a Zamboangan to reappear or resurface in my life after she quit from my mylot friendship whom previously listed in the friends list. To change my mind in looking for others, I don't so that I can make it for now because I've vowed I'll wait for her until Dec. 25, 2010. What I can do now is put hopes and extend it to deep hopes. I want to see how effective is 'Power of Hope'.
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
22 Nov 09
Well well, love will come knocking on our doors only if we are eager in the same way.. If one is just plain waiting, they will be waiting in vain!! Love does not come easy, much less true love.. haha =D Love has got to be fight for, because it's only then, we tend to realise how important they are to us, therfore we learn to cherish and treasure.. haha =D
@celticeagle (159510)
• Boise, Idaho
22 Nov 09
I used to be very much the romantic, and was sure I would meet the right guy for me. I am taking the risk and growing old alone. I used to be excited and sure I would meet him. I didn't think he would just around the corner so I was online also and a member of several social networking/dating sites. I thought I would meet him and go live where ever he was. It just hasn't happened and them men I meet are less than adecquate. I have pretty much given up hope and have resigned myself to not growing old with anyone. I am not really looking anymore and I don't care one way or the other. I think if it is meant to be it will happen.
@Jensie (120)
• China
22 Nov 09
Still waiting. I hope he would shown up right away. Then I can get away from all the damn things I am suffering.
@AmbiePam (85681)
• United States
21 Nov 09
I haven't found the one I'm going to spend the rest of my life with. The one who will be the proverbial Mr. Right. But I can wait. I believe God hasn't brought him along yet in my life for a reason. I also think that waiting for this person will make our eventual relationship just that much better for having had to wait.
@ersmommy1 (12588)
• United States
21 Nov 09
I found mine! He is asleep in the next room. I married him, and I intend on keeping him. He came when I wasn't looking or expecting him. Funny how that happens.
@bjcyrix (6901)
• Philippines
21 Nov 09
Haha! Actually, I kinda smiled when I first read the discussion details. The subject line kinda made me think that perhaps there is a story in here somewhere stating the reasons why the partner left and has not come back yet. Then I read you were referring to those people who have not met their lifetime partners yet. Again, this kind of thing depends on the individual. Is he/she by any chance even looking or waiting for that someone? Or they just get on with their lives, helping their family, building their career, etc, and when love finds them then that's great, if not, then better luck next time..? I do have to say that growing up and like you said growing old day by day, one does get to think of the future. "Am I gonna stay like this forever?", "Do I have to look for someone?", "Is there even someone out there who would even take an interest in me in that way?". I believe that its our choice if the person is Mr./Ms. Right for us. Everybody can be those them if we just will it, believe in it, and act upon it. But I do agree with you that once we have found that or made that choice, its best to nurture it. Personally, Im not looking at this point. I still have things that I want to accomplish before I actively look for it. If he finds me when Im not ready, then I do hope that he's willing to wait but I am going to accommodate him. I mean I will acknowledge the fact that he's right there, but nothing will be official until Im ready. That's just me anyways.
@savypat (20216)
• United States
21 Nov 09
If you are waiting for some one to show up on a white horse or a maiden in danger to save, forget it. Get busy making yourself into the type of person you think would attract your love and let the law of attraction take place. Blessings
@mdaazam (826)
• Indore, India
21 Nov 09
Oh yeah mate there is a girl who cheated on me .. I hated her and then mate some very very big achievements in developing my personality(by big i mean VERY ENORMOUS) and then got her back and slept with her and gave her signs for her getting lost and out of my life after that.. I know i was cruel but i was mad for her and maybe she wont ever forgive me but i keep dreaming about her to be with me and wished a lot that i didnt did what i did with her . Anyways i got the best girl of my college right now !! Cheerz guys and happy to see that some have got their love with them.
@leafsound (348)
• China
21 Nov 09
So beautiful topic! When I was a boy, I didn't get my first love. When I lost her, I often miss her. When I saw the leaves falled in autumn, I was worried whether she got sad. When it rained, I was worried whether she forgeted umbrella. When new year came, I was worried whether she got old. Every day I hoped her happy.
@Prima641 (86)
• Indonesia
21 Nov 09
I certainly would not make her disappointed especially hurt if the idol of my heart actually came to see me :)