why did you forgive those that offend you?

Nigeria
November 26, 2009 11:31am CST
We offend each others daily and some forget and forgive while some refuse to forgive also some people can not forget but as for me i do forget and forgive those that offend me because i know if i don't forgive and the rapture take place i will not make even. What about you?
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@mkings (289)
• Germany
27 Nov 09
We forgive becaause the bible says we should forgive The golden rule love your brother as you love yourself.That means if you do not love your brother you will not forgive him and by so doing you do not foorgive yourself. Forgive as many time as you can to keep your live sweet
• Nigeria
27 Nov 09
You are right the bible says we should forgive so we also shall be forgiven of our sin. But did you forget after you forgive?
@MrKennedy (1978)
26 Nov 09
Because of the type of person that I am, I can forgive others quite easily, and only hold grudges if somebody has done something significantly terrible towards me. Usually, I find that it's utterly pointless to bear grudges because they serve no purpose other than to create unwanted tension and a negative atmosphere. If the person who has insulted me has apologised and is genuinely sorry, and the way in which they wronged me wasn't entirely bad, then I am more than willing to move on and forgive them. However, if that same somebody repeatedly does wrong against me or has pushed things to a whole new level of evilness, then there's more chance of them winning the Euromillions than me showing them forgiveness.
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• Nigeria
26 Nov 09
Ok, can you tell me the type of person you are? Because i can not find that in your response
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@CatsandDogs (13963)
• United States
27 Nov 09
It really depends on what was done to me if I want to forgive or not. Most often times I'll forgive but I can't always forget. Somethings are cut too deeply into my soul to be able to forgive. For an example, I was raped by three neighborhood guys when I was just 13 years old. Have I forgiven them? No. Should I? Yes in the eyes of God, I should but I just can't. Maybe some day I'll be able to but not just yet.
@CatsandDogs (13963)
• United States
27 Nov 09
Trust me, I am a Christian woman however, I am human also. I make mistakes, I don't hide that fact however, I'd like to see you get raped at such a young age by so many at once and see you be quick to forgive. It's not that easy.
• Nigeria
27 Nov 09
Hello, it is good to forgive as earlier as possible because we don't know the time that Jesus will come back or that the world will end. Did you know that anybody who die without Jesus can not enter the kingdom of God?
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@jewels49 (1776)
• United States
27 Nov 09
Because most everything is forgivable. Because I might need to be forgiven some day. It's just easier. Whe wants to walk around ticked off all the time? We all make mistakes.
• Nigeria
27 Nov 09
Yes, all sin are forgivable but there are some sin which someone can never forget like killing and some related sin. Did you believe that?
@jewels49 (1776)
• United States
27 Nov 09
I think sometimes we need to forgive just for own sakes..It doesn't mean you condone abhorent behavior, or that you forget it..just that you don't want to cary all the negative stuff with you for years and years.