why do love fails?

@umer5222 (724)
Cyprus
November 27, 2009 1:03pm CST
In early stage of relationship you will feel excited, when you gone too far both of you will encounter problems. We are humans and definitely humans are not perfect. You can never acquire all attitudes of an ideal partner. Why do love fails?
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@eubilisa (211)
• Philippines
28 Nov 09
I think the only reason why love fails is the lack of trust and because of that everything follows like you started to question your love for that person or you might get irritated on simple things like if he/she asking you something. If you lack trust to your partner then that's the end of everything unless you could bring back the trust once again.
@umer5222 (724)
• Cyprus
28 Nov 09
I appreciate everybody for this good discussion. I want to add something, I think that main reason of failing love is lack of proper communication. It plays important part of relationship because good communication brings you to close together.
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@happy2512 (1266)
• Philippines
28 Nov 09
Their are thousand of reasons we make why love fails: 1. Miscommunication you both are not open & honest enough with each other. 2. Acceptance you just can't accept whatever the behaviour, attitudes that person have you want to change the person you love. For what you can't make him the person you want to be for every human is unique & different individual. 3. Love by loving someone means loving not just the most beautiful side of him but also the most worst nightmare you can ever imagine of. Love him whole heartedly with all you life. 4. Trust no matter what is the nature of work of your love one don't be too jealous about it, its you she love not the work if you truly love her then you must trust her. This are the most important things I can remember in loving a person so that relationship will not fail. I hope you can learn from it.
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
28 Nov 09
i think love fails because not all the time that people remain to be consistent. there are people who find themselves falling out of love to their partner just because they no longer find the factors that made them fall for the person that they used to love. actually, there are so many but inconsistency for me tends contribute in ending ones' relationship.
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• China
28 Nov 09
I quitely agree with you. Love is so beautiful at the beginning, but when you go too far, you will encounter many problems. But if we learn to understand,learn to forgive, learn to treasure, some problems can be solved ! But how difficult to do !
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@madteaparty (2748)
• Japan
28 Nov 09
Love at first is always about excitement, so we don't see clearly the other person's bad points. It's when we cool down a little when we begin looking at what we hadn't noticed before. That's why many relationships fail, because you discover that the person has more bad than good points. The relationships that can survive are the ones in which there's mutual understanding, and both will accept the other one with the good and bad things, or maybe won't find those bad tings like "bad".
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• Philippines
28 Nov 09
Why do love fails? There's a lot of reason why love fails. True, the in the first stage of the relationship you get so excited. Every single details are special but days gone by you suddenly realize the there's lacking.People in nature is not contended. They always look for something. And when that happen, misunderstanding and miscommunication grows and drag the relationship to fails. The key of the relationship to be strong is TRUST, once you broke it, that will definitely fall apart.
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@skysuccess (8858)
• Singapore
28 Nov 09
umer5222, I think if I may just add that the analysis of love failures may have lessons drawn but I just do not see it an advocate for a successful relationship. Like doing business, I am sure we are not going to dwell with failed business models, but rather, associate and learn from the very best. Like memory loss, if you ever lose your memory in love, you will begin to learn how to love from day one again. And chances are, with the same mindset, personality and attitude - you will fail the same way as you failed this time round because you have threw away what you gained previously, only to deny your graduation in love. You reject lessons - you learn reiterated lessons. Success and happiness doesn't come easy - in fact, most of the time, you probably have to die fighting or surmount arduous challenges before you could transform any dreams into reality. Everybody will suffer various degrees of 'cuts' in love - nobody is spared from individual cosmic lessons. However, it's only through our injuries, we uncover more about ourselves and grow from falling. A bad outcome in love doesn't mean that we are losers in that aspect, but rather, we should all hope and work to win in the future... that's all that matters. A war is won not by perfect score of wins, but by the battles that actual count. As long as we win the war, it doesn't matter how many small scale battles we have lost. Let me wish you every success here.
@Drsunny21 (556)
• India
27 Nov 09
There are many reasons for the failure of love..A misunderstanding can coz a failure...Mutual understanding is very necessary for the relatnshp..Truth,trust and honesty is essential and as when the love is new and so both the partners are exicted for each other and they are happy becoz they feel tht my partner love n care for me...as time passes the both love each othet but the excitement is gone,as people thinks tht he/she is mine where he/she will go??so they started to fight,quarrel etc..suspicious and doubts on each other and so love breaks...If time passes then also make ur love feels tht he/she is speacial for you and will remian forever and have a mutual understanding...
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