madteaparty

@madteaparty (2749)

Japan • Age 40

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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Can you become successful whilst in a relationship?

SilverMiles @SilverMiles (12) • United States 19 Apr 13

I was wondering if it was possible to reach success while you are in a relationship. I feel like even you could be, it would be extremely difficult to do. You have to find time to focus on yourself, but at the same time not...

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madteaparty It depends on what you want to become successful in. Some jobs will require you to travel a lot, and that would mean neglecting your relationship a lot. Each person is different. Some people don't mind being far from their partners for long periods of time,...

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how about a new look, what do you think?

airasheila @airasheila (5454) • Philippines 19 Apr 13

a pleasant day fellow mylotters, a while ago, i was thinking of going to the parlor as i am planning to get my hair cut off. and due to the heat that summer brings, so i am really thinking to have my hair cut. but, when i...

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madteaparty Well, that's up to you. If you think you will miss long hair, remember that long hair canbe your ally in the summer too, as you can tie it in a bun and forget about it easily. However, with short hair you get rid of that possibility. If you prefer short hair,...

19 Apr 13

please don't turn off the air con

hotsummer @hotsummer (13359) • Philippines 19 Apr 13

i said to the people here. don't try to save money by turning of the air con. it so happened we experienced day of the year. and on the news people are suffering from heat stroke. we have the air con on one room only. when we get...

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madteaparty That doesn't make me want to live in a warm country, it sounds really awful. People tend to abuse the air conditioner, making the room temperature too low, so the difference when you get out is too big, and many people end up becoming sick because of that....

19 Apr 13

Dreams! Are they secret messages? What are they truely!

PrincesaBiznessSavy @PrincesaBiznessSavy (26) • United States 19 Apr 13

Okay so the other day me and some friends were having a very interesting and deep conversation about dreams and dreaming. Some in which were the same like we were connected in someway thinking the same at the same time! We even...

dreams

thoughts

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madteaparty I'm afraid I'm not so romantic about the topic of dreams, as not being able to dream of things we have never seen takes away any mistery about them. I dream very often, and I tend to remember my dreams well (at least for a couple of minutes after I wake up),...

19 Apr 13

My EX MISSES ME - Should I be happy with that??

Miss G @nhailojaye (207) • Philippines 19 Apr 13

I was informed that my ex-partner misses and talks about me every now and then. He even dreamed of me, I heard. WoW! What was that? What's with him this time? He even started communicating with me and really he's acting like...

life

love

relationship

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madteaparty Well, you don't seem happy about that at all. Relationships always end for a reason, and even if with time our memories become kind of distorted, and we only tend to select the good or the bad things in them, I think that is important to move on in life. If...

19 Apr 13

Again I am feeling boring at mylot

lovedude @lovedude (4447) • India 22 Jan 12

It was before almost a year.. I was feeling very bored at mylot and left for 2-3 months.. again I am feeling same boring here.. don't know why.. questions starting around is very common and may be from those subjects which are not...

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madteaparty Well, if you think you're a boring person, maybe you need to browse different websites so you will get more interesting ideas that you can share in this website. I have seen the same topics once and over and over and over again, reason why this website can...

23 Jan 12

Parents who hide the gender of their child, do you agree?

mcart82 @mcart82 (87) 21 Jan 12

Just read an article on yahoo.com, where a couple decided to hide the gender of their child for the first 5 years, because they wanted to eliminate stereotyping? The kid turned out to be a boy, but is allowed to play with dolls...

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madteaparty I find it an interesting experiment, and I'm not against it. Human society tends to stereotype too much. If a boy wants to play with dolls and wear ballerina clothes, I see no problem. Same for a girl who wants to play with model cars and wear... well, I...

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When you move towns do you stay friends?

puppynut @puppynut (370) • New Zealand 22 Jan 12

I have moved towns quite a lot in my life and sometimes I stay friends with people but other times we lose touch. Things like the internet , texting and facebook all help stay in touch long distance but with some friends when I...

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madteaparty Actually, moving to a different town -or even to a different country- is a good way to know who are your real friends and who are not. It has happened to me, to see who really want to keep on touch with you, and who wants to meet you when you come back, and...

22 Jan 12

How will 2012 end?

sirnose @sirnose (2439) • United States 21 Jan 12

Will 12-21-2012 bring the destruction of the world as we know it? Will one of the popular doomsday predictions come true? I have been hearing this talk about what is approaching us mortal beings. Here are some of the...

2012

end of the world

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madteaparty I don't know how old you are, but in my case, I have heard "predictions" of the world ending so many times during my life, that I feel like a true survivor. I feel like a super heroine! Many people are really obsessed with disasters, and they...

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Why do women get breast implants?

oscarbartoni @oscarbartoni (2581) • United States 21 Jan 12

If a woman cannot keep a man's )or woman's attention the way she is, what makes her think that a larger bra size will keep a persons attention? I have seen man small breasted women that were very sexy and attention getting and...

breast

breast enlargments

mature contents

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madteaparty I find huge artificial breasts ridiculous, but there's a reason why they exist. You only have to take a look at advertising, movies, tv series, magazines... Have you ever seen the main female character of a tv series with small breasts? -excepting in some...

22 Jan 12

The day i made dinner for a fish.

ajk111 @ajk111 (2495) 20 Jan 12

Last week i had to make dinner for a special friend i have not seen since he left for the warmer waters off Australia. Meeting up with a good friend after so long was great and the night went wonderfully as we finished off 3...

food

friends

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madteaparty I clicked on this discussion because I read "the day I made dinner for a fish", and I was wondering "how on earth do you make dinner to a fish? Aren't fishes supposed to eat raw things or specialized pet food?", but now I see that it was a wrong use of grammar...

21 Jan 12

How will u feel eating a DOG'S MEAT?

Bibispark2 @Bibispark2 (195) • Nigeria 20 Jan 12

Well,its really not new to me, i have seen a restaurant where only dog meat is sold and people go there to it,they call such joint "404" joint,i have been opportuned to see where a particular dog is being skinned,roasted and cut...

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madteaparty Well, as omnivores, humans eat all kinds of animals. Dogs are considered pets in some countries, and food in other countries, so I don't see anything wrong with eating them. People eat pigs, cows, sheeps, and other animals that in some other countries would...

21 Jan 12

Laptop cooling pads, an absolute necessity?

kris182_2000 @kris182_2000 (5445) • Canada 20 Jan 12

When I got my laptop on Wednesday, they forgot to send the cooling pad that I had ordered with it. I was told that new laptops don't need a cooling pad like the older ones do, but I'm finding that the fan is expelling pretty...

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madteaparty Well, it depends on your laptop. Many laptops nowadays have good ventilation by themselves, so it's not neccessary to use a cooling pad. I use one for mine, because my laptop is kind of old, and the fans don't work as well as they used to, so without the...

21 Jan 12

The urge to eat

stuckonu @stuckonu (726) • Philippines 18 Jan 12

I don't have any vices - I am not a drunkard, I don't smoke and don't do drugs. But sometimes I feel that I have a different kind of urge in eating. I don't consider it a vice still because I'm not giving in everytime I have the...

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madteaparty Wanting to eat often isn't any kind of eating disorder. You just like eating, and that's something normal. It happens to me all the time, craving for more food, but I have to control myself, as I don't want to end up as one of those obese people who complain...

19 Jan 12

do you use liquid eyeliner?

Cutie18f @Cutie18f (9553) • Philippines 18 Jan 12

This question of course is only meant for women members, I am sorry men, but you can give your comments as well. I have only recently learned how to use liquid eyeliner and the effect of it is great. I know that I am still a bit...

liquid eyeliner

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madteaparty I know many men who use eyeliner, but setting that apart, yes, I'm a female who uses liquid eyeliner. Pencil eyeliner tends to get smudgy easily, and it doesn't look as sharp as the liquid one. Liquid eyeliner lasts longer, and it's easier to remove afterwards...

19 Jan 12

women gets old, faster than men ?

rebel_woman06 @SIMPLYD (90794) • Philippines 9 Jan 12

Could it be that it is true? My father-in-law actually 3 years younger than my mother-in-law, looks very much older than her. Maybe it’s because he is obese , consequently slow in movement, bent from the weight of his big...

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madteaparty I think it's not a matter of gender. Some men keep looking young for a long time, and some women keep looking young for a long time too. It's mostly a combination of genetics and taking good care of your health and skin. People tend to think I'm 10 years...

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Would You Rather Skip Christmas Or Your Birthday?

anafilipa @anafilipa (79) • Portugal 8 Jan 12

Would you rather always skip Christmas or always miss your birthday? Please note that I'm speaking in terms of festivities. You wouldn't miss the birth of Jesus Christ, and you wouldn't miss the day of your birth either. :) If...

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madteaparty I would rather skip xmas over my birthday. I'm not interested in xmas, so this is a very easy decision Also, your birthday is something unique, and you have the right to have a special day a year to commemorate that you were born and you are...

9 Jan 12

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"My life is worse than yours!"

beki710 @beki710 (949) 7 Jan 12

Does anyone else out there have a friend who will always complain no matter how good their life is? I'm having a pretty rough time with housing at the moment and I posted this on my facebook just to let off some steam and see if I...

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life

problems

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madteaparty I have had "friends" like that -well, still have-, and I really hate them. They only know how to complain, when they have all that most people want but can't have. Also, if you ever want to talk about your problems, they will interrupt you all the time to say...

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a 48 year old woman is 3 months pregnant....

asliah @asliah (11137) • Philippines 7 Jan 12

greetings to all mylot user,i just want to share this,a 48 year old woman is pregnant for 3 months,and at that age of 43 it will very complicated and risky ,and the doctor says that only one could survive,meaning only one could...

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madteaparty Well, it's up to that 48 years old woman to choose who will live and who will die. If I was her, I would choose my own life over the one of a fetus that still hasn't born. I wouldn't give up to many years of life that are still to come. But that is if that...

8 Jan 12