would you marry and live with your partner even after knowing it??

India
November 28, 2009 10:20pm CST
imagine a situation in which you find out your partner has a serious problem in him/her that he/she is going to live only for a maximum of 5 years.but you people loved each other so much that you cant leave each other,after knowing the problem would you live with him/her.and even if you did,once the person has passed away will you marry again. i would definitely live with my partner and no offense,some people may think that not moving on is a foolish thing.but i cant replace or see any other girl in my wife's position. so people what will you do?
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12 responses
@carla_roa (128)
• Philippines
29 Nov 09
If I truly love that person, I would never leave him. Even if he is gonna live for a few years. Instead, I would make spend a quality time with him. Make him feel I will never leave him and will always be by his side no matter what. I would marry him it depends what we agreed on. But I would just prioritize in just being with him and enjoy the moment we are still together. If he is gone already, it would be really hard, but I think anyone has the right to move on and continue to live his/her life. If someone could be there for you, then we should not close our doors and just open up our doors to see what is up for us.
• India
29 Nov 09
i see..but dont know why my friend..i jus tcant picture another woman instead of the girl i love..i know it might sound foolish.but i cant do it..
• United States
1 Dec 09
I would definitely still live with him, even after knowing that he has a serious problem. I would want to spend as much time with him as I can. Once he passes away, I honestly won't know if I could move on. I think for me personally, it depends on if I find another person I could imagine spending the rest of my life with, but from the moment he passes on, I don't know if I really could be with anyone else. At least not for quite a while.
@ameng328 (66)
• China
30 Nov 09
If i reall love him and he loves me too,i'll stay with him.But the end will be really sad i should say.Anyway,i hope that such thing never happen to me.
@happy2512 (1266)
• Philippines
30 Nov 09
If I were in your position I will surely marry her & spend the last years of her life meaningfully. Its so hard to tell if I will get married again but time heals & we are not looking forward for that for we know our partner is irreplaceable but if someone comes along my way who make my heart fall in love again why not at least I've tried loving for the second time. That's my own opinion.
@ToniTsui (39)
30 Nov 09
I won't give him up in case he has a serious promblem such as disease .It's my responsibility to take care him when he was in trouble .otherwise he will be left alone .it should be that ,isn't it ? But I could marry again if my parner pass away ,I would be lonely if nobody stand by my side .but It doesn't mean the new one occupy his position
@locohboi (55)
• Philippines
30 Nov 09
i love my partner so very much.if she have only 5 years from and she will die?i rather spending my time to him to make our last moment in our relationship.i will marry him to make him happy for the last 5 years that she will live.if you love him so much you will do anything for him to make him happy,take a little sacrifice for him because that's not hes fault that she will last only a 5 years.
@pxm204192 (160)
• China
30 Nov 09
oh,your partner and you have a serious situation,the case can be very implicatical case,whether it is simply or complicate,are all belong to your thinking,whether you think of him is the most important or not,is belong to your attitude or decision.you are be a adult, you can be responsiblity to your behaviour and your decision.this is a your dicision.
@happy6162 (3009)
• United States
29 Nov 09
Yes, I would stay with my partner and enjoy everyday that we have together. I would move on with my life after he/she has passed away. I do not think though that I would get married again. Lots of people move on with their lives but never get married again it is up to the individual whether they want to be married again.
• Philippines
29 Nov 09
True love surpasses the beyond and the unknown. If you really love her, then you would only love one person and that's only her no buts and no ifs. Even if it means spending 5 years with her. Just make those 5 years the best 5 years that both of you ever have! Treasure every moment you shared together. Remember, every single day spent is another day worth of happiness to live and treasure by.
@free_man (7335)
• United States
29 Nov 09
Hello Dhinilshanker. Yes I would live with my honey even in a situation like this. I don't think anyone can ever replace my honey. I won't ever get married again. I have had the best and the worst and this is the best person I have ever had in my life. So I don't think I will ever fall in love again. This is the only person I can see my life with. I would live what time I had with my honey no matter how much time it is.
@madteaparty (2757)
• Japan
29 Nov 09
Everyone's gonna die sooner or later, so that wouldn't be an impediment for me to live with my partner. If we have little time to spend together, at least let's enjoy it to the max! After that person passing away... I would probably have to go on with my life. It's hard to know if I would get a new partner or not, but only time can tell.
@weasel81 (2500)
• Australia
29 Nov 09
you never know when life can be taken from you, something as simple as going to the shops can end in tradgey. it would be like finding the person you love has cancer, i wouldn't be walking out on them. there's plenty of people who marry again, i know a friends father remarried with in a few yrs after losing his wife. they'd been married for over 40 yrs as well. i wouldn't be in a hurry to remarry, but you never know when you'll find some one.