If you could change anything about your partner what would it be?

I would change the fact that I don't have one. Grumpiness. That would be me not him probably. I have not had a partner for nearly fifteen years.**NOTE: I think you otta think back over your other posting on why your partner is grumpy. **END OF NOTE. Okay so we all get grumpy from time to time. I know I do.

The one thing that I would like to change about my husband is his acting like a baby when he doesn't feel well. I've now been a mother for seven years and since the day that my oldest daughter was born, I haven't been allowed to have a sick day. I just have to grin and bear the fact that I don't feel well. If I didn't go to work it meant that Kathryn didn't go to the babysitter even though I was sick. He, however, is constantly complaining when he doesn't feel good. I think that if he were able to go through just one week of being a mother and seeing how the responsibilities of being a mother trump everything else in our lives, then he would be a better husband.

Wouldnt and didnt change a thing about him nor did he try to change me. dont do any good to try and change any one as that is the person you feel in love with just they way they are!

The one and only thing I would love to change in my partner is that he stop talking so much. He loves to talk and talk and talk. It can get so annoying after a whie. I know there are partners out there that don't talk enough at all which that too can be annoying. If only they can be in the middle when it came to communication.

The only thing that I would wanna change about my partner is his dry skin. My goodness, we've tried everything - all kinds of body butter and what-not , and his skin is still oh so dry. Especially on the knuckles area. Granted the boy doesn't put on lotion unless i tell him to. Anyway, other than that - I wouldn't change anything about him. He's not perfect but he's perfect for me. And that's all that matters.

the fact he thinks he knows everything,and he doesn't,,and i'd also like him to lose a couple of stone,coz the bed is getting a bit cramped at the moment,he has 3/4's and i have 1/4

I'd have him stand up for himself and for us, a bit more. Sadly the poor guy has had a few really confrontational divorces, with the confrontations turning into attacks, rather than the parties just standing up for what they believe in, thus he'll avoid confrontation at all costs, even if it means letting a wrong person walk all over him. I am trying to teach him how to confront without attacking, and how to calmly stand up for himself if someone does attack.

I would love it if he'd quit smoking. The rest although sometimes annoying, I can tolerate.

My husband is a Vietnam vet who has Post Traumatic Stress Disorder so he can be irritable for no reason, or quickly become irritable over something minor. If I could change anything about him I would change that. He stresses himself out over things that he shouldn't and I'm the one who has to listen to him rant and rave when he's upset. At least he's smart enough not to rant and rave about me!