I am lost, my husband cheated on me but its worst....

United States
December 2, 2009 10:02pm CST
I am having a hard time writing this. I just found out that my husband who fathered my 2 babies have another woman who is expecting.. I don't know how to cope... I'm sorry guys, I can't keep writing.. It's really hard for me to deal with the news....
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@celticeagle (156265)
• Boise, Idaho
3 Dec 09
I would think there was something seriously wrong with you IF YOU DIDN'T have a problem writing what you just wrote. I am SOOOOO very sorry to hear that you have a jerk for a husband. How dare he father these children with you and then go out and do the same thing with someone else. I would try to maintain but kick him to the curb as soon as possible. Start stashing money honey! And, remember this little tid-bit: Once he has been caught doing this he may try to engratiate himself back into your good graces. DOn't let it happen! Once a jerk always a jerk! DOn't go for it!
@celticeagle (156265)
• Boise, Idaho
3 Dec 09
But you aren't going to let him away with this are you? I mean in time you are going to kick him to the curb,right? We just can't let men get away with this sort of thing!!!!
• United States
3 Dec 09
No, if there is no trust, there is no relationship.. It's too complicated to just let him back into my life... I cannot forgive him for it.. I am sad for my babies.... My babies... I can't see him or speak to him and yet, my babies....
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• United States
3 Dec 09
Thank you.. It's hard and because it's sooo fresh, it hurts.. I know time will let me heal...
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@lyzabelle (1668)
• Philippines
3 Dec 09
I'm so sorry about your situation...that must be very hard on your part. The hardest thing is when you love that person deeply. You been a good wife and mother to your children. You work very hard to make the marriage a blissful union only to find out that your husband is cheating and soon will have another baby from other woman. My only advice is for you to be strong...just for your children's sake. I really hope you can make it...you are strong...I know you are. Just Pray...
• United States
3 Dec 09
Thank you.. I was starting to wonder why this happened.. I did everything I could as a woman.. I guess I wasn't enough... I can't let my 2 babies see me this way.. But I know with time I can make it... But it stings so much now...
• United States
3 Dec 09
I would cut off my arm to take away this heartache... My god, I am sooo... unconsolable.......
• United States
3 Dec 09
Sweety - I am sorry this happened to you. The most important thing you can do is stay strong for your kids. Set a good example for them. You don't want them to stay with a spouse that wandered. I would leave your husband, but that is just me. It is awful when children are involved. Maybe try group counseling to get through this?
• United States
3 Dec 09
I don't know if therapy will help me now.. I just want to hurt him... I can barely see this screen because of all the tears that I have... It's awkward to talk to strangers but I didn't want my family to find out yet... What hurts more is that his family knew and did not tell me.... I can't...
• United States
3 Dec 09
You have two choices now: your husband, or your babies? Don't waste another tear on him, and don't question yourself as a wife or a mother. You are a strong woman, and he had the problem. Let him be someone else's problem. You have to pull together, and put all that extra love you had for your husband into yourself, and your babies. And don't involve yourself with his family either. They sound like jerks. The hard part is the baby with another woman. That baby had no choice in any part of this, and deserves a father, too. So, being the strong woman that you are, have a place in your heart knowing that. You have your mylot supporters, and when you are ready, tell your own family. Until then, work on getting his stuff put in trash bags and leave them on the front yard. How did you find out?
• United States
29 Dec 10
I am sorry to hear that. Awful news really. You could monetize your situation by going on Maury or springer. Only kidding. But you really could move to Texas and get away with shooting him(only an idea not a suggestion). You should sleep with his best friend or brother and take a picture that you could turn into a Christmas card.