It hurt to say goodby
December 4, 2009 7:29am CST
i had a relationship with this certain person. and last night it was the last time that i held her hand. It breaks my heart seeing her walking away from me. I dunno but maybe its t9ime for me to move on and focus on my carreer.
11 Jan 10
What if letting her go is going to hurt her more than keeping the relationship but with you being "busy"? Maybe she is "the woman behind the man" that sort of lady, who is willing to be around when you need her and yet not disturb you when you need to focus on your work? Did you ask her opinion by being very honest to her about what you can give and what you cannot. I think you should let her decide for herself if she wants to go separate because of what you can't give.
10 Jun 10
Precisely, you are right. It hurts to say goodbye to the person you once loved and became part of your life. On my part, I have a new bf now, but I can say it hurts still that I let go and hurt my fiancee's feelings. It hurts me that I have to break his heart and our plans. It hurts that I had to choose to start anew than continuing a relationship that is supposed to lead into marriage.
5 Dec 09
yes it is hard to let someone go, but from there you should analyze the situation no matter how much it hurts you so that you learn from this experience... focusing on your career is a good thing but even in that don't get so caught up with you career that you block out that next girl in front of you... let this experience make you stronger...