how can be friends after be refused

@moment (60)
China
December 4, 2009 8:21pm CST
i failed to have a crush on a boy. he said we will be good friends forever. i clearly know he wanted to comfort me. i hate this saying. i even prefer a cold response, which can make me totally give up.and how can stand in front of him as a friend? i guess i will be broken heart
2 responses
@guizoo (74)
• China
5 Dec 09
Oh my god! Take care,God will bless you! Hi moment,I was also rejected by someone,at first I feel grieved but now I come back my regularation.If it is not written in your life to get the love,just take it easy . It is time that can cure all your griefs. God bless you!
@moment (60)
• China
5 Dec 09
you must have a strong heart. and now, what do you learn from the hard process?can you share with me?
@guizoo (74)
• China
6 Dec 09
Hi buddy, Hee hee... I am eager to share my feelings with you . After I was disgraced,I meditated that perhaps we were not written together by the Lord,so I think I will encounter a more appropriate one to share sweet love with me! So now ,you does not have to keep the grief,I am convinced you will also meet you ture love soon. Just look at the failure love as a fancy dream,and enjoy your coming true love!
@madteaparty (2748)
• Japan
5 Dec 09
That's a pretty difficult situation. Even if I have tried to be friends with people who have had crushes on me, it has never worked, as the other party can never see me as a friend, and knowing that I will never see that person as anything else than a friend will hurt, and in the end the relationship tends to break. It doesn't always have to be like that, depends on the effort of both parties to make it work as simple friendship.
@moment (60)
• China
5 Dec 09
I even don't know whether i hope to be friends with him