Did you care about your gf/bf younger than you?

Malaysia
December 7, 2009 7:30pm CST
Did you really care about your girl friend or boy friend are older than you? How many ages did you prefer your boy friend or girl friend younger or older than you? Have a nice day to you all.
10 responses
• Philippines
8 Dec 09
Hi. My husband and I have almost the same age. But he is younger than me by almost three months. Age doesn't matter with us because we were both mature enough when we got married at the age of 28. By the way, today is our first year wedding anniversary.
• Malaysia
8 Dec 09
Yup, you are right. The true love should not care about the difference of the age. It doesn't matter when we are find our true love. I am happy to hear about people have a good relationship and good family. Hope you both can holding each other hand no matter what challenge you are facing, and I sure you both will have a very happy wedding anniversary.
• Philippines
8 Dec 09
Many thanks for the best wishes. Much appreciated.
• Malaysia
8 Dec 09
i'm a lady but i think that the stage of age can impact the mind thinking. i really can't accept that immature guy or a childish boyfriend or as my soul mate even even can break with he not mature than me because i need a real man to guide me to lead me to the future life, at least i won't regret. this is my personal opinion. have a nice day...
• India
8 Dec 09
As every one said that age is no matter for lovers, i am older then my fiance and their is 6 yr difference between us but i didnt see any problem yet( I believe we cant feel any problem whole life ).In start we are just friend , very fast we will fall in love and today we are engaged and he care me alot same i do.
• Malaysia
8 Dec 09
You have a sweet relationship....good. Yup, all people here are agree that age doesn't play as factor as long as we know what we are doing. If we are mature enough, we understand that we are really love and it is a true love, it will not be a problem. Good..this is life. haha hope you both have a happy day and happy mylotting.
• India
8 Dec 09
Thanks a lot! Same YOU All the best
@elokps (138)
• Indonesia
8 Dec 09
For me it's no matter if my boyfriend is younger or older than me. Age is only a number. Mostly I have boyfriend younger than me and it's about 5 to 10 younger. Now I have a problem , there's a boy who love me but he is only 19 and I'm now 36 years old he..he..he.. I just wondering if I walk with him then it coud be aunty and nephew or mother and son he..he..he.. He is so confuse but I told him that it will not work so we should end this relationship.
• Malaysia
8 Dec 09
Hmm...until now all people are agree to say that age are not a problem in a relationship. Good... me too, agree with you. Elokps, I am sure you are very brave in your relationship. Not all people can accept their boy friend are younger than her about 17 year old, but for you, at least you have a try. Good, I sure you will have a better life and better partner in future. Happy mylotting.
@RyanneD (189)
• United States
8 Dec 09
I don't think that age matters at all. I think that as long as you can connect to the person on an emotional and intelectual level then you're good to go. My husband is 7 and half years older than me, my dad is 13 years older than my mom, and I have a really good friend who is 8 years older than her boyfriend. In my opinion, if both people involved in the relationship are adults then age shouldn't play a factor. But that's just me...
• Malaysia
8 Dec 09
Hmm...you are right. Many people are not consider age as the problem in a relationship as long as they both are adults because they understand what they are doing. True love are not easy to be found, if we found it, it think we should not care about the age. haha happy mylotting.
@anniege (203)
• China
8 Dec 09
i think age difference is not the problem as long as the two has no generation gap:p. But most girl prefer boys who is a lottle older than her. Because girl like man who is muture and can supply a shoulder. Happy mylotting!
• Malaysia
8 Dec 09
Yup. Most of my friend are prefer their boy friend are older than them. But for me, I also agree with you that if we find someone we love, age are not the problem. Man should also be dependable and mature. Have a nice day for you.
• Canada
8 Dec 09
I rather not date younger guys. However, that might have something to do with parent brainwashing. My dad is younger than my mom by about 3 month and my mom always tell me to look for someone older or else its like taking care of a kid. lol. I think that might just be my mom complaining, but i think it might have had an effect on me. I don't know. hehe. But.. yeah. I think i would rather go out with someone older. Though... i never know. Love is a crazy thing.. so im not going to limite myself. In a hypothetical situation, if there are two exact same guys only with different age, one older than me and one younger than me. I think i would go with the older one. Then again....where would i find two of exact same person with different birth dates -.- Also, it might have something to do with maturity. I want someone im dating to be dependable and well knowledged. Not someone who is a kid..you know. haha. yeah
• Malaysia
8 Dec 09
Haha, yup. Sometime the person who older than you, might have the quality to dependable, more responsibility and more mature. I am not the girl, but I think girl always don't like her boy friend just like a kid. She need someone can take care about her. However, love...we never know. Haha this is life and we should enjoy it. Have a nice day for you.
• China
9 Dec 09
Yeah, I really don't care. In fact, I met my cool boyfriend on the club _Agegaplove . com , he is 12 year older than me. But we love each other deeply. We are going to marry this christmas~ So Wonderful!
@simonelee (2716)
• China
9 Dec 09
Hi, there. Sometimes I do but i can't help but to fall in love with my partner. My partner is 1 month and 1 day younger than me so it's fine. I guess its okay to have a partner younger than you as long as you both love each other and the love and respect are still there. But, its abnormal if you fell in love with school age girl/boy and you are in college.lol that's another story.
@IamSamm (74)
• Indonesia
8 Dec 09
I do care and quite picky on this one , i won't consider a younger guys into a serious relationship i'm into Men about 4-10 years older than me. the more experienced the better right?teehee. I also think older men are more understanding and patient in encountering problems and troubles.
@DenverLC (1146)
• Philippines
8 Dec 09
As being heard often, age doesnt matter. What matters most is you love each other deeply, and both are not ashame to shout to the world their real feelings. So long as the age gap is not really far, it is okay.Love is a magic sometimes it will make possible an impossible one.