What is the worst thing that anyone has done to you?

@borg246 (539)
Malta
December 8, 2009 12:24pm CST
This I'm sure everyone would have experienced at least once in their lives. I myself had something that was terribly done to me. In my case, I had no idea that my brother was stealing money from me to buy cars. I had not noticed at first that my money was going down but I did question my brother why he had suddenly begun to own so many wonderful cars. One day, I came across a loan that I had to pay and when I saw that I had no money I became very worried. It was then when I had remembered that I had trusted my brother with my bank account and credit card just incase he ever needed it. Buying cars was not a need! So i quickly went to his door and starting arguing with him. In the end, I forced him to sell several of his cars and the loan could now be paid. The fact that he never told me, made me unable to ever forgive him. How about you? Has anyone ever done something really bad to you?
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@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
8 Dec 09
What a wicked thing for him to do. I once lived with someone (early 90s) who had hold of the rent book. I trusted him to pay my half of the rent, and his, whilst I was at work. One day I went downstairs (we lived above a shop) to pay my half of the rent when the landlord politely proceeded to tell me something like "that makes a change, you paying." I asked him what he meant and he said, "well that boyfriend of yours has been paying his share but you choose not to pay yours!" I then said, "who is the major breadwinner out of me and Steve, why would I not pay the rent?" then stormed off back upstairs to the flat. To say I was gobsmacked at this revelation was an understatement! I then proceeded to take a look at the rent book. In it I noticed we were in arrears by at least £300. Then it dawned on me what had been happening. This low life I was living with was paying MY £50 each week, pretending it was his and telling the landlord that it was me who was falling behind, when, in fact it was the other way round. One night when he was working (and probably nicking from) the video shop next door I decided to leave him. Dad came to pick me up and I placed a few things in the boot including two televisions. Steve (the lowlife) came storming round the corner and said, "You could at least leave me one of the televisions!" I was astounded at this comment and told him that they were in my name so there was nothing he could do about it. That was all he was bothered about, the tellys!! I found out off his sister that he was spending money using his Nan's credit card (she was in a home) and he'd sold, on the sly, some of my vinyl LPs that he said were stored in the loft. Last, but my no means least an electricity bill wormed its way to my Mum's house after I left him. Because I worked for the Council (and on the Electoral Roll) I was able to be traced. Steve wasn't. It was his bill from a previous flat but he chose not to pay it as - in the leccy board's words "it was in both names." So he got away with not paying £400 as well! Yes, I am too trustworthy by far! At least I rescued the cat...if he kept it he would've hidden him under the floorboards. :-(
@borg246 (539)
• Malta
9 Dec 09
Why that isn't really nice, and especially unfair. The 400 quid is a pretty hefty sum of money to pay and since it wasn't exactly your to pay, it made it even more unfair. I'm glad that you gave a positive side on this, saving the cat. Sometimes you can't really trust anyone except yourself. That's why you have to be careful with the important things that you might share with others.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
9 Dec 09
well i havent faced the situation you explained in your discussion but i have seen a close relative of ours who tried to cheat my dad by taking signatures on bonded papers and later he has cleverly written on thsoe stating that my father had donated two third of his property to him and he is so cruel that he filed a case against us stating that we were trying to kill him but later we have tried to prove him that he was guilty but it took 4 long years to win tthe case and he is in the jail for fraud and Theft,Misguiding the court by providing false proofs.gud day.
@umer5222 (724)
• Cyprus
8 Dec 09
When i was child, i was not taking interest in my education, and got poor result in first terms in 7 class, my mom scolded me, opened the toilet door, and i was thrown into toilet, then she locked me for many hours, I was weeping, crying, but i agreed with her to study and home work daily. Then i started to take interest in education, Thanks to my mom,who guided me and became harsh to me, i am now doing MBA in finance, otherwise my eduction would upto 7th class. This is day, i still remembers.
@arystine (1273)
• Philippines
9 Dec 09
The worst thing that a person did to me is when that person whom I trusted made up stories about me and spread those stories to other people. The other people believed her because she is my relative. They did not know that is she is a backstabbing person in disguise.
@IamSamm (74)
• Indonesia
8 Dec 09
My ex-bf cheated on me with his aunt for a year and i didn't know it. Worse part is i actually stand up for him when his husband confront him,i was "foolish-Ly" unaware and believe his word that the whole thing not true.But i am blessed i found out and very blessed to have a trustworthy men by my side now,bad things always lead to a better one! i take it as a life lesson.
• United States
8 Dec 09
I don't know how you did not notice that money. I would hope you can find some help for that loss. I hate to find out people are being robbed. I was raped in the past and I will never get over it.
@evydabest (197)
• Malta
8 Dec 09
Wow, how could you have not noticed that he was taking so much money out of your bank account. Anyway, i too have a story, but its probably quite a common one considering its based on my school time in college. Well basically, i knew that a lot of random things happen in college, usually more random than everyday life. So basically, once upon a time i had this girlfriend, who i really got to know well. We where like the usual couple - lost in our dreams- you get the idea. A month later on a pin point day, she just vanished. I tried calling her, no response. Later i figured she had stolen all my savings i had in my home and the cash i had in my wallet the previous day. Still don't know where she ran off to till today.