how do you feel when somebody tells against your parents?

I don't like it when somebody talks against my parents. My parents have all teh weakness like any other human being. There are tiems when I criticized them. I believe that I have all right to talk against them, not to otheres, but directly to them, if I don't like something. I don't like if anybody else talk against them other than my siblings. I can't take it even if it is my husband, but sometims I have to accept the truth.

It's nature for people trying to keep family honor. We have an old saying here: bad things only keep in family. Those gossips are always no good but harmful to the family members. Try to neglect those gossips, it not worth doing it. If you do fight back, people will think oh it's true, he's so care about it. Don't mind of those nonsanse ok?

Of course I feel very bad when hearing some bad words about my parents. However, I'm never agressive like you. I'm taught that the anger will take the wisdom away. If it's just a bad name, I won't care. If it's a criticism, I'll verify the trust and make clear the misunderstandings. Yes, I know my parents are human, they can' be perfect and they can make mistakes. I try to defend them, though sometime I can't. But anyway, I love them no matter how they are.

Definitely,I also hold a lot of respect for my parents and feel very dejected when somebody says anything bad about my parents.I also become angry so much and wish to teach a good lesson to that person.I mean, why do people talk rubbish, can't they be cool.It's really very hurting.

I would get very angry if someone was saying something negative about my parents. I am not sure I would want to kill them. I would honesyly depend on the circumstances and what was being said and by who. I am an upfront and passionate person and my parents are gone but I would respect their name.

Whenever I hear someone talk about my parents, I usually think it's a joke so after they would have said it I would ask them to repeat the question, If they do repeat it and say it like they mean it, I will get very angry and lose my temper, and not only will I hit the guy but in return, I would automatically say bad things about his mom/dad too so that he also feels bad. I hate it when a fight has to erupt because of this, but everyone has a right to protect their feelings.

humm. think i understand this.. but it depends what they say about my family and who in my family. but one thing that will get me upset more is when someone calls me a son of a bitc& but to me i wouldnt kill them it shows how ill manner they are. but i will stand up for my family honor unless its my one brother

Hi vivekkumarnayak! I do feel bad when someone talks something bad about my family. I sometimes get furious but my family is so cool and just ignore them. Perhaps, who the hell are they? I know my family better than them. And if I'll take revenge on them, I might end up in jail. I don't want to be like their mentalities so I just let it go.

LOL... Do u angry that much? I just feel uncomfortable if my parent's name become my calling name. It is like insulting... But I'm proud of my family name, if someone call me that way, it is very ok!!!