How long should I wait before I give up on my one true love?

love - that sinking feeling
@anyket (106)
India
December 10, 2009 12:41pm CST
Some people go through the majority of their life looking for the one special person, they have always dreamed about meeting. some people find that love, the majority of people do not. If you cannot find that one true love, then why not look for the second best? sometimes, second best can lead into number one....this is what my friends tell me...but i am still confused.please help me out friends.
4 responses
@MJAL08 (275)
11 Dec 09
well no one knows specifically when how and who but it will come. No need to rush. Love is a kind of thing that comes naturally.
@anyket (106)
• India
11 Dec 09
i hope its true
• United States
11 Dec 09
i think that's a great idea. settle. sometimes you don't find a one true love, this is what i think. but i think that we will always want more. without wanting more, how could anything more come into being? but also i think that sometimes we find love where we least expect, like some guy will come along, and you won't think. but then you'll get together and fall in love. or something! i don't know, maybe. sometimes you have to stop looking and work with what you have.
@anyket (106)
• India
11 Dec 09
but i think that would be like compromising my life
@milkfish (371)
• Philippines
11 Dec 09
Hi anyket! I believe in destiny, if love finds you worthy, it will lead its way to you. You do not come looking for it, it will find you. I do not believe in putting tag or labelling love e.g. True Love, second best love, etc. In every relationship we have, we should treat it as our one true love. It is onlywhen we giove it our second best that it also becomes second best. Love is pure and ultimate in its own sense, it is only human that put labels on it.
@anyket (106)
• India
11 Dec 09
but i think i have to listen to my heart to do that and i am listening more and more to my mind.
• Ecuador
10 Dec 09
well i just can tell that when it comes it really comes trust me