You ever felt bad?

India
December 13, 2009 10:55am CST
Have you felt bad after doing something? These days a friend of mine is getting troubles due to me.I did something that i cant tell here,and due to which my friend's parents took his cellphone,and everything. Now i am felling bad but i cant even tell him.
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12 responses
• United States
13 Dec 09
I know what you feel. Once I sneak one of my friend into this party which she wasn't allow to go. Then somehow her parents found out and kick her out of their house for few days
• India
14 Dec 09
Thanks for responding.Yeah actually we're also having some drinks which were not allowed and someone saw us.He was a relative of my friend.And rest is the story.I am hoping that he and his family would not have misunderstood me
@mtvmtv (600)
• India
13 Dec 09
Hi badman006, What does you name indicate?Absolutely opposite topic.Well,by heart you seems good too.Because you are worrying about you friend who has been punished due to your mistake.As you have confessed you fault,don't feel guilty because it is from bottom of your heart.Try to avoid this sort of mistake next time. Any good person by heart will feel bad when makes any mistake.
• India
14 Dec 09
Actually my first name is Badal.Thats why..:D Thanks for you response,I really appreciate what you said.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
13 Dec 09
badman006 yes of course,most of us have been there and done that.it is best to apologize for it and go on your own way. While you of course need not tell us, if you tell your friend it might just be he will accept your abject apology and once more you can be' good friends.
• India
14 Dec 09
We're still good friend,but no contact after that case happened.I,actually wanted to be sorry to his parents,I dont know how should i tell them.
• India
13 Dec 09
one direct solution i can say to you dear and i hope not but can say that it will work. ok you would not like to share what have you done. i am not asking you to share it with us. but keep one thing in mind that each and every person do mistakes in their life so you have done as well. some does big mistakes and some smalls ok you have done big mistake. you are feeling guilt for the mistake that is greatest thing. don't feel it with us. but just share this guiltiness with your friend and his parents directly. tell them that you have mistakenly done it and promise him that you will never do such things in your life. and really you should get a lesson from this mistake. i hope his father will understand and will forgive you and your friend as well. apart from this you will get credit in his parents eyes. i hope you could have understood my words. happy mylotting.
• India
14 Dec 09
I cant go directly to his parents and tell the whole story.We were quite disappointed that time.That's why we drunk.And this thing I really cant tell them directly.
@1denny (34)
• United States
13 Dec 09
Hey badman006, I figure since you feel bad about what happened, your a pretty good guy. The only way I know to get rid of this feeling is to find a way to rectify the situation to the best of your ability. Part of friendship is forgiveness, being a man takes guts to face up to stuff even when its not so pleasant. Guilty feelings are unnecessary baggage that weigh me down and keep me from being who I really am. We all blow it at one time or another, hopefully we can learn from our mistakes so it don't happen no more. Good luck!
• India
14 Dec 09
Thanks for your help.Well I am trying to find a solution,so that everything go well again.
@ankush19 (154)
• India
14 Dec 09
hi dude.. something similar happened to me a couple of months ago.. but at last wat i did was to confess coz the guilt feeling was jus killing me from within.. so i had go and confess..and to my surprise,nothing bad happend.. things r normal now n i don't hav ne bad feelings in my mind now.. so itz better u go n confess..
@dodo19 (47082)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
13 Dec 09
I know exactly how you feel. There are times, when I do things to only regret them later. I have a bit of guilt complex. For this reason, these stupid things that I've done bug me for quite some time. It takes me a while to let it go. So, I know exactly how you feel. I can easily relate to what you are saying.
@Orea15 (281)
• United States
14 Dec 09
We all make mistakes, and sometimes terrible ones. It's awful to do something that hurts someone else, and we really should feel bad about it. That is a signal from our better nature that we blew it. Since we can't usually undo what we did, the best we can do most of the time is to learn from it and go on to live a better life. If you can think of a way to make amends to the person you harmed, please do so. It's only fair.
• Philippines
13 Dec 09
Feeling bad after doing something that affects or hurts another person also happens to me. In my case, sometimes I say hurting words which cause pain to another. If I am in the wrong, I apologize and try make up for the wrong thing I have said or done in order to restore the friendship and relationship. Try to be honest about what you feel to your friend by talking to him to clarify matters. If you truly believe that you did wrong, you can apologize, try to restore your friendship and do not do the same thing again.
@kaylachan (57829)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
13 Dec 09
I think everyone experences some form of regret when it comes to something they did or didn't do. The best thing you can do, is try not to let the gulit bother you so much. Find a way to contact this person to clear the air. So they lost their cell phone, that's really not a big deal. Perhaps there are other ways of contacting them. You should at least make more of an effort to do so You'll feel better for it if you do.
@snafushe (791)
• Canada
14 Dec 09
I feel bad about a lot of things and I feel really guilty really easily. All I will have to do is be short with some one or speak rudely to some one and I will immediately feel so bad for the rest of the day. This one time I was going on and on about how I felt so fat because I ate so much food that day, and I was only joking. I didn't see my friends girlfriend standing right behind me who is over weight and has a lot of issues with it. I just saw her face fall and I felt terrible! I tried apologizing a million times but the damage had already been done, that's a moment I really wish I could take back.
@xizhilang (106)
• China
14 Dec 09
i can understand you.You should think overall.