being single

@dolyares (178)
Philippines
December 18, 2009 6:25am CST
Hello myloters, I want to ask if how long have you been single in your entire life? I have friend who are 28 now and yet still single, she didnt know why.
7 responses
sarentt
@sarentt (16)
• United States
23 Dec 09
I'm 21 and never had a boyfriend and only went on one date that did not end in anything. So, I've been single all my life :)
dolyares
@dolyares (178)
• Philippines
23 Dec 09
Hey its okay if it didnt ended as a relationship. Dont foce yourself to go on a relationship just to have a boyfriend, its not good. Dont mind those people who ar mocking just because youre single, so what if we are single, does it hurt them, do they care, they are affected, then sorry to them,eheheh
Autumnne
@Autumnne (59)
• Romania
20 Dec 09
Single, well I may or may not count since I'm 19 and never had a boyfriend but from the people I know, they're single because they want to. Either to concentrate on college or work and consider that having a girlfriend or a boyfriend is just "too bothersome at the moment".
dolyares
@dolyares (178)
• Philippines
23 Dec 09
I have been single too for more than a year too, and its quite good, you can move freely, you can do anything you want.
my_name_is_coco
@my_name_is_coco (4334)
• Philippines
19 Dec 09
I have been single for almost 3 years now.I think there is nothing wrong with being single.in fact,it's fun.you can be as selfish as you want.you have nobody to please but yourself.I think your friend should just take it easy.have fun and discover new things and friendships.it will make her very happy.
dolyares
@dolyares (178)
• Philippines
23 Dec 09
Yes! theres nothing wrong for being single right? and its really fun i think you can go anywhere you want without telling to your boyfriend, without asking permission if he'll gonna let you go anywhere,ahahah.
trilliansramblings
@trilliansramblings (160)
• United States
18 Dec 09
I'm 26 and I've been single my whole life. I've only been on two dates. Men just don't show an interest in me. It makes me very sad. I have a lot of love to give, but I seem destined to be alone my entire life.
dolyares
@dolyares (178)
• Philippines
19 Dec 09
Hi tril, Do you have preferences in looking for a boyfriend?
umabharti
@umabharti (3972)
• India
18 Dec 09
hi friend, life is different for each and every person.so may be that friend of urs has some view .if we dont know the right opinion about that person having such view about being single,we should not point out her .i am also like ur friend and i am elder to that friend and i am also single.Life changes every second.hope for the best for ur friend.
dolyares
@dolyares (178)
• Philippines
18 Dec 09
He want to go into a relationship but no one has ever have the courage to court her. And sometimes she pity herself for that.
Phadagour
@Phadagour (149)
• India
18 Dec 09
I am single too, this is not because I want to be single, but because I don't know how to get a girl friend.
dolyares
@dolyares (178)
• Philippines
19 Dec 09
Hi phad, oh is that so, maybe you can get help from your friends or relatives who are famous to have many girl friend. Have you try to court someone in your life already?
HansonFan
@HansonFan (1653)
• United States
12 Jan 10
I am 21, almost 22, and still single. I used to think there was something wrong with me but I have come to realize that I am more mature that most of the guys around me. I dont drink and do one night stands or anything like that and Im in college. I go to school, go to work, hang out with friends, do homework, and the cycle starts over again. I hope that once I get out of college and get a real job and a life I will find someone out there but I have learned to have patience so I am sure the right guy will come into my life sometime in the future. Though I hope he pops up sooner rather than later.